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I'm Michelle. I'm turning 15 soon!!! I live in beautiful Florida. Ask me about almost anything and I'll answer it, except things about computers. I mean i kno like everything about them but i don't like talking about them. So ya.

*One day you'll come to me and ask me whats more important: you or my life. I'll say my life. then you'll walk away never knowing that you are my life.*

advice

hi im really confused because me and my boyfriend got into this really big fight and its all because he thinks i like this other boy and i kinda do but i dont wanna hurt him by dumping him because i really like him two and theres these to other boys i also like so this makes four boys that i like i dont wanna like that many but i cant help it there all soooo hot i only want one tho what can i do to try to just like one boy???

well... make a list of all the things that each guy does (like pros and cons) and then see which one ranks the best. i have been in your situation before...just think about which one you adore the most and really like, because i mean there has to be one of them that you favor.
just IM me if you need any more help!!

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well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx

Definetly flirt! Flirting is a great way to attract guys and it works all the time. I'm sure there is plenty of people w/out b/f's and would probably want a g/f too. So do some flirting and see wat it brings u. Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~

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Theres this boi that i like a lot .. well we went out for a month nd i knew that i loved him .. he was a really great BF nd the only reason we broke up was cause of a rumor .. well i cry sometimes over him but ive gottin better but i still cry .. i kno that i love him .. then theres this boi that i talked to nd well i found it was one of his friends nd i was talkin to him bout the boi i like nd all nd he was like i kno him nd i asked omse questions nd hes like my bff now nd we talk a lot nd hes awesome nd all but then he told the boi i like that he talked to me nd the boi that i like said awesome tell her to kall me .. nd i was on the computer nd he got on nd i get scared wen it ocmes to tlakin to him cause i never kno if i should or not cause he might be busy or not wana talk to me or w.e but he didnt say anything to me nd now im afraid to kall nd i need help on whether i should or not .. please help i rate !!

[ cOn FuSeD ]

Call! Go for it! It's ok to be scared, just take those chances and well, it will turn out good in the end. Have fun!
~*Michelle*~

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This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out

Well try and make yr moves slowly so u don't freak him out. but ya go for it! Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~

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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?

whenever u talk with them next time, just say in a serious tone, that it was nothing and u would like them to just drop it.
~*Michelle*~

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okay its long but please help ..
i've been talking to this guy i kno from school for like a year now and he asked if i wanna hangout with him sumtime and i said yea but for like a week we were both busy .. this new girl came from rhode island and she got people screen names and started to talk to them and stuff .. she talked to him and was like do u wanna hangout sumtime (( like just as friends) .. but he fell for her .. they didnt go out tho ,, now school started and she doesnt like him anymore but i dont kno if he still likes her becaus we still talk .. i am really confused and i keep telling myself to just ask but i dont wanna ruin anything between us if we're just friends .. i really like him .. what do i do ? =( please help me

well try to somehow tell him yr feelings through body language. Maybe he will get the hint and realize and u never kno things could happen. I hope it works out!
~*Michelle*~

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Last year I met this amazing guy. We never went out, but i knew he liked me. We had a lot of fun together in class. This year he is in none of my classes. On the first day of school at lunch, our eyes met for 2 seconds. I felt so hurt. Then this year my friend told him I liked him. He said "Yeah I thought she liked me" He is hanging out with a guy who smoked pot last year. I'm afraid the guy I like will start it too, but I know he isn't into that and never will be. Lately I've been having so many dreams about him. I thought he was just a crush and I would get over him, but I can't. He means more to me than any guy has before. Should I forget him or keep on trying?

