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Hey, I have a question. It involved me going to the concert with my dad that I really wanted to go to last night and with my boyfriend going to the school dance. My freind told me he was dancing with a ton of girls. This kind of makes me jealous and I don't know if it is normal to get jealous. Do you think guys shouldn't dance with other girls if they have a girlfriend already?
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it really depends on what kind of dancing.. like booty dancing? eh he's just having a good time, it's nothing serious but i would definitely say something to him.. i mean you have a right to be jealous he shouldn't have been doing that with other girls!! but i'm sure he didn't actually consider it 'cheating' or 'taking advantage' at all.. he's just a guy, that's what they do
if it was slow dancing.. then hell no he shouldn't be doing that.. it's kind of a 'romantic' thing when you think about it.. no you should talk to him about that and definitely reconsider your relationship
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its perfectly normal to be jealous. he was just probally trying to have a good time. dancing with you would have meant everything to him. but him dancing with some other girls, it means nothing to him.
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Its perfectly normal to be jelous but he probably just wanted to have a laugh. It depends how he was dancing, as a mate or as a method of flirting. Considering the circumstances I would say he was trying to make the most of it even though you wern't there. I think ts fine for boyfriends to dance with other girls as long as thats all they do!! Its all a matter of trust, you need to think about if its likely he would do that to you...you need to be more trusting and believe the best in him...thats why
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Hon this is all a matter of trust. If you know that dancing is all he was doing then you shouldn't be jealous. Just look at it as he was dancing with women who can't have him because you already have him. And you have to trust him. You can't expect him to go to a dance without you and not dance. He should be allowed to have fun just like you did at the concert. If you trust him and you know that he didn't do anything but dance with them then everything should be fine. But everyone does get jealous about something once in a while. But if you start being jealous all of the time it could cause problems in your relationship so again as I said, he is your boyfriend so you really need to trust him.
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