This girl that's my friend Jenna* and this guy that is my friend Greg* used to date. It was a nasty breakup. Well I stayed frieds with both of them. Well now me and Greg are really close. Like we hug at church and stuff but we are NOT dating. Now she thinks we have something going on. And she called me and said I saw his # in your cell phone and then I saw ya'll hugging...what is going on? I don't know what to do. I want to keep both of my friends please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Monday November 21 2005, 7:14 pm: Just be honest with her. Explain to her that absolutley nothing is going on or ever will go on, between you and Greg*. Just explain to her how the hug was just a friendly hug and you and him are still friends and talk so of course his number is going to be on your phone. I mean I can understand if she's getting "eh" around girls because she might not want any girls dating him still cause I mean he WAS her boyfriend and everything, but if she was a good friend she'd believe you whenever you say you're not dating him. So just be honest. I hope I helped.
Minameisjackie answered Monday November 21 2005, 3:20 pm: Tell her the truth. A real friend will believe you. If nothings going on tell her. If something is going on, there is really no need to hide it. If shes really your friend you can tell her the truth and she will understand. Hope I helped :) [ Minameisjackie's advice column | Ask Minameisjackie A Question ]
karenR answered Monday November 21 2005, 1:02 am: Just tell her the truth. She will believe you or won't, thats her choice.
HC0_Fabulousity_xO answered Sunday November 20 2005, 10:43 pm: Tell her the truth. If she doesn't believe it, it won't be your fault. She has a right to think what she wants. If you guys are just friends then you have nothing to worry about. Tell her your her good friend and you wouldn't do that to her. She could just be feeling insecure. :) [ HC0_Fabulousity_xO's advice column | Ask HC0_Fabulousity_xO A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Sunday November 20 2005, 8:56 pm: why dont you tell her that? just tell her yall have become friends and nothing more. you hug because thats what friends do, and his number is in your phone, because hes a friend, and well, you have friends numbers in your phone. let her know theres nothing there but the same friendship you and her have. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
CAPTAINKJ618 answered Sunday November 20 2005, 8:04 pm: just tell them her truth...if your no more than just close friends you have nothing to be ashamed of....and if she can't accept that then she sint your real friend .also praying helps tooo [ CAPTAINKJ618's advice column | Ask CAPTAINKJ618 A Question ]
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