Ok so I have this guy friend and ive known him for like 3 years and ive had a crush on him since i met him. he knows i used to like him and actually he thinks i still do like him. but ive accepted that he doesnt like me back so im over it. but whenever i introduce him to one of my friends, he ends up liking them better and hanging out with them more then he did with me. i'm sick of it, but he still wants us to be good friends. how do i overcome this? also,the friend i introduce to him usually ends up liking him [hes charming e_e] and then talking about him 24/7 to me. its happened way to many times with the same guy friend!
LovMe_14 answered Thursday July 19 2007, 1:02 pm: Well ithink maybe you still like him,either way you should stop introducing the friends to him or just stop being his friend for a little while! I have a guy friend like that too and he always goes to the other girls i introduce him to and sometimes he even leaves me behind. And hes actually goign out with one of them. And on top of that there always talking about him to me of all people it like they dont even care! so JUst save your self the misery and anoyance and just not completely stop hanging out with them but limit things or talk to them about it!And i think you should even find a new friend! dont cut your other friend off but You know juss like i said limit him. Well good luck! [ LovMe_14's advice column | Ask LovMe_14 A Question ]
You_Got_Advice answered Thursday July 19 2007, 2:31 am: When you look up the word "Flirt" in the dictionary, im pretty sure this guys picture will come up! This sounds like torture for you, and only YOU can end it... and the only way to do that is to get rid of your problem. And by problem I mean "mr. guy friend." It would definitely help if you told him that you are uncomfortable with him flirting with your friends, even though he knows you are over him. If he seems to understand and possibly change, (miracles DO happen...) then you will be able to continue this friendship. I know it will be tough to discuss your problems with him, because im sure you still have an INKLING of feelings for him! I think you can do it, and you will probably have to if you want to take the weight off your shoulders! [ You_Got_Advice's advice column | Ask You_Got_Advice A Question ]
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