well i like this guy and i think theres a possibilty he could like me.
when he texts me he usually asks me something about school, but then we lead into another convoersation, could that mean hes interested.
also in school the other day he sat next to me, and him and i and this other kid were talking about who he likes, and i was like "oh you like her" and he was like "nah too old" then the other kid was like "what about kelly" and he was like "no" so i said, "yeahhh you do, if you don't then who do you like?" and he like avoided it, could that mean something?
what are some other signs that he would like me?
thanks.
signs that he likes you:
1. does he say your name a lot when ya'll are talking? or does he use it in texts?
2. does he touch your hair or hands?
3. does he blush when you're around ever?
if he's texting you first all the time then that is good. he might need a little confidence boost so how bout you text him first just a couple times and start off with something other than boring school. (little silly jokes are always a cute way to get a guy to notice you more. text him one or tell him face to face)
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good luck!
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well i really like this guy , but he moved to california. now after a year he moved back here ( lol (but he's still going to a different school) .
before he moved i think he liked me back! i mean he always smiled blahblahblah , i don't wanna spell everything out , just trust me on this.
ok so i asked his friend for his msn adresse cuz i couldn't really ask him since he's going to a different school. and i'm pretty good friends with his friend xD so when i was chatting with him everything went fine , but he didn't really knew who i was at first...it took him so long to figure it out , and then he was like "i don't really remember what you look like". that really pissed me of but i actet like i don't care.my friends said he did that on purpose just to test me (cause we had a little argument before he left , but it wasn't thaaat bad) so after that we had a nice chat , but it was me who always asked him the questions. if i wouldn't of come up with something the convo would just stopped! BUT he always responded after just 5 secons or something and his anwers werent exactly short xD. so i'm pretty confused right now...does he still like me or not?
and what can i do to make him like me again?
thx
he knew exactly who you were trust me. guys think they have to look cool and pretend like they're so freaking popular they just can't put YOUR face with the name. BUT anyways.. and the same thing goes with you asking the questions, he wants your attention and he doesn't want to fight for it which is cool for now.. keep giving it to him. keep on until it becomes a regular, daily thing. and then just stop. and i bet you he'll be messaging you first and trying to get your attention and just kinda play it like he did until ya'll are balanced. its a silly little game but you have to play if you like him. once ya'll become "balanced" you should start hanging out with him one on one. no group dates. just chillin' with each other. and soon he'll be fighting for you. good luck.
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I have my school's spring dance 2 weeks from now. How do I get guys to come up and grind? What should I wear (casual) to attract the eye? Skirts or jeans? Low-cut or reg? Thx!
its a lot easier to grind while wearing jeans. holey jeans are always a cool way to go.
tank tops ((that completely cover your mid drift though!)) are a good to get a guys attention, if you show much more they think you look trashy. and if you start dancing with your girls the guys will feel so much more comfortable to just jump right in. there's no easier way to do it. have fun.
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alright.
me & the guy i like [we'll call him steve] sit a few places apart in gym. he knows i like him. he's known for like a month. he also has a girlfriend which sucks but anyway back on topic..
well today in gym we did a push-up test. so here's the conversation..
steve- laura did you go yet?
me- no, i'm gonna get like 1 though. haha.
steve- shut up!
me- what?
steve- SHUT UP!
i'm really confused. he said "shut up" in like a really serious tone & he had a really serious look on his face. what did he mean? why did he say that? i'm seriously like really confused.
thanksssssss. [:
this is hard to understand via internet BUT. it could have been him hating how some girls are too modest or always hard on themselves like "omg i'm so fat" and all he wants to say is SHUT UP! but really thats a random thing to act on... i mean its gym class who cares? or perhaps ya'll were supposed to be quiet at the time? idk he kinda sounds like a jerk right now. if you confront him about it and he gives you a reasonable explanation then thats cool but if he doesn't, move on.
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can you ever love some too much? how would you know if some one is completely happy with you and you're not sufficating them? the person I'm speaking of is my husband and I'm truly in love with him he's my world. can any body help me? thanks.........
love is love. and you can't suffocate someone with it. it's supposed to be a very positive thing, love. if you feel like you're "suffocating" him maybe you should think about why you feel this way. are you controlling him because you always want his attention or his time? are you constantly bothering him when hes trying to work? there's silly little things that you can hold to a minimum while still loving someone the same. talk to him about it, after all he is your husband. if he think's you're coming off really strong lately then just back off, it might help to simply write your feelings for him in a journal instead of CONSTANTLY trying to SHOW him how you feel.
good luck.