That ones hard to say. Wait until something happens and u will just know wat the right thing to do is. I have been in the exact situation as u r. So i kno how u feel. let time tell wat will happen next. it works out most of the time.
good luck!
~*Michelle*~

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[Sorry about the lengh, but I need some advice=)}About a year and a half ago, I met a guy who changed my life. When one of my best friends introduced us, I didn't really think anything of it. We hardly ever saw eachother, but talked often and had the most deep, intriguing conversations that would last for hours on end. We had a connection, somthing I had never felt before...but there, of course, was a problem...He lived an hour away. We were 14 at the time, and, me , being an only child, continued to be extremley protected by my parents when it came to dating. I saw him literally once every 6 months, and it would always be someplace public, with each one of our friends involved. A year later, and a year older, my parents agreed to take me out there for a few hours so we could finnaly be together. After that visit, we started seeing eachother more and more often, and our love grew stronger and stronger. My parents started allowing me to spend the night, and I have made so many new, interesting friends. The summer, amazing, every weekend me and him would spend together. Now that school started again, it came to realization that we have different lives, and a lot of things are going to interfere with our relationship. I am in love, and every minute i spend thinking about him...but I'm afraid that our distance, even if it is only an hour away, is going to damage our connecton. I see couples in the hallway at school, around town, and other places, and it makes me so depressed, I never take any time spent with him for granite. Some people really don't know how lucky they are to have such a great person becasue they're always with them. So I guess my question is, how do I keep this relationship strong, despite the fact that I am not around to see his actions. I mean, I trust him, and he trusts me, but all the girls I know from his town love him. He's a ladies man and I am so very jelous. I wish i could do somthing, but he always brings up how far away i am, thats why we held off going steady until the summer....please i really need some intelligent advice.

Thank you for reading this...

Hey Girl. Well this story kind of reminds me of my parents when they met. They were really far apart and didn't see each other that much but after they got out of high skool they moved in together and now they're married. So u never know wat the future might hold. I do understand where yr coming from when u say he is a ladies man and yr jealous. I would be too. It's true, It's hard to have a distant relationship but if yr love is strong enough, the bond between u guys will stay forever. O and to maybe try see wat some of his norm,al actions are, is to talk to some of his everyday friends. O has he told those girls that he has a girlfriend? cuz maybe they don't know, and think that they still have a chance with him. Ask him. Talk to him about where he thinks the relationship is going and see if that helps any bit. Well if u need n e more help, just contact me. My contacts are in my column. Good Luck and I hope it all works out!
~*Michelle*~

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well.. I'm finally with Kevin. We've been together a little over 2 weeks. The more I'm with him. The more I fall in love with him. and I'm really comfortable around him. and I really love him. I don't know what to do. because like in school we hardly see each other. Im a senior.. and hes a freshman. hes suppose to be a Sophomore but he got in a lot of trouble. But yeah ne way.. we see each other in the hall way.. and we say hi.. but thats about it.. Then after school he has football practice. Then after that he goes with his friend.. and I absolutley hate him. It seems like he never has time for me.. and I talk to him all the time. and am usually with him every night. and Tonight is the first night I havent been with him or talked to him. and he tells me all the time he loves me.. but.. I'm afraid hes... I dunno.. falling outta love with me.. or planning to break up with him.. What should I do? I really dont want to lose him. I really do care about him alot.. :( Help someone!!

Sorry soo long.

Hey Girl! Try sitting him down and talking to him or call him on the phone and ask him where he thinks the relationship is going. Tell him u don't mean it in a bad way, just that u want to know his feelings. Make sure to tell him how u really feel, u know, like not just saying I love u cuz thats just wat people say when they r going out with someone, but like u really mean it. My contact info is in my column if u need n e more help with this situation. Good Luck and I hope everything goes well for u two!
~*Michelle*~

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OK guys.. A really cute guy likes me and invited me to go to his football game tomorrow since he's one of the starting players. I know to cheer for the team and when he does good, etc.. But I dunno if I'd be able to see him after the game. I want to see him but I don't want to wait around for him if he only wanted me to be there for support. So should I wait for him or just leave after the game ?

Well if he invited u wait for him after the game and then complement him on his good plays. Plus if he likes u, I'm sure he would want to see u and ask u how he did after the game. So have fun!
~*Michelle*~

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Well, I'm 13. I just got my boyfriend
only about 5 days ago. And we just met each
other about 3 weeks ago. We really like each
other. Already, we went to a Football game
and people were chanting us to kiss...and
we did 4 times. I think we're rushing, but
I don't want to hurt anything between us. Though
I know he'll probably be fine with it if I tell him how I feel...I just can't get the guts to. What should I do?

