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well first me an my boyfriend were deeply in love but then i dont know what happened i am still very in love with him but i keep on having these feelings that something is going on because is calling later an later every night an sometimes it gets to the oint to where im crying when he calls an when he calls he always has a stupid excuse (link)
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This really isn't a question or you haven't really asked your question.
But if you ask me it seems like your being inscure, believe me I know what your going through cause i was in your situation with my now on and off bf.
You need to figure out the trigger for having the feeling that something is going on. Has he done something to make you not trust him? He could be just busy, i think you should believe him even if the excuses are stupid. Hoped I helped
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Im in love with a person who i think has an abssesive compulsive love personality disorder. I'm in a relationship that i want to save.we been together 1 yr and 3 months now. I love and and he claims he loves me. He isolates me from family members and friends, he hsa to go everywhere with me,he tries to control my finances,he monitors my phone calls, he calls throughout the day somtimes 30 times. We broke up in april 22 2011. he moved back to mississippi. he is suppose to catch the train monday night june 6th to come back here to illinois. he claims he has been faithful, i haven't been faithful cause i don't believe him. We are suppose to go to family counseling june 9th. he say he wants to change. I never call him down there cause he says his family don't like me. i don't know what he is doing. I plan to untie my tubes in march 2012. to have his child.I have 3 kids already. At 1st i said no but he pressures me. so i gave in. today he called saying he is trying to get in touch with the person who is to take him to the train. Its now 4:48p ,train leaves at 7p. Im getting a strange feeling.I am a female age 32. Do you think i should continue this relationship? (link)
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No you should not continue with this relationship. It is not a disorder. He is controling you, and he does not love you either if he did then he wouldn't be controling you. And if you don't trust him then that should have giving you the clue that you shouldn't be with him.
DO NOT have kids with him, if you do then your gonna be tied to him for the rest of your life. So i think you should dump him and find someone better who well treat you right.
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I am angry. I'm sure there are more girls out there who are as angry out there as I am. I am 17. I am so sick of pussy hungry guys. Why does it seem like now days all guys want is sex. They can't stick with one girl for at least a month. Its like, they can't ever get enough pussy at all. I am just sick of it. It's just so selfish and pig like. What is happening? It just seems to get worse every year. I know not all guys are like this, but most of them are...ew...its so irritating! I just want to hear your opinions guys/girls, what you think about what i'm saying. (link)
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I know how you feel, every guy i meet just wants sex. Even the guy i'm with wants sex all the time (Don't worry i don't give in and surprisingly he hasn't cheated on me guess he doesn't want me to leave). But i have to say NOT all guys are like this.
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Well I'm a junior in high school, and last year this boy, who flirts a lot with many girls, including me, started to really have feelings for me, and I just blew it off because he was always just play flirting. He finally convinced me he was serious, and I really started to develop feelings for him. I found out he had a girlfriend this whole time, and got mad at him for flirting so much with me. He told me he didn't like her and broke up with her. I really liked him so we started dating over the summer. He started acting very weird and ignoring me after a few weeks, I finally got sick of it and we decided we were going to take a break, which turned into a break-up. We came back to school and he apparently liked a new girl. He still texts me and tells me he misses talking to me, but always changes the subject when it comes to our relationship. He also told me he didn't like the other girl. I don't know what to do because I've tried to get over this boy but I really think I fell in love, and now I'm stuck because I know I should get over him but I cant. I don't know what to do because he obviously has problems with staying with one girl, but i just dont get how he can go from being sooo into me, to this. I'm just miserable and don't know what to do because I dont want to give this up when I know hes the one for me. Please any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated:) (link)
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I have 2 words for you and a bit of advice.
MOVE ON!
If this guy keeps doing this to you then he isn't worth your time. Find some other guy that well treat you SOOOOO much better.
And also cut off ALL convosertions with him.
If he texts you, calls you etc etc IGNORE IT.
In the end you'll be ok.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months today, and it's just not the same. We both know things have changed. He told me he still loves me a lot, and i feel the same way about him, but we're bored. Nothing to do. I want to be with him so much, but it's just so frustrating and it hurts because he doesn't show me that he cares about me anymore the way he used to. I'm so tired of feeling so lost in our relationship, but I'm afraid of losing him. I love him and want to be with him, but I'm so tired of not feeling like he cares.
