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confusion on a sexual bases


Question Posted Thursday July 19 2007, 3:02 am

Okay, so, here's the deal. My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time two months ago. This happened about five days after my period ended. Like idiots, we didn't use a condom, but he pulled out before he ejaculated. I wasn't scared at all about any "mistakes" until I read on a website that even if the guy pulls out, it is still possible for sperm to make its way to the egg. After about a month, when I was technicly late, I told my aunt what happened and she took me to the store to buy me two tests. Both tests turned out negative, so I was relieved. However, it's been another month since, and I still haven't gotten my period. Now, I've never been very regular, but two months late, given what I've done, scares me. Is it possible that the two tests could have been wrong, and that I really am..pregnant?

I'm seventeen, if that helps any..


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Jenny_411 answered Thursday July 19 2007, 9:06 am:
wow! I know exactly how you feel, and don't worry it has happened to me, me and my b/f had sex without a condom like almost everyday we felt that it was better but we were more cautious but any who........when you said that a sperm can get to you even if he didn't cum on you its called precum which means the cum is clear and its not white, if precum got in you and it was clear that's means that there is no chance of you getting pregnant. and your period don't worry when u have sex your period changes a lot like sometimes you can miss 2 or 3 months maybe even 4. that's how it is. it doesn't mean that your pregant just means your cycle has changed alot .so don't worry but......if have been feeling drowsy or feel like puking then take another test (just in case)
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natural_mystic answered Thursday July 19 2007, 8:51 am:
After only a month pregnancy tests are not that accurate. I know the commercials state a high percentage of accurate results at an early date but personal experience showed me otherwise. I never got a poistive test as early as a week after my period when I was pregnent.

You need to go to the doctor and get a blood serum test - this will definately tell you if you are pregnant or not.

edited to add - jenny - read this: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

and why on earth would you think your period changed just because you have sex??? that's not true. where do you get your info?

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GateKeeper answered Thursday July 19 2007, 8:39 am:
There is a possiblity that the tests could be wrong. my advice is to go to your doctor as soon as you can and take a pregnancy testfrom him/her. theres is much more acurate and if it still comes out negative the doctor could explain why. hope i helped

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