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i have a bf...we have been dating for about a year...and im ready to go to the next level with him ..all we really do is make out...and i know he wants to finger me and ive given him a hanjob..how do get him really horny and let him know with out telling him i want him? (link)
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lie on the bed naked with legs spread, he will be horny and wilkl get the message... unless hes a fuckin retard
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Okay, so, here's the deal. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time two months ago. This happened about five days after my period ended. Like idiots, we didn't use a condom, but he pulled out before he ejaculated. I wasn't scared at all about any "mistakes" until I read on a website that even if the guy pulls out, it is still possible for sperm to make its way to the egg. After about a month, when I was technicly late, I told my aunt what happened and she took me to the store to buy me two tests. Both tests turned out negative, so I was relieved. However, it's been another month since, and I still haven't gotten my period. Now, I've never been very regular, but two months late, given what I've done, scares me. Is it possible that the two tests could have been wrong, and that I really am..pregnant?
I'm seventeen, if that helps any.. (link)
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There is a possiblity that the tests could be wrong. my advice is to go to your doctor as soon as you can and take a pregnancy testfrom him/her. theres is much more acurate and if it still comes out negative the doctor could explain why. hope i helped
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so my ex boyfriend and i still flirt, and talk about having sex, but we are joking because i have a new boyfriend and I am happy, but do u guys have any flirty things that i could say. Or a way to jokingly hint sex?
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ok listen here. I got a question for you. what the fuck would your boyfriend? You wanna fuck your ex fuck him but have the guts to break up with your boyfriend, you are tryin to have the best of two worlds. but you can't. So either cut this crap out or have the guts to break up with your boyfriend. And anyone who helps this girl should be fucking ashamed of themselves. and ya know what I don't give a shit if you rate me bad.
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i am a fifteen year old female. the boy i have been making out with recently wants to step up our relationship. he wants to finger me which i am totally ready for and excited for. the only concern is that i have a lot of pubic hair, so i wonder if he will be grossed out. should i shave it for him? Thanks. (link)
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you could if you wanted, alot of guys are into it bein shaved but then again others don't it wouldnt be a bad i dea to shave it but don't stress it i doubt he'll care much, and btw make sure he cuts his nails cause that can hurt like a bitch form what my girlfriend told me
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stupid question..
how do you know you like someone..i know i'm stupid but i'm just curious how someone may tell if they like someone as like bf material. (link)
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First off never say your stupid for asking a question, if you were stupid you wouldnt ask. but yea, when you look forward to seein that person each day, when they are the last thing you think of before you fall asleep and you get that butterfly feeling before you go to sleep. when someone says to you "why you have that smerk on your face" and you didnt even know cause you were just thinkin bout that person or when you would walk a thousand miles just to kiss that person. then you know they are the right material and you like them.
hope i helped.
Carney
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Okay me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months, and we were talking about a dream i had and then he started to tell me about his dream but then he stopped. i had to force him to tell me because he kept saying no, but he shouldnt have to hide anything from me. anyways he told me his dream. it hurt me so bad, i didnt show it because he seemed pretty upset and bothered by it also and ashamed but it realy hurt me , his dream was ; he was in his room or a room idk , with two other girls. having sex with them and stuff them doing stuff to him and stuff .......WHY W0ULD HE DREAM ABOUT THAT .. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THAT WAS IN HIS HEAD . he said he didnt know who the girls were, that they werent anyone, i want to belive him on that but i dont know . i dont know it hurt so bad to know that he was dreamin about fuckin two other girls. and i mean wht if this isnt the only time, i kno its just a dream but dreams mean something....does anyone know what this means?=/ (link)
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i kno your worried and it hurts, buti bet you anything if you looked at your relationship there is no reason to believe he would want to cheat on you, im guessin he's a teenager and you are too. well rightn ow we have hormones runnin around, so although he loves you with all his heart, some hormones kicked in while he was sleeping and caused him to what's refered to as a wet dream. that's all. he doesnt want that to heppen or else he wouldnt seem ashamed and sad and not want to tell you. you think he stuck around 11 momths to cheat? all it is is hormones, and belive him onthe "he didnt even know him part" be cause as a guy i kno that we tend to have dreams bout people we dont even know and have never met, the hormones just go wild. nothin to worry bout
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My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance (link)
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well you could do that, or just call him, but if this helps, like my brother, he critesized me for always talking on the phone with my girl and said he never did that, the reason being that he prefered to talk in person, he saved p what he wanted to say till eh saw her, he thought it meant more if you do that, maybe your bf is the same
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ok. when someone says 'i would make it to 1st 2nd 3rd and 4th base with you' what exactly do those bases mean? like their individual meaning. im really lost here and i would really appreciate the help as soon as possible. thankk (link)
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ok there are diffrent versions bu this is how i interupt them
1st) kissin
2)making out
3)making out with some feel action (grabing privates, rubbing)
4)sex
hope i helped, peace out be carefl
Jon a.k.a GateKeeper
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Kinda has to do about my love life and my job.
