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My name is Kate Im from Ohio and I love to give advices and help out with all kinds of problems .

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Theres this guy that i like alot and i think i love him, and he is 19, im 15 and i dont understand wut is wrong wit the age if my mother says its alright, and he asked her if he could ask me out and she said yes but than he never asked me out, and last night i went 2 the roller rink and he wuz all ova this otha girl and makin out wit her, my friend went up 2 him and asked him wut wuz wrong wit him, he said he had a problem wit the age diffrence between us, than y would he let it get that serious i mean me were practually like goin out but he just never asked me, he would come pick me up every night, he would give me a kiss good-bye and everything. Please some1 help me
Tell me wut 2 do
Tell me wut went wrong.
PLEASE I NEED SOMEONES HELP..

Seems like you are just his rebound girl. He is just with you when he is bored and doesnt have anything to do . If he was serious about liking you he would have asked you out straight up which would have showed he cared for you but he doesnt. Forget about him you deserve better. He doesnt deserve your attention!Hope I helped.

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I have a best friend... he is so close to me. I go to his house A LOT and juss hang out. we joke around a lot. but im startin to get feelings for him. he is so hularous and very cute. i dont know what to do. i DONT want to like him but i do. and im afraid to tell him. if you could help me that would be great. im really confused. but i think i love him.???its crazy! hELLPPPPP!! thanks ♥

You need to tell him its better now than later on . Dont be shy just be like you know i was wondering do you like any one around here and if hes like yes who is it and you .Just say i do and he is really dear to me he will get really curious and would want to know. Good luck ♥Kate

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well i have this friend who i really really like..well we've dated before..and everytime i try to open up to him it seems like he pushes me away..i always tell him i want to tell the guy i like that i like him..yet he know that i'm really talking about him..and everytime he always says go for it and tell him how you feel what do you have to lose..i always say well he hates me and he'll always say "who could hate you?"..yet i still think he does..and i want to know if he feels the same way about me as i feel about him..what can i do? i really need help on this one..it's very hard. please help!

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Talk to him openly just like you did now tell him your feelings towards him like he said what do you have to lose? Go for it you never know he may feel the same about you just waiting for you to open up first.Good luck ♥Kate

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hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand why hed say that, should i be worried? then we were across the street outside and he was gunna go in and get something but these guys came out of a store and sat in there car and tim waited till they left to go in the store because he thought they would talk to me and id do somethin.. id never do that.. whats some ways i can show him how much i love and care?♥ thanksss!

Talk to him let him know that he should trust you and that you will never cheat or betray him.Let him know how much you love him by doing something romantic for him maybe like making him dinner and lighting some candles up ,listening to soft music . Seems like you both love eachother alot.Maybe he just doesnt want to get hurt that is why he asked you all those questions.Hope I helped ♥Kate

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So me & this guy were going out.. it had been going great and all but his ex girlfriends were real bitches!! but anyways.. so we ended up braking up because he got suspended and got grounded for the whole summer. He's usually aloud to go to his best friends house (dont ask me why) even if hes grounded but he couldnt even go there.. so we decided to brake up. but see the thing is that about a week into summer (we broke up about a week before school ended) he was able to go to his friends house again. and about three days after that he wasnt grounded anymore.. i saw him at the carnival all over his ex girlfriend (the bitchy one) but he calls me once and a while(we were friends before we went out) but it just seems like i was someone to try and get over his ex and not someone who he really cared about. is he a jerk.. or what?

He is definetly a jerk if he really liked you he would have found/made time to spend time with you ! and being all over his ex thats just wrong it sounds to me that you were just a girl that he was using to get over his ex just like you said. Forget about him u dont need a guy like that. ♥Kate

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hey, heres my long question.
ive been going out with this guy on and off for 6 monthes now. the first time i broke up with him was because i didnt think i liked him anymore. then i realized i still had some feelings for him. when we broke up he was sooo sad. he cried all the time, wudnt talk to me, his friends wud yell at me for breaking his heart, and i felt aweful. then when we got back together things were tough, we fought a lot and we both started to like each other less at different times. now im not sure if i like him so much anymore again. i still like him a lot, but sometimes i just dont. im not sure what to do, its summer and were not going to be in the same school next year, we wont see each other very much. i like him a lot still, but i dont know if i shud move on. i dont think he'll ever move on, thats kind of the person he is and i hate seeing him sad when hes not with me. i dont want to break his heart again, but i kinda want to move on.. i have no idea what to do. do you think i should start by telling him how im feeling? or just think it all over and take action. maybe he would want to know? what do you think?

