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IN LOVE, BUT I DONT WANNA GET HURT
Thers a kid named Cam, and he spends every summer at his cousins house, kyle, who happens to be my neighbor. So last summer he liked me alot and I didnt know it because I liked someone else. Then when summer ended I found out and started being OBSESSED with him. But he didnt like me anymore! Then in February he went over kyle's and I had two friends over, so Cam, kyle, my two friends, and I hung out. And at the end of the night kyle told me that Cam didnt really wanna go out with me because he didnt think I would do stuff with him. And I got pissed, so I confronted Cam and told him how shallow that was, then he got mad and blocked me and we didnt talk for about 4 months. Last Sunday he went over kyle's and we hung out and kyle told me he liked me again! But I dont know if I shoul;d like him back cuz I dont wanna get hurt. what do I do?
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Don't rush into "doing stuff" with someone who is only going to be around for the summer. I don't know that I would take Kyles word for weather or not Cam liked you. I think You need to hear it from him before you make to many plans. If he is only here for the summer then yes, you will probably get hurt. He hardly knows you but wants you to do stuff. He will want to do it with other girls when he gets back home again. I think a friendship is okay...don't think I would get real seriously involved. :)
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I hate to tell you this, but it sounds like if he does go out with you it would be just to do "stuff" with you. He wouldn't like you for who you are because he's hung up on doing stuff. I was in this situation a couple times and I just decided to move on. This guy obviously isn't worth your time... you can do a lot better than him. You need a guy who will appreciate you for who you are... not how well you make out or how far you'll go. So, try and forget about him, because most likely he will hurt you.
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Stuff like makeout and things. If yes than he's not worth your time.
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He didnt want to go out with you because he didnt think you would do stuff with him? Does he mean like make out and things like that? If thats the case then you shouldnt like him back seems like he just maybe using you for those things. Try to find a better guy ! I hope I helped.
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