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Okay im 14/f and my ex broke up with me like a year ago. but he was my very 1st kiss. and i still like him. even tho i have a new boyfriend. last weekend was my exboyfriends birthday. while i was using the restroom my best friend kissed him. and when i came back down they were all over each other. and im kinda mad at her. but the thing is...they arent dating..and i dont know why but my feelings for him got stronger because of that. so i guess my question is should i be mad at my best friend? and is it normal for the feelings to get stronger?
please tell me.
you can't be mad at her. You've moved on and it was a year ago ya'll were ever a "thing" anyways. If you're mad you really can't say anything because it'll only upset your friend and especially your current boyfriend. Stop focusing on your past and look at what you have now. 1st kiss? don't think of it that way. that's not special enough of to keep you wrapped around his finger. you need to forget about this guy and concentrate on your current relationship before its over since you're not paying attention. It's normal for you to be upset, i'm just saying its bad, and try to stop it asap. good luck.
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Hi.
I'm way younger then my 24 year old boyfriend.
I hate that he smokes weed. He does this rarely, like once a month. He knows I hate it and it's a serious thing in our relationship because if he doesn't stop I'll have to end it. I hate worrying about what he's doing when he goes out with his friends and it's because I can't join him since I can't go to bars and stuff because of my age.
The reason, this time that I'm SO mad. Is because on Friday he went out with a group of friends. These friends constantly drink & constantly do drugs together. I asked him on the phone if he had gotten high and he said no, and he promised. My boyfriend NEVER lies, so I was stupid enough to believe him.
A few days later I had gotten a message on myspace that was from his friend. The message said, "Your boyfriend got baked on brownies the other night." Which basically means he got high. After asking him what this meant and if he really did it, he lied again and finally told me the truth after nagging him for like an hour.
He told all of his friends on Friday about how I cause a lot of trouble in his life and he wanted to be happy again by smoking weed. Everytime I bring up that I want him to stop smoking weed, he'll argue until I have nothing else to say. What are reasons that he should stop? Because the reasons I come up with OBVIOUSLY don't matter.
BTW, he's 24 years old, and he just recently got his first job because of me. Before that he was a waster living off of his dads money and playing video games all day. I don't want him to turn into what he used to be.
Please help & thank you.
been here.. done this.
you've saved him from a lot of things and if he can't realize and appreciate what youve done for him he needs a serious reality check. he'd probably be in jail if it werent for you. and if he can honestly look you in the eyes and tell you he rather be smoking than holding you in his arms then girl it's not worth it. i understand you care about him way too much to let him do this to himself but really all you can do at this point is tell him you should be the only reason he needs in order to stop smoking. because i'm sure you're the only one who cares enough about him to encourage him to stop.. YOU ARE THE ONLY REASON HE NEEDS. and if it's not a good enough reason for him then you're going to have to step back and torture yourself while you watch him go down. But I encourage you to keep going as long as you can, after all he did get a job and i'm sure he's cleaning up his act a little bit, patience is the key if you see potential in him. Nobody can just quit in a day but honesty is something you should talk to him about. You need to tell him that you're not going to look like an idiot defending him all the time when really he's out there getting high, its ok if he does it at this point but he HAS to tell you about it. Because trust me he'll start feeling embarrassed or dissapointed the more he has to tell you what he's doing and that will eventually turn into a motivation to stop.
anyways. good luck.
if you have any other questions feel free to ask.
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I Have a girl who is indeed preety.i have been finding it difficult to beleive that she loves me.She does everything possible to make me understand her ,but i just have this fear that she might be faking ,I have tried in so many ways to frustrate her ---just to find out if she would walk away,but no .she prefers to stay .well,i just want to find out if this is for real .so that i can start on time to reciprocate all she has been doing for me .i musnt fail to say that in the moment of despaire ,she was the only one who stood by me .well i am 25 ,male.Fresh grduate. thanks a lot .
i don't really see a question in there but.. haha i'll still give you advice.