Right now im really depressed and stuck with a decision i dont want to make. I just really want to cry and let everything out but then again i dont want my parents asking me whats a matter. Is their anything i can do that will make me feel better?
thank you. (link)
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if you have a hobby or a sport it will temporarily get your mind off of things. but it might be best for you to talk about things. if you want to talk to someone email me at jec1992@aim.com. im havin some trouble with my love life too so maybe i can help
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how old were you the first time you made out?? (link)
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6 actually, but i dont think that counted. so 13
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Everyone keeps asking me what I want them to get me for my birthday next week. I really don't know what to say. I told them they don't need to buy me anything, but they keep asking! What should I do? (link)
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say that you don't need anything but if they insist then say cash. that way you can get what ever you want and they dont bother you and feel they've done good
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ok sorry i reread my last question after i posted it..and it didnt make much sense so i'll ask agian..in different words..ok so i met a guy when my family and i went on vacation at our beach house..i liked him alot and he liked me too..we made out and decided just to be friends with benefits..later the next week i had to go back home..he said he would call me every other day..and its now been about 5 days..ive called him 3 times but he was only there once..i talked to him then but not for very long..the other 2 times his grandparents said they would tell him to call me back..he called back once..but not the other time..and its been 5 days..so he hasnt called me once..only calling me back..so am i scaring him by calling him a lot and seeming clingy? even though i havent really called that much, is he losing interest in me.., or is he just forgetting to call..or doesnt like talking on the phone?..please try and answer! thanks for your help =)oh and yeah im 13/f (link)
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it could be any of thows, i still say wait to call him for a couple days, have him call you, tell him to call you back instead of the other way, he might be loosing intrest or not, it's too early to guess. and some guys like myself. just hate talkin on the phone.
so give it a couple days or if you want. you can take the upfront approach and just ask him.
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ok so i went on vacation to our beach house and met a guy that i liked alot. he liked me to and we decided to be friends with benefits..we made out and he seemed to really like me. I had to leave later the next week and he said he'd call me every day..well then he said every other day cause he'd forget..but its now been like..5 days and ive called him 3 times..and he was only there like twice..but his grandparents said they'd tell him to call me. He called back once..but not the other 2 times..so am i scaring him by calling him a lot?..ive only called him 3 times..and its been 5 days..ive called him every other day..or did he just lose interest in me since i left? thanks for your help =] oh and im 13/f if it helps (link)
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ya know you might have made him feel like this would be a free ride with him and that there would be know emotional attachment, he might be losing intrest in you or maybe is grandparents are just stupid and forgot to call. why don't you try not callin for a couple of days and see if HE calls. if not you could keep on trying calling him, give up and move on (thats my advice) or try and see him in person to taolk it out
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Uhm,ok this is random advice, what do you guys think about it?
Even though It is normal for guys [and girls :s] to like porn, it doesn't necessaraly mean that it's right. Think of it this way, in Gods eyes does he think it would be correct to do something sinful, even though you have the total conscience and controle over your hormones.
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you see that is copletely what you believe, do what yo think. No one can tell you what god thinks but you and your heart, follow it. Do what you think is right. But remember, if God wanted people to be perfect don't you think he would have made us that way? Somtimes it's best not to deny what makes us human.
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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Well I was wondering if you could share your first kiss or kiss stories with me like what to do during one where to have one etc. I haven't had one yet (obviously) lol but I was just curious to know if you'd share yours please
Thanks
B.
P.S I'm 13/F (link)
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well my first kiss was on my first date with my girl, i went all out. i brought her to my brothers wedding. so we partied all night and had a good time, danced to geather and with the drunk hockey players.
well towards then she took me by the hand and brought me to the opposite side of the receptionhall were there was some empty chairs lined up on the wall(the room we were in wasnt being used because it was a two reception hall building, we were in the other)i sat down and she lied her head in my lap, we flirted a bit and talked. then as i was looking down at her i said "i've wanted to kiss you all night, ya know that?" she said yea and we stared at each other she smiled and said "My god, do i have to do everything?" and grabbed me, pulled me down and we kissed each other, no tounge, it was just a sweet kiss. oh yea, and the song in the back round was shake that laffy taffy.
