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annoying friend
So I have this friend, who I've known since 6th grade, well she got a bf 4 months ago and its a long distance relationship. Well she's always texting me sayin things like, " I think he's cheating on me" because of some stupid comments he left on myspace. Or she says, "what if he doesn't like me when he sees me in person?" I tell her he will cuz she's beautiful but she feels fat and ugly. So what do I say to her? Cuz it gets annoying after a while. Thanks anyways.
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honey everyone is insecure
but friends always tell each other everything
just be honest and say something like
hey dont worry about it i think he will love you but dont make a big deal about it and i dont want you to get mad at me for saying this but i think its affecting our friendship cuz i dont feel like were as close as we were.. something like that youll think of somethink good luck ♥christina
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Yea, my friend is the same way. Always 'I'm not pretty enough' and other insecurities. Even if you tell her things all the time, she's going to keep saying it. Just tell her, 'If you're that worried about him cheating on you, then why don't you just break up? Talk to him about it. Don't worry about when you guys meet, he's going out with you and you're beautiful. Stop worrying, the relationship is fine.'
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Well in my case, I would just talk to her face
to face about this. Tell her thats she's beautiful and that she isn't ugly or fat at all.
And even if this isnt all true, compare you and
her. Say things like, "uuughhh, your SO MUCH skinner than me!" Or-"Gosh ___, your hair is so
fricken pretty!" Just try to convince her shes
not. And if she keeps doing it, agree with her.
She`ll get the picture. <3
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