Love is definitely confusing.. and well girls are even MORE confusing but why do you HAVE to know NOW if she loves you? Why can't you just find out as you go along?.. it's almost like a game. Seeing that she has stuck beside you through difficult times i'm sure she really does mean what she says. Love isn't something easy to fake.. or even worth faking because it will only cause pain in the end. I think subconsiously you're kind of testing yourself.. do YOU really love her? If you're having a hard time trusting her love maybe really you're the one needing to consider what your true feelings are. Love.. and i mean true love is a hard thing to come by and it doesn't come overnight. True love takes a long time to find, even if you've found that one special person. There's no rush though, you're still young! Stop questioning her feelings and just go with your gut instinct.. is she THE girl for you?
good luck
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ok well how do u flirt with a guy..like i kind of know how but im like not pro on it..so does anyone kno any good tips for flirting and to get a guy to notice you?
thanks
i answered a similar question so i'm just going to copy and paste my answer
lots of subtle things will work without making you look desperate.
*touch his hair
*say his name a lot like when ya'll are talking
*when you get the chance just sliiightly touch his hand or leg or arm..w/e and see if he moves it or leave it there ((don't bump into it.. like slide your arm till ya'll are barely touching))
*hmm.. stare at his lips or deep into his eyes when he talks
*instead of a side hug go in for a full frontal and put your arms over his neck.. haha
*this one is weird but.. if you give him a high five give it low and kinda grab his hand as he slaps it
*and the last one.. let him catch you staring at him, weather it be from across the hall or in class.. let him catch you only a couple of times and when he notices you looking at him kinda look away and smile.. i guess guys think thats cute
GOOD LUCK! if you have any more quesitons just ask
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So I am friends with mostly girls. One of my closest guy friends' name is Ethan. He has a girlfriend. I think that he likes me, though, because he flirts with me a LOT and knows me really well.
I always wait for him leaving school. Today it was me, my friend Kathryn, and Ethan. Ethan just stopped, playfully kicked my butt, and then kept walking. Also, we always get in trouble for talking.
Recently, I got contacts, and since for a field trip, I wasn't at school Friday when I wore them, I asked my friend Kody to tell Ethan that I was wearing contacts. Today, I brought it up and he was so excited for me. Also, I was looking for a certain shirt to show school spirit, and he reminded me to get it.
In like December, we, among other friends (a group of 20) went skating. He was holding my hand to not get off-balance, but even after he got on balance, he was still skating with me and grabbed onto me if he was about to fall.
We have a ton of inside jokes, and also, we sit together when we have to partner up in the class that I have with him.
Some of these are things that consider friendly, and some I consider flirting. Do you guys think that he likes me?
Thanks. Oh, and to avoid a low rating, please type correctly!! Thanks again.
Oh, and we're both 15.
this is tough since i haven't actually SEEN how this guy acts. To avoid getting hurt i would go with he's just being friendly.. sorry
some guys are just so used to flirting it's like their personality, so don't take it the wrong way. of course if he doesn't act like this towards other girls he could have a thing for you. But since you're so close why don't you ask him?? i mean don't REALLY ask him but ask about his girlfriend and then maybe say something like "ryan..you have a girlfriend..." the next time he really flirts ya know? kinda accuse him or make him feel bad.. but still have a little smile on your face like **i wish you didn't have a girlfriend but oops you still do.. break up with her**.. kind of look haha
hmm what else.. again he could just get along better with girls and really find you as a great friend and fun person to be around. I really can't tell, sorry. but good luck!!
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I really like this guy but hes 11 years older than me. yes i know its illegal but we really like each other. he said he would wait till im 18 to go out but if we like made out or anything would it be bad? i dont know what to do. i cant get over him....
Lil' Girl
the truth is no matter how much you deny it he will eventually take advantage of you. you are young and naive and he's an old experienced man just waiting for you to come around... it's extremely tempting.. i mean who doesn't like attention from older guys?! but no you need to get over him before you fall too far. The easiest way to do that is to find another guy closer to your age that you like!
good luck!
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whats a good idea on how to loose wieght?
i have no access to the gym and i dont want to go run outside. Is there anyway of looing wieght insdie myt house?