GoodLuck
jon a.k.a GateKeeper
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ok, i was talking with my frineds the other day and they said i should dump my girlfrined, and i asked why and we went into a whole list of shit, ok here it is,
1. when we are together, we don't talk much, i mean we talk alot, but not as much as i and her normly do with other people.
2. when she kiss me, it's more of a peck, and we don't kiss that much anyway.
3. she does not return some of the same feeling as i do, we both love each other very much,
and other little things, like i'm veyr romantci and she's not, i don't know what i should do, my friends mabe right, but i don't want to break up, i'm always question the relatioship, like hsould i stay init, and the problem is that i really don't know if i love her, i do, but the feeling is wirde, it's more of'should i stay in this ti make her happy at the lose of my own happyness' and things like hat, i'm her first boyfriend and she's my 3, my last two hurt my really badly, and i'm not sure if i can every love again, any advice?, if you need more info. just tell me and i will update (link)
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ok man, listen, frankly in tis matter my opinion, your friends opinion and everyone else's opinion is second hand shit. only two people matter in this situation, you and your girl. we can't tell you wheather or not to stick with her, you got to honestly say would you rather be with, or with out her, and you can always stay friends, but if you don't want to be with her, it will hurt her more for you to just pretend to wanna be with her. and i know what it feels like to hurt man, but don't worry, you'll love again, time heals all wounds and everything happens for a purpose, look for what you learned and what you can gain from the experiances.
but yea, bro this is somthing where you need to sit down and have a serious talk with your heart on wheather or not you want to be with this girl, dont let anyone els's opinions way in well your making your decision cause only yours matter.
GoodLuck, keep your chin up
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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i have this guy i been with for 8 months and he broke up with me and i gave him a letter begging him to take me back telling him i love him and i need him and i cant live without him.. and he just read it and ripped it up...and i left crying and he cursed and yelled at me..when i came back i sat by myself and cried for like 2 hours and he was all over my friends hugging them and stuff like that and i got so uppset and he didnt even care..this happend like 20 minutes ago and he isnt calling ...he never calls when we break up...i always call and beg for him back what should i do to make him want me back?
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you're not going to want to hear this, and you probally be pissed and upsset, but please think about it.
there is not much, if anything you can do, and most of it in the end will end up hurting you. this guy does not feel the same towards you and if he is he is showing it in an abusive manner, h is intentionally trying to hurt you, maybe to make you jelous or just out of spite. he is not worth you time.
Try to move on, give yourself time to heal, their will be other guys and this guy could always come back, you never know. ad if he comes back then you have the choice but he will likely hurt you again.
take some down time
GoodLuck, contact me if you ever wannt to get somthing off your chest, it will stay confidential.
Jon a.k.a GateKeeper
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ok me and my b/f were making out and whatever, then he put his hand on my thigh and slowly went up "to you knw where" and he started rubbing it slowly and then harder....what would you call that? the rubbing action of my vagina? (link)
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it's been known as petting the pussy, and is basiclly pre-fingering
GoodLuck, stay safe, be careful
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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I have liked this one guy in my class for over 3 years. I think he likes me too, but I'm not sure. My BFFs have said we would look cute together, but I don't know what to do about it. Also, my school is really small with a no PDA rule, so all the teachers would be looking at us all the time. Please help me! (link)
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sounds like what was up with me and my girlfried alana, everyone always said we would be cute togeather and we were like best friends for a year and we liked eachother alot, the teachers at are school all knew when we started going out to ( those grimmy bastards purposly seperated us on are field trip so i had to sneak up into her group) but yea, it doesn't matter if the teachers know, or if your friends sa you'll make a cute couple, what matters is this
That you both want to be togeather, so i say go for it.
GoodLuck
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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my boyfriend wants to fight with a relative of mine who has a crush on me....REAL CRUSH ON ME..they said that they will have a "till death" fight and i dont know how to stop them...my boyfriend and that guy are really stubbonrn...they may REALLY get one another KILLED...i just need a way to stop them...i am almost 15 and my realtive is 15 and half and my boyfriend is turning 17,thank you (link)
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Don't worry bout them fightin to the death, alot of people will drop out of a fight after the first haymaker makes contact, but even if they do fight the worst that will happen is a broken nose, which isn't that big of a deal, better to let it play out, let them tend to their wounds then after smakin both in the back of the head tell them if they pull that shit they'll have to deal with you, they'll get a laugh, and in all honsety, alot of friendships of my brothers and myself and other guys i know stemmed from fights, so let the boys have their fun, cause honestly that's what it is for guys, fun.
GoodLuck, don't worry
Jon a.K.a GateKeeper
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