I've tried and tried talking to him about it and nothing really gets resolved, except that he still loves me.
Can anyone please help.
I really need any advice that can be given.
Thanks you. (link)
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I'm going through the same thing right now. Only thing is, is that we've been together for almost 7 months and haven't said the "L" word yet.
The only thing to do is talk to him about how your feeling (that's what me and my bf did last night because we both blew up on each other about our problems).
If talking still doesn't work out, then just leave, because nothing well ever get resolved if he doesn't talk.
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okay first why do guys go for whores? like there can be pretty girl and they are no whores. and it really matters what is in the inside.. (well thats what i thought until i notice mad dope boys go out wit whores or ugly people lik what are they thinkin lol) well can someone tell me why guys mostly go for whores? (link)
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My bf actually brought this up yesterday for some reason and I actually think its right.
SOME guys go for whores because some women won't give them sex on the first date.
So whores are easy to sleep with.
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Alright, so I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. By the way..i'm fifteen. But yeah I go over to his house and like I'm really starting to like him because he's hilarious and fun to talk to and stuff. So anyways, whenever I go over to his house he always starts taking off my pants and I have to go "I don't want to have sex yet.." and he like groans and says okay...thats okay. But then the next time we hang he does the same exact thing! And it's like this EVERY FREAKING TIME. And it's just like cool your jets, man. I'll let you know when I'm ready. But I still tell him this and he's still trying all the time. That little horndog him. But I keeping thinking...does this give off that he's only trying to get sex? Like common, honestly if I were a guy and I was dating a girl, I wouldn't try having sex with her all the time, every single time, when we're fifteen? Like I know people want to get out of that "virgin" category but commmmon. Most guys atleast ASK! But this just gives off that he only wants sex, should I break up with him?
thanksss guyss. (link)
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I think you should break up with him, b/c clearly he just wants sex and nothing more.
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okay so i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. we've dated since my freshman year (his senior year) and everything was great. i mean we talked about getting married after i graduate and everything. plus we were each other's firsts. but lately i feel like i don't want to be with him. and i think it has something to do with my best friend from 5th grade coming back down here to visit in the summer. i hadn't seen him in 6 years so i spent time with him. and he always said stuff like wow you're hot and asking me if you didn't have a boyfriend would you be with me. and i feel like i need to be with my boyfriend to make him happy but its not like before when i felt like i needed to be with him because he made me happy. if that makes sense. plus i told him that i didn't want to get married right after high school because i want to go to college and experience that but he says well you can go to community college but the thing is if i can get into a university then i'm going to go. he wants things to stay the same like how we planned it my freshman year but i don't. i just don't know what to do. (link)
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Well if your not happy with your bf then dump him.
And has for him wanting you to go to community college, that sounds a bit controling.
If you want to go to University then go (if you get in that is). Its your life not his, do what you want to do.
Hopefully I helped
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So my bf and I have been happily dating fir 5 months now. He is 19 and I am 18. The thing is, is that I feel that I forced him to say he loves me.
...the reason I feel this??
Well he told me like a month into our relationship that he has never told a girl that he loved them. He says that he takes those words very seriously and he only wants to say "I love you" to one girl the rest of his life. I respected that and thought it was sweet. So then we kept dating and a couple more months go by and I seriously started falling in love with him. I felt that he felt the same way. We would, instead of saying "I love you", say "I like you". It was used as if the word like was taking the place if the word love. Eventually this became frustrating for me and I would tell him "I don't like you baby...I more than like you" but I wouldn't actually say I love him because he had told me before not to say it because he wouldn't say it back. And I obviously didn't want to get hurt.
...fast forward to like month 3 or so. So there we are...lying in one of our friends houses hanging out upstairs while our friends are downstairs hanging out. So it's just me and him and we are all cuddly and kissing and stuff and I told him that I was sick of saying I "like" him blah blah blah cuz I didn't feel I "like" him, but a stronger feeling. He totally agreed with me and said he felt the same way. This just bothered me. So I told him that if we both feel this way then why aren't we saying it. So we ended up talking and finally he told me he loved me. It was awesome the way he said it too...he was all detailed and sweet. It was perfect how he said it.
