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whats the deal with this guy?
ok so i went on vacation to our beach house and met a guy that i liked alot. he liked me to and we decided to be friends with benefits..we made out and he seemed to really like me. I had to leave later the next week and he said he'd call me every day..well then he said every other day cause he'd forget..but its now been like..5 days and ive called him 3 times..and he was only there like twice..but his grandparents said they'd tell him to call me. He called back once..but not the other 2 times..so am i scaring him by calling him a lot?..ive only called him 3 times..and its been 5 days..ive called him every other day..or did he just lose interest in me since i left? thanks for your help =] oh and im 13/f if it helps
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The thing is that many kids that age are quick to get crushes and often quick to forget them or get new ones. I know that this isnt the case for everyone (such as yourself perhaps), but in truth both guys and girls that age are not always that easy to depend on.
Now, of course it could also be that he dislikes talking on the phone or something like that, although that would be odd since he suggested calling you. Anyway, I dont think you are scaring him by calling him. He should be expecting it, just dont do it every day.
Now, if i had to guess here, I would say that he could have lost interest since you left. Its hard to say for certain since I have no idea what he wanted out of your relationship. Try to think back to when you talked to him on the phone, how he sounded, whether he seemed pleased to hear from you and so on.
If I were you I wouldnt call him too many more times if he doesnt begin to show some initiative. If you have the guts for it you could also take the direct approach and ask him what he wants. Put him on the spot a bit and see how he reacts. You may not get a straight answer but at least then you have done everything that you could possibly do.
Good luck
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ya know you might have made him feel like this would be a free ride with him and that there would be know emotional attachment, he might be losing intrest in you or maybe is grandparents are just stupid and forgot to call. why don't you try not callin for a couple of days and see if HE calls. if not you could keep on trying calling him, give up and move on (thats my advice) or try and see him in person to taolk it out
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