You should definetly tell him how you feel dont just break up with him I have been in the same case and its not easy but if you think that you should move on he cant stop you from that. You can always stay good friends.He will move on he wont be stuck thinking of you forever.On and off relationships are always hard to go through but its better this way then going through it all over again. Good Luck, ♥Kate

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ok well my sister thats going to 6th grade as a boyfriend and since now its summer she hasnt been able to see him as much and she really wish she could see him a lot more she really misses him. What should she do so she can see him more. She doesnt have his number because they got together at the end of the school year. I really want them to see each other more they really like each other. Please help. What to do so they can see each other more. I feel really bad for them.

yours truley, confused with love

She should like look him up in the phonebook if she knows his last name .Does she know where he lives or any of his friends maybe she can go to his house and try to look for him there or ask his friends about him. Hope that helps ♥ Kate

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ok there is this guy that i like and he is my best friends brother.
well i went to his house one night and we ended up kissing and i couldnt help but to fall even more for him...
he acts like he likes me but im not for sure if he does,....
because after that night we went a while without talkin and now we are like the best of friends but i wanna be more/please help the best you can i am open for any advice

Well be straight forward about it and tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same about you or likes you more than a friend. If he doesnt feel the same you will still have a good friend its better to know instead of holding those feelings inside you. Good luck ♥ Kate

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i'm dating a guy who treats me like a princess, but when we're in the bedroom, he treats me like a prostitute. he spanks me(lightly), pulls my hair, and says things like "your're so, so dirty. someone needs a shower, she's so nasty." what's up with him.

Seems like he likes it kinky and wild in bed. Most guys are like that ,by the tone you can understand when he wants it badly haha when he says all those dirty things. Theres nothing wrong with him dont worry he just likes it rough. If you dont like some of the phrases he uses tell him you are not comftable with the way he talks so he can know what you like, be open with him and dont be afraid to tell him what you think and how you want it.If he doesnt listen to you then it wont work out,hope I helped. ♥ Kate

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ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2?

I had a best friend and her bf beated her up infront of my face he broke her jaw and gave her a black eye due to the fact they broke up thats why that happened.I tried to separate them but i didnt want to get hurt either.She was in a terrible condition and no one should lay a hand on you. I suggest that you put a restraining order on him and his friends and tell some one . This is seriously dangerous i know it because i saw it infront of my eyes dont put your life in danger. Please take this into a serious consideration!Hope I helped ♥Kate

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Ok, I like this guy! Hes sooo adorable... but the problem is hes 18 and im like in love with his eyes and EVERYTHING! He has the cutest smile...EVER and we flirt constantly! But the problem is (again) is that I dont know how to talk to him!! I mean i am sooooooo speechless around him!!! My heart sinks and just gets all butterfly like...ha.. someone help me! Please i need to overcome my fear of this and i dont know how to... he works at this music place and he asked me 3 times to help me and im like uhh no lol and i was with my friend and shes like O-M-G!! You should have made up an exuse!!! And then i get all freaked and idk what to do!!! AAH!! I luv him...haha

obsession?!

Please help

xoxo

haha sounds like he is adorable well why dont you go and if he comes again just ask him for a cd that you are looking for or whatever and be like well i love this band what do you like/love? haha and then i guess you guys will get into a conversation. try to be more outgoing dont be shy lol maybe he is shy inside too if he was playing with the poster maybe hes trying just for you to notice him that he feels the same. probably you clicked haha.it would be even better if you can just go up to him and start talking like whats up , try to get rid of your shyness.good luck.hope i helped. ♥ kate

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the last to times ive spoken to my boyfriend (thurs and fri) i called! i said id call him later but so did he so..im kinda waiting for him to call this time..thats good right? i mean i shouldnt call if ive called the last times right

