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Hey i'm Jake, but my friends call me Stratten. I love to party and have hell of a good time lol. I'm a pretty outgoing guy and pretty easy to get along with. Also, I like to surf and go to the beach. Yes I am gay and fucking proud of it. This is my last year of high school and I have been through my share of good and bad experiences. So, I'll try to answer your questions the best I know how. Don't be afraid to leave one in the inbox ;)

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Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do?

Well since he is gay you should just move on because you will never have a chance to take things further.
Go out with other guys and pretty soon you won't have to worry about having feeling for him besides being his friend.
Something similar happened to me. This girl confessed her feelings for me, but i didn't feel the same way because i'm gay. She ended up going out with another guy and now we are just friends, so everyhing worked out great.
Goodluck
-Jake

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I think that I might be bi.. But I dont want to be! what do I do?

I am female by the way

thanks..

Everyone expieriments. It could have been just a one time thing. You see, i've always known i liked guys...so if you just started to have these feelings then don't rush it. You don't have to put a label on yourself yet.
Do you feel sexually attracted to girls?
What is important is that you explore your sexuality in a way that makes you feel comfortable.
I mean if you don't want to be then do what makes you happy.
-Jake
Being bi isn't a bad thing lol

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I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much

Well he is probably confused right now.
But that's not an excuse for what he did.
He was still kissing someone other than you, regardless if it was a boy or girl. You should defiantly confront him.
-Jake

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So me and this guy had been flirting for awhile. It was like we were going out. It was so much fun. All I want to do this year is have fun which means flirting with guys. So, one day he dropped the bomb and asked me if I wanted a boyfriend I simply said no. Well, he got all mad at me and nothing as been the same ever since. So, just the other day we were online and we got in a little fight. He told me he doesn't care about what I say and he called me a *itch. It hurt my feelings so bad and I can't stop thinking about it. What can I do to forget him or maybe win him back? We have a party this Saturday...

He sounds sensitive lol
Just tell him that it wasn't him, you just don't want to date anyone period. Also tell him what he said really hurt you.
-Jake

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