I have never actually made out with someone and i can tell mi boyfriend and i r gonna do it soon. Plz if u have any ints or tricks i would realli appriciate it!
The first time I made out wasn't too long ago and I was nervous that I'd do it wrong but he said I was good. So really all I can say is just go with the flow and let him take the lead and it will turn out good, I promise. Sorry I don't have too much to say but hope this helped.
Oh yeah and when your making out with him try touching his hair and stuff. They like that. And slip him a little toungue, only if you want though.
- LIVEY
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I was just wonderin, what are some obvious hints or nost popular hints that a guy likes you?
Usually they'll be all touchy feely with you and just the usual flirting, and they'll look at you a lot. But it kinda depends on the guy.
- LIVEY
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can someone fill me in on what all the bases are?? thanks!!
Well a lot of people know it different ways, but the one that people know most is...
1st: kissing/making out
2nd: fingering
3rd: anything oral
Home: sex
- LIVEY
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ok, well i like my brothers friend.. lets call him... BOB, ok well BOB likes me too and we always talk and hang out and we've kissed and he sometimes gets all playful touchy but just like flirting and stuff and i wanna go out with him but hes afraid my brother will get insanely pissed off at him.. I talked to my brother and he was like "whatever.. hes cool so i dont care" so i was like, sweet. Well i dont wanna ask this guy out cus i just dont, im not scared or nething but i wanna talk to him about "us" but i dont know how.. i dont think this is making sense.. BUT ANYWAYS i dont know how to talk to him about it.. its reatrded cus i can usually go up to a guy and tell him i think hes hot or that i like him and stuff and they would be like "sweet" or something BUT i CANT with BOB... What would you do if you were in my situation?... I rate high..
15/F
Oh, I went out with my bro's friends lol. But yeah I would just try to get him alone sometime and start some conversation and then mention it and be like... "So what do you think about us?" Be confident. You've got nothing to lose anyway.
- LIVEY
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i am in love wit a guy that is 3 years older then me. is a big difference? well my parents dont want me talkin to him anymore. i talk him on the phone everyday. my parents think i should talkin to him perminently but i cant. i love this guy but i cant tell my parents that bc they think i am to young to have a bf. it is like i am 13 i should be able to have a bf. But they wont let me. what do u guyz think i should i really need ur help!!
I don't think 13 and 16 is bad dating ages at all, especially if you're mature for a 13 year old. A lot of older guys go with younger girls anyway. I mean I went out with a 15 year old when I was 12... so yeah. But I think if you really love him than you should, as long as he respects you and doesn't take advantage of you and all that. I wish you the best of luck.
- LIVEY
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ive never been kissed b4.. is that a good thing?? or noo???
I don't think thats a bad thing at all. Your first kiss should be special. Mine wasn't and I really regret it. Make sure its with someone you really care about. Hope I helped. :-)
- LIVEY
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I am havin soo sooo many problems! I need so much help!
1. My dad is sexually horassin me and Im affraid to tell my mom bc she will get a divorce and well have no money!!
2. I am havin so many problems with movin I dont want to and we relocate like 5 times a year and none or our family is in the military!!
3. My mom is a major bitch!!!!
4. My hole family and supposed to be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill my self but Im afraid Ill go to heell stupid huh
Plz plz plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1. I understand what you're sayin but you really need to tell your mom about it.
2. Try to talk to your parents about it and how its really emotionally hard for you. But otherwise if they don't listen, theres not much you can do.
3. Yeah, some moms can be like that. Can't change her. But try to be as nice as you can to her and she might be like that back. Sometimes moms just get stressed out and need a little love.
4. Try talking to them and working things out.
5. Yeah, I know what you mean. It doesn't sound stupid. I've always wanted to kill myself ever since I hit depression, but the only thing that was holding me back was I knew if I committed suicide that I would go to hell. But just try to be strong. Please don't kill yourself... it will all be worth it in the end.
If you ever need to talk about anything my sn is HIMlovemetal325 or drop one in the inbox. :-)
- LIVEY
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okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me...
Hes a playa. Just remember if he is trying to mess around with you while he still has a girlfriend... if you ever get to be more than friends with him, he'll just do the same to you. Hes definitely not loyal.
- LIVEY
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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!
4 years! omgsh ur kidding right!? Wow, what an a$$. Forget him then, you deserve better than that.
- LIVEY
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Alright, I'm having a problem with choice here. My heart belongs to my ex-girlfriend, and I've let her know that several times, but she is seriously in love with this other guy and he has absolutely no interest in her. My Ex and I broke up for the dumbest reason and Im the one that broke it off. Now she has lost interest in me (even though we get along so damn well..) and continues to persue this guy that has no interest in her. Now on the other hand, Im having feelings for another girl, one which is already taken by my best friend, which is another one of my ex'es. But the feelings are pretty much forced upon myself to let me grow apart from my other ex. Now that I've forced my Brain into liking one, my heart desires the other, both which I can't have. I'm trying my hardest to not jump back and forth between the two but I can't get my 1st Ex'es attention to the point of her liking me again, so I persue other goals in attempt to move on, but in the end I just end up hurting myself.. Olivia, what should I do?
I'm 17 and Im a Male.