PLEASE AND THANKS!!!
someone asked a similiar question so i'm just going to copy and past what i said to her... these aren't really dieting ideas but they are ways to keep you motivated and just little helpful things to remember daily
*put full length mirrors throughout your house or room so it can act like a constant reminder for you to get off the couch and excersize
*some people print off pictures of celebrities that are super skinny and tape them in the refrigerator and stuff as a "rolemodel".. i'm sure you know what i'm talking about
*record what you eat in a chart or journal somewhere and look at the list at the end of the day then cross off things you wish you hadn't eaten and then put a sticky note on those foods so the next day you'll remember what you'll end up regretting
*don't stop eating just eat healthy and excersize!
*if you stop eating your body thinks it needs to store food so the next time you eat it'll try and keep it for a long time and store it as fat.. does that make sense? that definitely isn't the way to go.
*take your time to think about what you're buying at the grocery store.. if you don't do the grocery shopping start going with whoever does normally. when you throw something in the cart it doesn't matter if it looks healthy look at the ingredients and then decide if you're going to buy it.
* try and feel comfortable with yourself no matter what size, it's important to love the way you look no matter what, don't stress too much over the whole weight issue. you sound very stressed and angry and i think it would be good if it was more of a goal setting thing. don't set goals like *lose 10 pounds by august* ..no set goals like * have a consistent healthy diet by august*. it's just a better way of thinking and will end up being more efficient.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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My boyfriend has been having a really rough time lately, and I just want to do something special for him to cheer him up and show him how much I care and will always be there for him. But I'm a little lost on ideas...if you have any, I'd really appreciate it.
Thanks
SURPRISE HIM!! seriously just one day randomly show up on his door step and tell him you need him to come with you. ((make sure he'll be available to do something before you go surprising him!)) then just kind of go on a walk to a park somewhere.. maybe have a picnic, just do something ya'll wouldn't usually do together so he'll remember it. When ya'll get to the park or are just walking together don't remind him of the tough things he's going through just remind him of how lucky you are to have him and just kinda boost up his ego... this is much easier and way more fun that writing some poem or something! good luck!!
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Hey, I have a question. It involved me going to the concert with my dad that I really wanted to go to last night and with my boyfriend going to the school dance. My freind told me he was dancing with a ton of girls. This kind of makes me jealous and I don't know if it is normal to get jealous. Do you think guys shouldn't dance with other girls if they have a girlfriend already?
thanks
it really depends on what kind of dancing.. like booty dancing? eh he's just having a good time, it's nothing serious but i would definitely say something to him.. i mean you have a right to be jealous he shouldn't have been doing that with other girls!! but i'm sure he didn't actually consider it 'cheating' or 'taking advantage' at all.. he's just a guy, that's what they do
if it was slow dancing.. then hell no he shouldn't be doing that.. it's kind of a 'romantic' thing when you think about it.. no you should talk to him about that and definitely reconsider your relationship
good luck
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Okay well there is this guy in my grade that I really like, and right when I started to like him all of these 8th grade girls that are my friends started liking him. He says that he likes me and 1 of the eigth graders but I want him to like me, just me. What should I do to really get his attention?? I think I've been doing a pretty good job so far.
Thanks.
what i say, don't over exaggerate it, what i mean is do NOT become obsessive, it's a huge turn-off
*i would call him.. if you don't already talk to him on the phone that is.. if you call him a COUPLE of times he'll probably start calling you more
*walk with him in the hallways.. everytime you see him have a huge smile on your face and hug him, (this will let him know that you really are happy to see him)
*if you both have cell phones text him randomly (on the weekends, after school, etc.) just asking him how his day was.
*if you have a problem or are upset with something don't completely pour yourself out to him but tell him how you feel without overwhelming him.. if he takes an interest that's good then you can tell him more about our personal life and then he'll know he can confide in you as well!
*make yourself availabe on weekends to do something with him... just say subtle things like "oh this weekend should be boring i have zero plans" DON'T be like "oh my gosh i don't know what to do this weekend and neither do you.. what a coincidence!"... then he'll feel forced to hang out with you and no one likes that feeling.
*whatever you do don't bad mouth this other girl he likes.. that's immature and rude, if you act more mature and classy than her it will be soo much better
well that's all that i can think of at the moment.. hope i helped good luck!! .. ask me if you need more help!
