17/f
Okay... I just recently got out of a relationship (about a month ago) and it had gotten pretty serious. I really loved her and we wanted to get married. But then she broke my heart and left me. It took me a while to get over her, but I know now that I definetly am.
I haven't exactly had the best track record for relationships. One of my exes was a stalker, the other cheated on me, and the most recent one left me. So I'm kind of nervous to start a new relationship.
But there is this girl Chelsea and she is extremely funny, and pagan like me, she has an adorable smile, and is shy but outgoing at the same time. She is like... exactly my ideal type of girl. But I'm scared that it will end badly and I'm scared of being hurt again. I just want to be held and loved. I was sort of flirty with her at our friend's sleepover and she seem receptive to it (she is bisexual). I'm going to be going to the movies with her this weekend and I don't know if I should make a move.
it sucks to get hurt in every relationship, I know. Don't rush into a relationship just because you feel alone, it'll only hurt you in the end. You need to let her know how you feel, but take everything slowly. Also, avoid having feelings that are really deep. It might be hard for you to swim out of deep feelings if a shark were to come around, metaforically of course.
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Ok this is a really, really awkward question... I have a cousin... actually, he's my 4th cousin... and he rides my bus, and last year (in 7th grade) we became pretty close and everything (that was the year we figured out we were related). By the way, he's about half a year younger than me and in a grade lower. And he is really WRONG. Like, he's really perverted, but he is hilarious. So now that I'm in 8th grade, I've really missed him over the summer-we didn't do anything together. I don't talk to him much because I'm always in the very back, but I've found myself... uhm... trying to get his attention sort of. Here comes the really bizarre part... well, I think I might like him.... oh God that sounds weird... so that's my dilemma. I can't even ask my very best friend what to do, because she knows we're 4th cousins and that he's pretty much a freakshow. But I always find myself thinking about him, because he's really, really cute and has the hottest voice ever... ugh, there I go again!... I'm losing it... it's so weird, and I really want to find someone A. My own age, B. Not a perv and C. NOT RELATED to me, not even if it's distant. Please, PLEASE help me, I have no idea what to do!!! I feel like a total wreck...
I'd avoid having any type of intimate relationship with him, just because the fact that you two are, although distantly, still related. It would kill your reputation around school. Try to find someone else that you could like, just to get your mind of of your 4th cousin. You would be risking more than it's worth.
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what are some good songs about raising money or things of the sort? or what are some good songs about changing the world?
"change" by Jamestown Story
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have you ever been cheated on or anything to do with cheating?
I just have a small situation. My friend Sam cheated on her bf Allan with my bf's best friend and his brother. She made out with both of the guys and gave on of them head. Her bf allan is good friends with me and my bf and we decided we should tell him-- so we did the next day.
Sam and I weren't completely good friends but we were close somewhat. But if he did this to her, I would probably tell her too. So she's pissed and she has all my friends against me. Even my bffl. But i know i did the rite thing. All this time, past 2 weeks I've been there for Allan; even pickig him up at midnite because he was so depressed and taking him 2 parties to help him get his mind off her. And she does everything she can like for example- she cuts hereself- for attention. Allan and her are supposed to talk 2morrow and i want to kick her ass so bad but I'm not going to be there.
there's only one lil thing that i messed up on. at the party i told her to go for--to cheat. and when i told my bffl the story i admitted i told her to go for it.....and allan doesnt kno that. i told him i never said that and he believes me. but now sam and kayla my best friend have this against but my bf was there but will tell alan that it never happened, but im still afraid he'll beloieve her. he want to be with her but knows he shouldn't.
what do u think i should do now? kayla keeps telling me to back off when sam from the beggining said she was gonna break up with him.kayla and sam never even liked each other? everyone feels sorry for her because all she does it cry and they give me stuff like "you have no idea how much she has been thru" blah blah when this is all for attention and i'm not stupid.
now i really don't know what do or even say?
Ok. I've done stupid stuff like that too. Just the best thing to remember is: If your don't admit it, you still have a chance.
