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Should i continue in a relationship with him?
Im in love with a person who i think has an abssesive compulsive love personality disorder. I'm in a relationship that i want to save.we been together 1 yr and 3 months now. I love and and he claims he loves me. He isolates me from family members and friends, he hsa to go everywhere with me,he tries to control my finances,he monitors my phone calls, he calls throughout the day somtimes 30 times. We broke up in april 22 2011. he moved back to mississippi. he is suppose to catch the train monday night june 6th to come back here to illinois. he claims he has been faithful, i haven't been faithful cause i don't believe him. We are suppose to go to family counseling june 9th. he say he wants to change. I never call him down there cause he says his family don't like me. i don't know what he is doing. I plan to untie my tubes in march 2012. to have his child.I have 3 kids already. At 1st i said no but he pressures me. so i gave in. today he called saying he is trying to get in touch with the person who is to take him to the train. Its now 4:48p ,train leaves at 7p. Im getting a strange feeling.I am a female age 32. Do you think i should continue this relationship?
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No you should not continue with this relationship. It is not a disorder. He is controling you, and he does not love you either if he did then he wouldn't be controling you. And if you don't trust him then that should have giving you the clue that you shouldn't be with him.
DO NOT have kids with him, if you do then your gonna be tied to him for the rest of your life. So i think you should dump him and find someone better who well treat you right.
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No. He's a jerk, and you don't deserve someone who is so controlling that he'll monitor your calls. He's not worth being the father to your child. I wish you luck.
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