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Okay well there is this guy in my grade that I really like, and right when I started to like him all of these 8th grade girls that are my friends started liking him. He says that he likes me and 1 of the eigth graders but I want him to like me, just me. What should I do to really get his attention?? I think I've been doing a pretty good job so far.
Thanks.
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be different. set yourself apart from the crowd but not in an attention wanting freak but just be the one who talks to him more seriously or the one who says hi in the hallway but not an obsessive huge wave, just a "HI______"(insert name on line)...
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what i say, don't over exaggerate it, what i mean is do NOT become obsessive, it's a huge turn-off
*i would call him.. if you don't already talk to him on the phone that is.. if you call him a COUPLE of times he'll probably start calling you more
*walk with him in the hallways.. everytime you see him have a huge smile on your face and hug him, (this will let him know that you really are happy to see him)
*if you both have cell phones text him randomly (on the weekends, after school, etc.) just asking him how his day was.
*if you have a problem or are upset with something don't completely pour yourself out to him but tell him how you feel without overwhelming him.. if he takes an interest that's good then you can tell him more about our personal life and then he'll know he can confide in you as well!
*make yourself availabe on weekends to do something with him... just say subtle things like "oh this weekend should be boring i have zero plans" DON'T be like "oh my gosh i don't know what to do this weekend and neither do you.. what a coincidence!"... then he'll feel forced to hang out with you and no one likes that feeling.
*whatever you do don't bad mouth this other girl he likes.. that's immature and rude, if you act more mature and classy than her it will be soo much better
well that's all that i can think of at the moment.. hope i helped good luck!! .. ask me if you need more help!
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Just continue to be yourself, take a notice of his interest. Make sure when you talk to him you talk about his interest, things he likes to do. If he plays sports go to his games. Offer for you two to study together if you have some of the same classes. But again remember to be yourself and just let him know how you really like him. Wheather it is by telling him, flirting with him or whatever. That is pretty much all you can do. And I hope doing all of that helps you.
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Well why dont you flirt wiht him more and like get one of his guy friends that your cool with to talk to him if you really like him because you can go all this year just likeing a guy and not want him to like another girl you need to talk to him or get one of his friends to talk to him for you and once you and him hook up he's your and dont worry about that other girl she probably doesnt even know that he likes her so i dont think you have anything to worry about
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