Well since this is about me I can't really answer it... Just try to move on. You'll find someone who loves you the same way you do with them, whos meant for you.
- LIVEY
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So i really like this guy but im like 12. and hes like 17. im turning 13 in september. I talk to him and all. I just never kno what to say when im talking to him. We have alot of the same interests and all. But i kind need help with knowing what to talk to, and what i should do about this whole thing... Thanks :)
Well, just try to be yourself. Try to act more mature when talking to him though, like try not to say really corny stuff... it'll make you sound like a little kid. Um, just have fun with the convo though... like talk about music, hobbies, and since you have the same interests try to bring up that! Ask detailed questions when he says something that has to do with him, so it carries on the convo. Sorry if that kinda sucked but I wish you much luck :-)
- LIVEY
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umm well the kid i like has a nickname for me [[boo]] and he is starting to like me! =) but anyways i wanna give him a nick name but i can't think of one!!!! will u plz help me come up with one???? thanx!!!
Yeah I suck at making sweet nicknames. But like Suga, Sweets, Hun, Hubby, Playa... uh yeah. Wow that sucked. Oh well hope I helped.
- LIVEY
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Why do I seem to laugh at ppls problems. Yes I know the category is wrong, if you get flipped out by that go do something else. I was reading over this and I would laugh at these ppls problems, is it because I am a massicist?
Haha... i don't know. Maybe its just because you're not much of a sentimental person. I guess that can be understandable though.
- LIVEY
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I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas.
I think bowling, miniture golf, or even going out to eat and afterwards going to the park would be nice.
- LIVEY
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I am a 14 year old guy and I like a 10 year old girl, is this ok??
Sure, its okay.... its just kinda creepy. Its not the fact thats its a 4 year difference but shes 10 and you're 14. And I know that most people are saying well a lot of guys date younger girls and I know that but like 4 years difference even in the teen range would be okay, but not 10 and 14... theres a big difference. You've already hit puberty and been through so much and she prolly hasn't even been through it yet. And you have a much more mature mind than her, you understand life so much better and i mean shes only 10. But yeah I wouldn't go out with her, thats all... Her parents prolly wouldn't like the idea of that anyway, lol.
- LIVEY
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Theres this one inparticular guy (16) that i REALLY like a lot. Ive known him for 2 years and we've been great friends and more. ne wayz, he has problems stayin commited and keeping to one girl. Every time we make out i find out from someone else that he has a girlfriend and I feel like Im helping him cheat. my sister says forget about him, but its not that easy. what do i do?
Well yeah the best thing to do would be to forget about him, it won't be easy. But yeah. And plus a guy thats not loyal to his girlfriend right now won't be loyal to you if you're ever with him in the future... just remember that. Hes not worth your time. You can get someone better than that I'm sure.
- LIVEY
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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.
Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.
I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks!
Omgsh, I think I felt a little tear runnin down my cheek during that. That must of hurt so bad. Well, I wouldn't get him a gift or anything. And I wouldn't even be friends with her anymore. I'd tell her how you really felt and just break off the friendship. I know it sounds forward but look what she did and you know that she knows how much you cared about him and how much that hurt you... I mean then why did she do it? True friends could control theirselves in a situation like that and be there for them. (No need for 2nd chances there.) And for him, I would try to stay away from him as much as possible. I know this isnt easy because you still love him so much. But maybe you could go to the mall or somewhere and try to meet some guys. It might make you feel a bit better. I really hope you feel so much better. I'm sure it hurts but try to be strong. Love ya.
- LIVEY
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I talked to my parents, and they don't support me for being gay. I kept trying to tell them it wasn't their fault that I'm gay, but they constantly think it is. I keep trying to convince them that I was born gay, because I've always felt gay like this. Why won't they believe me that I was born gay, Olivia? What is your advice for that situation?
Aw well sorry to hear that. Well, they dont have solid evidence that people are born gay. But here is something that may lead to homosexuality that wasn't "fully proved"...
The study had at least three glaring weaknesses:
1. It was based on a small group of 41 male cadavers, including 19 homosexual males. All of the homosexual men had died of AIDS, something that many researchers believe could very well account for or contribute to the differences (in the brain stem).
2. There is no way to determine if the smaller hypothalamuses were the cause or the result of homosexual behavior.
3. The area of the brain LeVay was measuring (the INAH3) was quite small — smaller than snowflakes, according to scientists interviewed. His peers in the neuroscientific community couldn’t agree on whether the INAH3 should be measured by its size and volume, or by its number of neurons.
Of course if your parents are christians though, most likely they don't believe that people are born gay and you can't really do anything to convice them that. The Bible declares it is sin over and over... sorry ;-/ and I don't mean that in an insulting way. But they should still support you. If I was in your position I would tell them its not their fault and that you love them very much, but that is how you're going to be and if they can do one thing to help you out with the situation the least they could do is support you.
This was a very tough one. But I really hope I helped. I wish you luck.
- LIVEY
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I'm gay and my parents don't agree with my sexual preference. What should I do Olivia?
You should plan sometime to talk with them about it. And try to explain to them how you feel and even though they may not agree with it, they will most likely accept it. And if this is something you've told them recently they may just be shocked by it, and give them some time.
- LIVEY
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