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i have this guy friend, first we were just friends then we wnet out for like 2 days but he broke up w/ me but i still have feelings for him so now we are just friends. Now like 5 monthes later, i was over his house and he had last years yearbook and he didnt let me read it.the next week he was over my house and i let him read my journal so he'll let me see his yearbook. He read this part were i wrote JAMES FINALLY GAVE ME A HUG, yay! (the date was AFTER we broke up) so now he NEVER gives me hugs anymore after reading that :(, i miss that and i want hugs! help, i still like him, & the hugs were the only thing i had now, nothing
well you've learned a lesson.. don't let anyone read your journal = [
the only thing you can do is explain that you regret letting him look at your journal because now he acts different around you.. (don't say anything specific about the hugs) then all you can do is act like your complete and normal self until HE'S back to normal too.... just give it time, and if he doesn't give in maybe YOU should go in for a casual hug..it'd never hurt to try
good luck!
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ok. so this might sound bad...well to me it kind of does. so i've been with my boyfreind for about 6 months. we've done everything. but no sex neither of us want to yet. as much as i love him i keep getting bored...i just feel like everytime we hang out its the same old thing. SO does any one have any ideas on how to spice things up a little bit?
xo
ps. no sex remember...just like things we can do to spice up...the romantic part...and just anything else.
you don't have to do sexual things to keep it romantic or interesting just find crazy things that ya'll can experience together.. go to new places you wouldn't normally go like idk something as stupid as chuck e cheese to something classic as a fun play. these might sound like crazy corny ideas but if you guys experience something new together that isn't sexual it can open up so many more things...maybe you could take some type of class together like idk kickboxing, an art class, acting class, something weird that ya'll can laugh and have fun together doing. sports events are always fun too, splurge on some great tickets to a game or concert or dinner reservations. buy him little things just to remind him how much you love him. i really admire the no sex thing so just keep yourselves busy doing other stuff!! i hope i was a little help!
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Is it okay to be school-oriented...and be scared to have a boyfriend because you don't know whats going to happen in the end. Its like you are in a mix between "I don't know if its going to work out" and "I'm scared it might..." ..? Does anyone get what I'm saying?
oh girl soo many people feel that way!! it's perfectly fine you'll eventually start caring more about guys but there's no rush! in fact i'm kind of jealous i wish i cared more about my studies than my boyfriend! haha but i think you should definitely take a chance some time if you like a guy just to see what it's like and if it doesn't work out no biggie just focus on school until the next best thing comes around. good luck
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This Friday is this HUGE dance... everyone goes and I am getting tickets from this guy I know. So, he's going to be there and somtimes I get tongue-tied and say stupid things around guys. How can I not get tongue tied? Also, what are some cute,hot,sexy,etc. things to say to him that will make him like me more? I'll rate 5s!
sorry if i repeat things other people have said cuz i haven't read them BUT...
theres not alot you can say without coming on too strong or sounding somewhat corny. a lot of it is alll about body language. now these things may sound corny but they're subtle things that might actually work... things like rubbing your lips together (or biting the corner of your lips w/e) when you look at him or touching his knee/shoulder and playing with his hair is very flirty. compliments are always nice too. when its kind of a silent moment instead of breaking it just kind of stare at him and give a cute smile and then maybe say something. this whole body language thing is a lot easier than talking to him and a lot more fun AND more effective i think! plus you don't have to worry about getting tongue tied, also try to avoid talking TOO much about school.. its just a sign that you don't really know what else to talk about make sure you keep good eye contact don't look away from him when you get nervous!! try and stay confident! good luck!
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okay so um....i have a boyfriend and he's really really great and i love him and everything....but i have this ex boyfriend who i broke up with because i didnt think he felt the same way about me...which apparently he does.... okay well anyways a couple of days ago me my boyfriend, my ex boyfriend and a few other friends were at a friends house hanging out and i was with my boyfriend...and we were togtehr you know..lol all that good stuff...and the next night my ex was like it tears me apart to see you and jeff(b/f) all over eachother like that... and i was like you had me...and he was like but you let ME go.... i dont know what to do..because i still kinda have feelings for my ex..but i love my boyfriend.....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh save me...save me from this
plleas and thanks andie ur a doll
well it sounds like they are both great guys and its a very hard situation for you but as corny as it sounds you have to follow your heart. When I read your question it sounds like you're more into jeff and its just hard for you to get over your ex. Next time you go through a break up let it take time until you find someone else. For now I would stick with Jeff and enjoy your time and not hang out so much with your ex so that he doesnt have to feel that way anymore.
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