Make sure that no one knows you told her to do it. If you tell people the your lie before they hear her truth, they will believe your lie because it's what they hear first. Normally, someone who is lying about something would avoid the topic, so that's why you need to make people believe your lie, but say something like this. "Omg, that chick is fucking crazy! She's spreading rumors about me just cus she hates me. She's saying that I told her to do it and all this other shit that isn't even true!" This technique works. I've had to use it before because of 1 stupid thing I've done.
Also, to avoid Allan from believing her, simply get to be really close with him. Doing this, it will get really easy for you to manipulate him into thinking his ex is a total bitch. Therefor, he will believe you.
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Okay, so I met this girl at a party/bbq thing last night. I think she was kinda drunk, and I was tipsy. Basically, we ended up making out and stuff, even though we barely knew each other. Well basically for the rest of the night we just ended up holding each other and making out and stuff like that and talking a little. The thing is, I really don't know much about her, and she gave me her number before the night was over. I kinda want to call her, but I don't know what to talk about at all. Can anyone suggest what I should do?
Well, the easiest way to start up a conversation is when she says "what's up" actually say what your doing. For example:
Her: Hello
You: Hey this is _____ from the other night
Her: O hey! whats up?
You: Just watching Pirates of the Caribbean.
Her: Oh
You: Have you seen it?
And so on...
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What traits do girls look for in guys? What would your ideal guy be like?
Watch John Tucker Must Die. Everything he ACTS like he is is what girls look for. Mainly lots and lots of compliments.
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Ok so today 5/20/07 is me and my boyfriends 6 month anniversary and on thursday I had a break down because he was spending to much time with his best friend (who is a girl) he stays over at her house and sleeps in her bed and it pisses me off. So I flipped out on myspace and they got pissed. me and my boyfriend fixed everything and he spends more time with me now. He asked his friend if she would let me be involved in activities that they do and she keeps saying "yea since she's so jelous " blah blah blah....
She keeps dragging it out and doing stuff to make me jelous.
my first question is
1.) How do I piss her off more?
2.) How do I tell her to quit dragging things out like my 5 year old brother and grow up? Without punching her in the face?
Well, first of all, best friends last a while. You shouldn't expect him to give up a best friend for a girlfriend. If you knew him before you went out with him, you would have known that his best friend is a female. In your case, sadly, she really doesn't like you. I see 2 ways to go about this:
1: You have to be nice to her. The more she knows you hate her, the more shit she's going to say about you to your bf.
2: Break up with your bf. Obviously, your two lifestyles are to different to have this relationship last.
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me and my boyfriend have been talking and we need a song! he likes kind of the songs by hinder and daughtry, which id ont mind, and i kind of like the more hiphoppy songs.Anyone have any suggestions??
"First Date" by Blink 182. It's amazazing. :]
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Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes??
Yes, most girls do love sex. But most don't say yes to it as much as guys do because of the terrifying risk of pregnancy and reputation. If guys score a girl, they usually brag about it. If I girl gets fucked, she's known as the whore. Pregnancy is a huge issue for younger girls doing it in their first time or two. But basically, yes, girls get just as horny as guys do.
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I like this boy named Steven. and we talk a lot but we've never met (I know him through my ex boyfriend, haha). and we're pretty much eachother's type. But he really really likes my friend who he's never met either. and they barely ever talk. only like twice online. she's really gorgeous but has no personality. and I know he only likes her for her looks and it makes me really sad because we're good for eachother. I'm not ugly, I'm just not as good looking as her. but I'm a lot funnier and nicer.
so, what do I do?
