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My boyfriend
Hey brittany this is kinfd of long but hopefully you can help.I'm usually the one giving my friends advice but i need someone right now
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise
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Im sorta confused on what the question is. Wether it is "is he gunna break up with me?" or "is he falling for his ex?"... so I'll just answer both.
When he gets back from vacation, I beleive he will forget the whole thing. Like, not forgrt it, but just not care about it anymore. Just make sure to don't sufficate him when he gets back. Talk to him on the phone once on the day he gets back. Then talk to him again the next day... only once. Maybe make plans to hang out on that call. If you all do hang out, play it cool and don't bring up his ex or any other drama that involves him.
He may be talking to his ex behind your back or something. After they broke up, she may have played the whoe "Can we still be friends?" trick. She might be flirting with him and stuff. Possibly even talking trash about you so he will think highly of his ex. It might be working. When you talk to your boyfriend, dont say anything (much) bad about his ex. He doesnt want drama. If his ex disses you while your boyfrind is standing right next to you, look over into his eyes without replying to the dis. This should give him the hint that he needs to stand up for you against the ex. Then the ex and him would be mad at eachother because he dissed her back.
If you need anymore help, don't hesitate to ask. =]
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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