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Boyfriend makes comments about actresses


Question Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 2:28 pm

My boyfriend makes comments about actresses and other females and it bugs me and I was wondering what do I do?

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iLiKEYOUx3 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 6:33 pm:
you just tell him that it bugs you when he says things about other girls. but dont get to annoyed about it he doesnt have a chance with actresses so it doesnt even matter. hope i helped
xox♥

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Hartwiggi1324 answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 9:59 pm:
talk to him about it. if he doesnt stop, you could start saying stuff about actors and other guys. that could stop him. but i would try talking to him first

hope i helped

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 8:29 pm:
♥ Hii babe
Umm well, you cant put him down for liking that kinda stuff, because hes guy and its natural.
BUT, if you makes you feel uncomfortable..(and your not alone, because every girl hates when their guy talk about other girls around you) you have to tell him or he wont stop.
Good luck! ♥ Lauren

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xxoBriannax answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 7:36 pm:
Tell him that you don't like when he talks about other girls to you. Remind him that you don't talk about other guys around him. If he doesn't stop, start talking about hot guys you see.

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xOViLLYxO answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 7:08 pm:
you have to be honest with him since he is your bf so just be like i dont like how you always have a comments on actresses and otehr females just say that but he prob is trying to piss you off so next time when you 2 are somewere if he didnt stop when you see a totally hot guys be like damn he is hot and if he gets mad say see this is how i felt ♥

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xO_Hollister_xO answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 6:31 pm:
If he makes comments about famous people you should ignore it. There's no way he'll get a chance anyways.

As for the 'other female' thing.. it's not okay. He COULD have a chance with some random girl. So, talk to him about it. Tell him it bothers you and ask him to stop. =)

♥

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MummuM answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 6:21 pm:
It bugs every girl (I'm sure) when a guy makes some comment about girls that are famous. Just remember that he's with you. There's no way that he's going to get with the girl that is on T.V.


About him making comments about random girls he sees, just talk to him about it. Tell him that you don't really like it when he does that when you're around. Tell him if he does see some girl that's hot to keep it to himself, you don't need to hear it. Guys are guys, and all guys do this, that's just how they are. But remember he's with you for a reason. :) ♥

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Janciemarie_08 answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 5:17 pm:
If his making comments really bothers you that badly, I would tell him that it bothers you. If that doesn't work, I would ignore his comments, or make comments about other men. It will eventually not bother you as much or he will get the point. I really hope this helps.

<3 Jancie

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hershikissescanhelp answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 4:57 pm:
wats up?
wellif u feel that annoyed that much then just tell him to don't say the comments in front of your face.

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confusedbabii answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 4:47 pm:
make comments about actors and other guys and see how he likes it. two can play that game :-P
hope i helped

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souless_breath answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 4:34 pm:
Awww...Just do it right back to him, Lol!
But if he says it about other girls, like ones around your age that he see's, know that he chose you over them...YOUR BETTER THEN THEM, BECAUSE HE CHOSE U!! Hope I helped~

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iHEARTYOU answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 4:30 pm:
tell him that it bothers you - he'll never get a cahance with them either - he should be happy with what he has &hearts; meg

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xO0TR0PiCALTEAR answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 4:16 pm:
oOh mine does it ALL the time and it makes me mad .. i just say it about other hot guys. sometimes he gets the point and stops.. but other times he liek flips so yeuh lol. so what i do is just do it to him too... this prolly didnt help but yeuh &hearts;Alese

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Razhie answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 4:12 pm:
Ask him not too?

It's probably harmless chatter but if it really bothers you I don't think it's out of line for you to say you don't like it and ask him to tone it down. Don't just write it off as one of those things that most guys do. Most guys seem to think it's okay to spit on the street, but I wouldn't date one who did.

At the very least tell him it bothers you. That alone should be should be good motivation to stop.

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orphans answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 3:19 pm:
Id just tell him, That you dont really enjoy hearing him talk about famous (girls).

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 3:17 pm:
Odds are even if you do tell him that it bothers you, he'll keep doing it. It's part of human nature. Personally, I could care less about the actresses or random women he sees on the streets. He doesn't personally know them, nor will he ever know them (most likely). If it's people he knows, like female friends, then yes I would definately have a problem with it. All you can do is say "[insert boyfriend's name here] it really bugs me when you make those comments about other women.. And I was wondering if you could at least respect that it bothers me and keep the comments to yourself while I'm around you." If he loves you enough and cares enough about you, he will stop. But honestly.. He's a guy. He has a PENIS. Guys rarely think with their head (The one that has the brain in it..) They think with their OTHER head. (Penis..). All you can really do is tell him that it bothers you and see what happens from there.


Best of luck to you and yours.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 3:02 pm:
You can tell him how you feel but most likely he`ll do it anyways.. you probably should try to ignore it cuz really think chances are he won`t have a chance with an actress.. And if he says something about other females ask him why he does that to you.. also try doin it back my boyfriend don`t seem to like it very much and then he tries not to do it to me.. &hearts; Dez

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