We're all supposed to hang out and I want to tell him. But he's just so shallow, and I hate that. it's just a crush. so should I let it go or tell him to see what he says?
the thing is, he considers me a good friend. and if he knew I liked him, he might not talk to me as much. and I don't want that. but I do like him alot.
help?:)
haha. thats so ironic cus i sort of like a guy named steven. anywaiz, just play it cool with him. dont go out with him cus when yall break up itll be really awkward. sorry, but youre just gunna have to deal with him liking someone else. and actually, you are not eachothers type if he doesnt like you back. if hes shallow and shes gorgeous without a personality, then let them go out and maybe he will realize he doesnt like her cus shes a bitch or sumthin.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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16/f
well there is this guy that i kinda am starting to like. but he was like ohh yeah i cant go out with a girl that cant dance! and i was like yeah blah blah but you see i cant dance for shit! haha like ive never really danced with a boy before..like grinding and stuff. so im worried if a guy asks me to a dance or something and they want to dance i will be so embarassed about it because i wont know what to do! and people will laugh and be like haha she does not know what she is doing! ahhh and this guy doesnt know it either otherwise he will tell his friends and everyone else and they will be like oh my god you dont know how to dance? AHAHA.
yeah.i dont know what to do..
Grinding is actually really simple. I know this sounds dumb and repetitive, but you'll catch on. Just follow his lead. Your hips move at the same rate and his. The main point of grinding is to get the guy horny by shoving your ass into his dick. So as long as you are close to him, he will probrally think you are good at grinding. I'm horrible at actual dancing, but grinding is pretty easy. And people don't usually say that. If they do, it is because they are jelous you are dancing with a guy and they aren't. It's usually so crowded at school dances that no one really stares at you dancing. So all you can really do is wait til the time comes.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to
Thanks!!!
"buttons" by pussycat dolls
"sexyback" (it IS ONLY one word, no i didnt forget a space.) by Justin Timberlake
That's all i got :). good luck and have fun.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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My bf keeps telling me what girls hot, and etc. It lowers myself-esteem. How do I look sexxy, so he looks at me, more then them. How can i plan hard to get, for him to want me more. I just want him to want me still.. we've been together for a year and a half.. so dont go saying breakup. Its not that harsh.
((sorry if you've seen this question twice.. the other one got deleted.. sorry))
Ok. Do it right back to him. If you see a hot guy in the mall while your walking with your bf... look behind you as the hot guy passes you. Eventually your boyfriend may get the hint. Do not change for him because he already knows how you look... you've been going out for a year and a half.
But if you want, dress a bit more promiscuaous when you go to places like the mall or movies. Other guys there will look at you and that will make your boyfriend jelous. Then he will respect to more.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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sorry i left out this part i was copy pastin n it got all messed up heres the continuation of the otehr one and tahnx for reading it i reli appreciate it.
I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol
He is a major player. My advice: leave him before he leaves you. This is the stuff you only KNOW he doing behind your back. What do you think he's doing that you don't know about. Most likly a lot more. He is unfaithful and not a relationship kind of guy. I know what you mean by "he's so not like this". What may have happened is now that he has a girlfriend, all the girls want him. (that always happens to people... once they get a girlfriend/boyfriend, everyone has a crush and flirts with them). So since all the girls want him, he feels like "the man" and feels like he can get anyone he wants. Because of that he thinks of himself higher than everyone- even you, so he treats you like shit.
Here's the plan. You leave him. A good way to break it to him is (on the phone) :You know, I've been thinking a lot while you were gone... and heard that you've done some pretty bad stuff behind my back. (make sure you don't tell him what you heard or who you heard from). I think it would be best if we were just friends." After you leave him eventually he will be the same un-flirtatious guy he used to be. None of the girls will like him like they do now. He will realize that you were the only one that truly loved him. Then he will come running back to you for forgiveness. Happy ending.
Let me know if you need anymore advicee. ♥
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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Hey brittany this is kinfd of long but hopefully you can help.I'm usually the one giving my friends advice but i need someone right now
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise
Im sorta confused on what the question is. Wether it is "is he gunna break up with me?" or "is he falling for his ex?"... so I'll just answer both.
When he gets back from vacation, I beleive he will forget the whole thing. Like, not forgrt it, but just not care about it anymore. Just make sure to don't sufficate him when he gets back. Talk to him on the phone once on the day he gets back. Then talk to him again the next day... only once. Maybe make plans to hang out on that call. If you all do hang out, play it cool and don't bring up his ex or any other drama that involves him.