But I totally nagged him about saying it for the longest time and he finally did, but I forced him.
So we have been saying "I love you" ever since. I really do love him. I am in love with him. But I'm scared...
Tonight I sent him a text saying "do u feel that I forced you to say you love me?" and his respons...
"sorry but ya kinda."
WHAT!?!
Then before I could find out any information more he ended up falling asleep before texting me back! Ahh!
So tell me...how am I supposed to know he actually does love me if he said I forced him??? Totally sucks. =\
But anyway...thanks for your help in advance. It is MUCH appreciated. :) (link)
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Well for starter's I'm going through the same thing with my bf (kinda), there's a few differences tho. For 1. i told him NOT to say it onless he means it. 2. He's still in love with his ex b/c they were together for 3 years and were gonna get married. and 3. I told him if he EVER said "I love you" without meaning it, i would leave.
So overall your sitation could be worse, don't ya think?
Secondly, u should go ahead and say it, even tho you know he won't say it back, it may hurt, but at least HE knows and YOU know that you love him.
Thirdly, Tell him that if he doesn't want to say those's words UNTILL he is actually ready then, he should.
Hopefully I helped.
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Male, mid 20's.
I'm not going to bore with details. Over half a decade ago, I met my first love, who after barely a year, tore my heart out and broke my confidence in myself. I attempted to repair the bond to at least be friends, with horrible results.
I thought I was past it all, but recent I ended up seeing her again, and it reopened the old wounds. More than half a decade since it happened, and I'm still hurt when I am either reminded of the past, or placed in a situation where I re-encounter her.
I'm starting to worry that I'm not well in the mind. I mean, I should be over it. And yet, this scar on my heart keeps getting ripped open at the slightest chance involving anything that reminds me of the past. Why can't I stop feeling hurt by this? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you.
I ususally move on from my exs after about a month or 2, but my last bf i'm still not over, its been 6 months tomorrow.
And reccently we started becoming friends again and it hurts like hell to talk to him.
Don't worry about it though, eventually you'll get over your ex.
As the post said below see a therapist (sorry can't spell) to see if there is anything wrong.
Take care :)
BrokenAngel
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ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff (link)
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I'm going through the same thing with my current bf at the moment.
What i'm doing is saying no (i think he understands, but i'm not really sure).
I'm going to break up with mine (i have other reasons for breaking up with him) but for you talk it over with your bf, and the next time he wants sex just say No, or your not in the mood (it gets my bf every time lol).
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so last night my bf for over 2 and a half years dumped me because he says he doesnt know what he wants and that hes not happy. and that he wants his old life back before he met me. He also told me him and his ex are good friends now and that he was hiding it from me. I've been crying ever since and have this feeling in my stomach that wont go away. I guess its what a broken heart feels like. He broke up with me on the phone but told me he wanted to wait until this weekend but i told him no. I really need some advice and help to how i can get over him faster and be happy again. Oh and if this feeling is a broken heart. (link)
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We've all been there. The only thing you can do is take time to get over him. It'll be a while sure but after a while things will get better.
Listen to songs that make you want to dance etc etc not songs that make you even more depressed than you already are.
I hope I helped some. Good luck, and if you ever need to talk, just message me if you want.
BrokenAngel
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f/16
I think I'm a lesbian and I'm not too sure of how I should break it to my family and friends. Lets be honest I'm petrified. Not too worried about my family but my friends I'm very scared about telling, considering most of them are girls and will probably be scared away from me. Can someone please give me some advice on how I should break the news without all my friends running a mile. I need to get it out soon or I think I might just die with worry. (link)
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Well honesty is always best, break it to your family and only tell the friends that are close to you. If they run then they arn't your true friends.
P.S i am bi, so i know what your going through.
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What do you think is an appropriate age limit for dating? Like how many years older should it be and how many years younger. I am 18 years old and I have come to the realization that I need to set a date age limit... so any ideas would be lovely. Thanks. =]
P.S. I rate high for good advice ;) (link)
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To me age is just a number.
If u want to date someone younger don't go under 16.
If u want to date some1 older don't go above 21.
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Heey . does anyone think its a bit slutty to break your virginity at 13 ? (link)
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No, not slutty, just a really bad choice
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