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I am a 16 year old female. There is a gentleman that I am quite fond of and he has been quite fond of me as well. We talked yesterday for the first time in a long time. He is supposed to call back but I kind of doubt he will do so any time soon since he is a busy person.
What are some small (and very indirect) reminders I can give him so he will remember that I exist?
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Hehe, I can understand your wish to be discreet. However, that's the thing about males: they don't catch on to discreetness. The best way to let him know you exist is to be very friendly with him. You're 16, so your horomones are raging by now, so just do what your feelings make you feel like doing...within reason. The idea is that you already know how to attract a gentleman's attention; it comes built in as part of being a female.
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Postcards.. Post it notes.. a small present.. anything at all that you know he`ll be sure to make that call. It doesn`t have to be anything wide-spread, you know, just small little trinkets to keep him going. Write to him, buy him chocolates with a note inside.. personalize your greeting by doing something different for a change, you know? Decorate the border of your note with a telephone and at the bottom put you phone number! There are a million ways to help your guy keep in touch with you, and to let him never forget!
hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata
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Postcards baby! Anything sent in the mail is instantly personal, but if your careful you can keep it indirect. In fact, lots of written commmunication is like that, notes and cards are a good way of staying in touch. Also, and this is kinda long-winded, but if you see something you think he'd like or use but might not of thought of then get it for him. If a present is well thought out it can really brighten your day and make you remember someone. As an added plus, if he's a nice guy (and I'm sure he is) then he'll want to do the same stuff for you to say thanks, so you have an excuse to see him again! Peace out.
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you can wave 2 him in the hallway, start small conversations with him, even call him 2 do something...
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