Well it really depends you both can call eachother you dont need to take turns just dont over do it i mean by you calling him constantly.Hope I helped. ♥ Kate

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well theres this boy who goes to my church and he is so fine but im a afraid to ask him. and i think he likes me cause he looks at me and smiles and he likes to follow me sometimes and is name is adam and i need ur help

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Well i think that you should sit next 2 him in church if you can and probably on the end of the session just start talking to him like so whats up ?what do u do for fun? just start a conversation and by the time you know it be like so do you have a gf if he says no then maybe he will ask you if u have a bf and it will go on from there. haha good luck ♥ Kate

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Thers a kid named Cam, and he spends every summer at his cousins house, kyle, who happens to be my neighbor. So last summer he liked me alot and I didnt know it because I liked someone else. Then when summer ended I found out and started being OBSESSED with him. But he didnt like me anymore! Then in February he went over kyle's and I had two friends over, so Cam, kyle, my two friends, and I hung out. And at the end of the night kyle told me that Cam didnt really wanna go out with me because he didnt think I would do stuff with him. And I got pissed, so I confronted Cam and told him how shallow that was, then he got mad and blocked me and we didnt talk for about 4 months. Last Sunday he went over kyle's and we hung out and kyle told me he liked me again! But I dont know if I shoul;d like him back cuz I dont wanna get hurt. what do I do?

He didnt want to go out with you because he didnt think you would do stuff with him? Does he mean like make out and things like that? If thats the case then you shouldnt like him back seems like he just maybe using you for those things. Try to find a better guy ! I hope I helped.

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I like some one allot but he told me the other day he doesnt believe in God. He believes in Jesus just doesnt think he is his son. I told him stuff that can prove he is real. I also told him that, If I believe he is real and he isnt I am not missing out on anything but if he is real and I believe in him I am doing right. but I still dont know what to tell him to make him believe in him. I mean I would really fill good about my self if I can turn some one into the right track. his family believes in him just not him I dont understand. pleaze help

I dont think you can make some one believe in something if they dont want to believe it themselves. If he believes in Jesus but doesnt think he is his son then thats his point of view .Maybe you can tell him to read the Bible if you really want to help him.I hope that helped!

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i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else

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Seems like you dont want to be alone well you should break up with him.If he is irrated by you then he is not into you .If a guy likes you would know it because he would be nice,sweet and gentle towards you not the way your bf threats you. There are so many guys out there which are much better than him. You deserve better not a jack ass like him.Even if it takes you a while to find mr.right its always good to be single:)!I hope I helped!

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I've had terrible luck in love lately. I haven't found any guy who meets my standards (which aren't extreme, just funny, sweet, smart, etc.) I've been thinking a lot about my former crushes and boyfriends, and I thought of this guy, "Josh". Josh and I were friends & hung out a lot last summer. We sort-of dated for probably a month, but then after school started, we drifted apart because we were at 2 different schools (he's a year younger than me). Thing is, I really miss him and I think I'm in love with him. He's been on my mind so much lately, and it's driving me crazy because I never see him anymore! What am I supposed to do?

You both go to different schools and he's a year younger than you. I know how that is I was in the same situation i wasnt able to see my ex bf and we started falling apart i wasnt able to know what he was doing at his school and who was he flirting with etc . I think that you should move on and just be friends with him or just be cool with him.Dont ever think of going back with any of you ex's there is always some one better for you out there than them! I hope I helped.

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There is this absolute gorgeous guy who I have somewhat of a crush on. My friends and I just started hanging out with him a few times this summer. He was flirting with one of my friends at a party. I was talking to him on IM that night, and we were flirting alot. He asked me when we were going to hook up. I told him only if hes not hooking up with other girls, and he said no only you. A few nights before he told me he wanted to hook up, he slept with this one girl. They didn't have sex, they just slept together. I don't want to go out with him, and I know this won't be anything serious, but I'm scard that if I hook up with him, I might get involved, and end up with a broken heart. I've never hooked up with a guy before, and this is the only guy I would ever want to. What do i do?

Well I think you should hook up he sounds like a nice guy but you never know dont get to attached to him incase you guys break up or anything else.

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