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i am 15 years old and i have never had a boyfriend or kissed any guys. all my friends have and they have gone all the way with guys and i havent even kissed one. is this not normal? i am actually pretty and guys like me but thats as far as it gets. i hear guys like me and then i dont know what to do. so is this normal?? (link)
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dont worry i have been single for 15 years also and im 15 years old 2! so its normal...guys will come around. just have fun flirting for now!
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Okay this is probably going to be really confusing, but this guy i work with and i are dating (i really really like him), well he used to be hardcore into drugs and im pretty sure hes slept with a lot of girls... im not sure if all he wants from me is "to get some" or not. he said he quit smoking and all the rest of the drugs, but how can i tell if hes being honest with me, and how can i hint to him that id rather be a couple (goingout/bf/gf) thanks for your help!
(*he was going out with his last girlfriend for almost 2 years, until she cheated on him, if that means anything--he also hasnt been with anyother girls since they broke up apx 6months ago (or so he says) (link)
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talk to him and be honest. all you can do is ask him to be honest.
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Ok, so I have this one guy friend, who I happen to like. But, he really really likes another girl. And I'm fine with that, but the problem is that this girl only likes him as a friend. Like at the dance they were dates and she was dancing with another guy...and i saw her grab him. And he looked really sad, so i got to dance with him. But out of the corner of his eye i could see he was watching her the whole time and I could tell he was sad. To me it kinda seems like a love triangle. I like him. He likes her. She likes someone else. Does anyone have any ideas of what to do?
sorry its kinda confusing and long (link)
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Talk to the guy.
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i am 13/f. Well theres this guys that i love. we are good friends we can tell each other pretty much anything cause we are going through pretty much the same stuff. and well he really likes my twin sister and he dosnt know i like him but my sister is always getting in the way of me ever getting a guy cause once they see my sister they like her and not me cause of her looks and body.
my sister also likes him and she knows how i feel about him and there about to go out with each other. what do i do? (link)
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Talk to this guy. you said you can tell him everything so talk to him. it may not be easy but you never know, maybe he like you to. Talk to your sister again and maybe she will say no if he asks her out.
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My boyfriend makes comments about actresses and other females and it bugs me and I was wondering what do I do? (link)
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talk to him about it. if he doesnt stop, you could start saying stuff about actors and other guys. that could stop him. but i would try talking to him first
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im making something for my b.f. for his birthday.. i need an idea of a quote i can put inside.. nothing to corny.. something that has some meaning.. any help ? will rate (link)
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haha...
you can look for love quotes on the internet. theres so many.
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looking for advice on how to celebrate a one year anniverysery. xoxo. (link)
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go out to dinner. movie. long walk on a beach if your close enough. long walk in the park. roses.
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heres the story. me and my ex had dated for only like 5 months. i knew i loved him. he loved me. so for our big 5 i got him a gold chain for 175$. he loved it. well our friends had an anniverary party for us. me and him went to his backyard adn were talkign. then started to make out. then things lead to more. a lot more. we went into his guest house and you know. it was both of our first times. and i loved it. then 2 nites later i hung out with one of my guy friends who was drunk and about to pass out. so i picked him up and he kissed me. ididnt kiss back but still. well ididnt tell bryan cuz i didnt want him to think anything happened. bad choice. my friend was with him the next night and was drunk and told him that i made out with him. so not. bryan believed him.and he broke up with me. i cried for so long. it took a while to get over him. but i kinda did. i found a guy i really liek and he likes me. but he wants to ask me out in person. we hung out and he didnt. he said he forgot. but idk. were both grounded and cant hang out really. and he is in wrestling so that puts a hult on things too. 2nite he asked if i was still in love with bryan and i said no. but i am. but i care alot about this guy too. there is no chance with bryan anymore. but ya. adn i dont wantto date smeoneif i still care aobut bryan. i dont want to say no tho what should i do? (link)
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try this other guy you like. if theres no chance with bryan then why should you stay single if hes never going to ask you out again. you gotta take chances. so sey yes if this new guy asks u out. rember if u wate for bryan then you may never love agian.
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ok, this is long, this includes 3 guys, 1 the guy i love, jon, 2, rob a past love of mine we went through alot, and 3 this guy who said dirty stuff about me, ok , i have not heard from rob in months, we went through alot, cant say what, but he called me, and then the guy who harasses me called me too, the day before rob, i love rob and always will, but i love jon too, and i want the stlker guy to leave me alone, and wesley, jons friend likes me too, how am i supposed to balance all this out?? i don't know what to do please help me!! (link)
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tell them what ur feeling...
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Hi. I like this girl alot and she wont realize how much we are meant to be. Yes i am only in highschool but i know she is right. I told her several times but she just keeps saying not now or i cant see you as more. I need to know how i can tell her that we are meant to be. Please help.
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try and do sweet things for her like trying 2 see her in the halls, talking to her, maybe just become better friends frist then try it agian.