-Mystie

When u two r alone try talking to him, and telling him that u wan to move slower and making sure that u tell him that u really like him just that u want to take things slow. Good Luck with that!
~*Michelle*~

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I'm a 15 F. This boy likes me .. almost all the girls that I've talked to like him or think hes cute. He's really shy though... He gets his friend(who is my friend too) to come up to me and say that he thinks I'm cute and ask me questions. All he's ever really said to me is hi or bye. I think it's really cute that he's shy and it shows that he's not rude or agressive like the other boys. Well the thing is.. I'm shy too and I dont know how to get a conversation going when he's with his group of friends and I'm with mine. Any ideas?

Hey girl! I have been in the same situation as u. I am also pretty shy, but my friends just told me to take those risks that u think r worthwhile. This guy sounds like the rare type thats hard to find. Take your chances. Maybe ask some of his friends to go to the movies with a bunch of ur friends too and make sure to tell them to invite this boy too. Also when u r at the movies all together, try asking ur friends to start a conversation that has to do with u and just jump in and ask some questions then about him that r realated to that subject. It will definetly get things going and give u that little extra boost. Have Fun!
~*Michelle*~

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Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast.

Well if u can see him in person then sit down and talk with him and tell him that u just weren't used to it and just were surprised that it all happened so fast. Tell him that u like him alot and that u were just alittle freaked about the kissing part. Talking always works some how or another. Good luck with him and I hope he will understand that u still like him alot.
~*Michelle*~

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Im in the army, been with my girlfriend 5 years. Im leaving again for iraq for the 2nd, should i ask her to marry me before i ago, just incase i dont come back. i love her with all my heart, i would give my life for her. but do you guys ever have the feeling how do you know if they are the one. its just so mind boggling to me. and advice would help.
thanks
josh

I think she would be very happy if u asked her to marry u before u left and that u mention to her that u would give ur life for her. Thats so sweet. O and u will know that she is the one just by instinct. U will feel like there is a band that connects u 2, to each other and no one can ever break it. If u do ask i hope she says yes. Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~

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there is this boy who b sweatin me..everywhere i go he follow..but he is a nice friend.but sometimes he just get annoying. How can i tell him to back off..but without hurting his feeling?

hey! well wat u can do is grab him for a minute and talk to him. Ask him a few questions that will maybe stop him from stalking u. Like ask him if he likes u, and if he says yes then calmly tell him that u just don't feel the same but u would like to stay friends. Without a doubt it will hurt his feelings a little bit but in other words u guys can still be friends without him following ur every move. Good luck !!
~*Michelle*~

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ok so i like this guy and i dont think that he is in my league. i mean we are friends but he is a senior and im a freshman. we are getting to know each other better but he is pretty popular and i dont think he wil ever like me... what should i do?

Hey girl! Never give up hope. O and most guys this century are really nice (even the popular ones). I happen to be in your situation alittle while back. I liked this really popular guy and I never thought that he could ever like someone like me. So I gave up all hope until I found out that he liked me too. I was alittle surprised but also excited. You never know, he could like u too. Remember you only have one lifetime, so take those risks. In the end it will be worth it. To every bad happening there is a good ending! Trust me on that one! Good Luck!
~*Michelle*~

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I went on vacation and met this perfect guy there. We hung out everyday for 2 weeks. We "were a couple" for about a week. I havent seen him now for 2 months and it has been the hardest thing ever. We both still have really strong feelings for eachother but i am kinda starting to like this guy at skool. I am going to go see him for Thanksgiving. Should i totally forget about this guy and go for someone who lives in the same state (since i will only be able to see him about 3 times a year)?? I dont kno what to do so please help me!
Thanx a lot

Hey lovey! It's yr bud Shelly!! Hun... I think you should wait until u find out wat eric really thinks(when you ask him in person over thankisgiving). O and don't give up on James etiher until u know wat he thinks. Remember to always follow yr heart and not yr head or the people like me and kim telling u to just forget about both. actually thats kim. haha. j/k

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