He may be talking to his ex behind your back or something. After they broke up, she may have played the whoe "Can we still be friends?" trick. She might be flirting with him and stuff. Possibly even talking trash about you so he will think highly of his ex. It might be working. When you talk to your boyfriend, dont say anything (much) bad about his ex. He doesnt want drama. If his ex disses you while your boyfrind is standing right next to you, look over into his eyes without replying to the dis. This should give him the hint that he needs to stand up for you against the ex. Then the ex and him would be mad at eachother because he dissed her back.
If you need anymore help, don't hesitate to ask. =]
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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Yo i need help
see i never really made out with anyone before how do i do it
www.virtualkiss.com
its a really helpful site.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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i've been going out w/ this guy for a couple months and we've kissed acouple times and stuff but weve never makein out and i dont now how to get him to makeout w/ me can someone plz help me
If neither of you have made out before, it may be sort of awkward because you won't really know what to do. And you won't have anyone to follow their lead. Just while you two are kissing, slip your toungue in his mouth. If he doesn't do the same at that point, then he doesn't want to makeout.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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O.K. i don't want to sound desperate b/c i'm NOT!! i'm "concerned" about my `invisible` love life. i'm 13yrs.old, a female, and going to highschool.
i haven't gotten my 1st kiss, nvr had a b.f., and will prolly be single for the rest of my life.this is kind of weird but, i want to know why boys aren't interested in me? i mean you might not know why but,idk, i NEED som adventure in my life, and i guess i don't need a b.f. but, a 1st kiss wouldn't hurt ,right???
well i dk know if this was a question but, can anyone PLEASE help me!!!!!=(
*ANY 1 who answers this please DON'T say you're pretty on the inside or "one day it'll happen" or any other thing like that!!! i want the REAL DEAL
(don't be to harsh please, just HELPP ME )
thanxxxxxxx a lottta hearts ♥
I'm in the same position as you -no first kiss and no bf-. I heard a few days ago that if the guy you like is popular, play hard to get. But if the guy you like is sorta dorky, be there and avaliable for him. Dorky guys seem to give up on love easier, unlike 'popular' guys.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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My boyfriend is 16 and I am 13, I know that is kind of a big age difference but he's alot more mature. I'm really afraid to go to the movies with him and stuff because I don't want him to try to make a move. I'll make out with him and stuff, but he might try to reach down my pants, and I'm soo NOT ready for that. How do I tell him that without sounding like a prude? He's had sex before so I told him that I'm not gunna have sex with him. This was his answer: "i dont care I dont want sex either I just want a beautiful aka you." So does it seem like he's after sex? And I'm really scared to talk to him on the phone so when he asked me to call him I said my phone is lost which it reallly isn't. I feel guilty, but my parents don't want me talking to boys. Haha, if I do go to the movies with him, should I bring a friend?
I dont know.... have you seen "John Tucker Must Die"? He might be one of those guys. As in he says that he wants you for you and everything but that is really just his skill to make you trust him so he can get in your pants. If you go to the movies with him for the first time, he will most likly try to finger you... but you have a better chance of him not trying for it if you bring a friend. Also, try wearing jeans if you go to the movies with him. Def dont wear a skirt- it's pretty much an "Enter Here" sign. If you dont want to wear jeans because maybe its hott out, then wear shorts. Good Luck... dont let him get in your pants!! =]
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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My best friend is an every sunday, church and really religious parents, and i took her to a party and she met a guy. She has only told me her secret, but she has already missed two periods! She might be pregnant and she really needs to tell her parents, but she is so afraid of how they react. If she is pregnant, she wants to keep the baby, she doesn't beleive in abortion or adoption, but she is afraid her parents will make sure she gets rid or the baby.
PLEASE HELP MY FRIEND AND I!!!
Go to a thrift store or whatever and buy a pregnancy test. Don't tell the parents until you are sure she is pregnant. If she is somewhat young... like 14 or 15ish, then her period timing may just be off. I have had mine for 3 years and mine is still always off timing. If she is pregnant, tell the parents for sure. You will need to because they will see her tummy grow eventually, and when the baby comes they will sorta know that she had sex.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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