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okay so theres this boy that ive been datin for wel over 6 motnhs and i really like him alot.. and well latley theres little things that are startin to annoy me like just little things that get to you after being with a person for a long time.. and wel ive also been having dreams about my X and its starting to make me remember all the times we had.. and how we had alotta fun together and i still and attracted to him but i dont wanna leave my boyfriend now because i dont think that my X will love me as much as my boyfriend now does.. and i dont wanna leave something that might be a really good thing..
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go with your feelings... try this new guy out and if it doesnt work then try ur X. who knows if he will have feelings for you. soo try something new.
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This girl that's my friend Jenna* and this guy that is my friend Greg* used to date. It was a nasty breakup. Well I stayed frieds with both of them. Well now me and Greg are really close. Like we hug at church and stuff but we are NOT dating. Now she thinks we have something going on. And she called me and said I saw his # in your cell phone and then I saw ya'll hugging...what is going on? I don't know what to do. I want to keep both of my friends please help! (link)
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just tell your friend the truth... that ur just friends... unless ur feeling more about this guy. tell her. she deserves 2 know the truth
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okay theres this guy who asked me out about 8 mnths ago and i said no ever since den ive been avin mixed feelings about him.i jus liked him as a freind and did till like 3 mnths ago and i jus realized how much i rely like him i rely need help because i dont know what to do HELP i rely rely rely like himand am afraid that if i dont say something about it he may not like know how i feel and ask someone else out plssss help i rate high (link)
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ok.... ask him if he likes you still. or just make the first move by asking him out. Yes it can feel werid but if you really like him and you want 2 go out with him you may have 2 make the first move.
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I am a 16 year old female. There is a gentleman that I am quite fond of and he has been quite fond of me as well. We talked yesterday for the first time in a long time. He is supposed to call back but I kind of doubt he will do so any time soon since he is a busy person.
What are some small (and very indirect) reminders I can give him so he will remember that I exist?
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you can wave 2 him in the hallway, start small conversations with him, even call him 2 do something...
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ok so i've been going out with my bf since january and I am his first gf ever. He is really shy when it comes to kissing. I had to make the first move on our first kiss. Ever since then he is still afraid to make-a-move. he has never made an attempt to kiss me and I don't know if he knows how. we always go to movies, play bball, walk around town, and just hang out at eachothers houses. He is sometimes afriad to put his arm around me too. How can I get him to open up a little? (link)
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Talk to him about it. If he is shy about talking to you about stuff he doent know how to do or w/e he might not be ready to be going out with someone. You are his first girlfriend and it might just take some time. if u need more help just ask!
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okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do? (link)
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stay with him for a little more than if its the same tell him how u feel!
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today i was at my boyfriends house. ive known him for 2 years but weve only been going out for a month. we were at his house home alone today and he kept asking what did i want to do. then he started being like oh well your boring you dont want to do anything. (he ment like i didnt want to do IT) and i jsut said...weve only been together for a month! and then he was like...well thats not what you said to that guy that you had sex with!!! (im not a virgin and it was the biggest mistake of my life) and then i just got up and walked away. and he came after me and he was like babe im really sorry and he just kept hugging me and saying he didnt mean to say that and how sorry he is. it just really hurt my feelings. and i know hes not just using me for sex. hes an awesome bf. we hangout all the time and i tell him almost everything. our parents even like eachother. i duno he just really made me mad today. what do i do? do i just let it go? or next time he asks me to come over do i say something and bring up how rude it was of him to say that? i duno im confused..
ps..that wasnt the first time i been to his house..we hangout all the time.. (link)
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Be strong continue to say no!! in the future ull be happy!!
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hey im 15 and never had a boyfriend, and not even kissed someone, and all my friends have! i dont hang around with any guys, so how can i meet a guy?
thanxz for the help
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Start hinging around some guys. Become friends with them. Do sports, clubs, talk with them, do anything you can to try and meet some really nice and even good looking guys!
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Hey you guys!
MiSSc here, OK so here's an update from me...I have a boyfriend now and we've been going out for a month. He asked me out on Valentines Day too. I love my boyfriend so much!! He's everything that I wanted in a guy. Exactly everything that I've ever wanted in a guy! I thought I was in love many times before, but now I know that it wasn't true love. But this time I think I finally found the one for me, even my mom thinks so and our friends too. But I'm only 15, we will both be turning 16 soon. Do you think that its possible to find love so young? (link)
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no because highschool sweethearts are still in love today! so you can fall in love at around the age of 16!
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Well hi I really need help. I saw this guy that is my frinds friend and we r going out. Then one day when we were at dinner he told me that he is a crossdresser. Ya no not a guy that dresses like a girl, a GIRL! that dresses like a guy! I was petrified! I didnt know what to do. I mean im in love with a girl, now I felt dumb that I was d8ing a girl the whole time. She keeps on calling trying to apologize but I dont want to pick up! What do I do? (link)
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You should talk to her and tell her what you feel. Maybe you could just be friends with her.
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