Question Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 4:20 pm
well there is this guy that i kinda am starting to like. but he was like ohh yeah i cant go out with a girl that cant dance! and i was like yeah blah blah but you see i cant dance for shit! haha like ive never really danced with a boy before..like grinding and stuff. so im worried if a guy asks me to a dance or something and they want to dance i will be so embarassed about it because i wont know what to do! and people will laugh and be like haha she does not know what she is doing! ahhh and this guy doesnt know it either otherwise he will tell his friends and everyone else and they will be like oh my god you dont know how to dance? AHAHA.
MelLeDisko answered Saturday September 2 2006, 6:13 pm: Well, the next time you go to the school dance, just get there whenever it starts, and people begin to fill the room, most people don't exactly dance right off the bat. They find their friends, talk, whatever. So whenever the songs start, look for people who are dancing and try to mimick how they dance. Nobody in your school is a professional dancer probably, so it doesn't really matter how good you can dance. Grinding isn't that hard, anyways. You basically stand really close to the guy and infront of him and sway your hips in rythm with his. Alot of people at your school'll probably be doing it, so just mimick what they're doing. You can even make a joke out of it. Just be like,"Hahahaa, I can't dance too well, so don't expect me to be perfect, k?" and just smile. So that way, they won't mind as much if you're not like, absolutely AMAZING, haha and maybe they can even help you out. And other than grinding, what I just do is I stand there and just rock back and forth a little and sway my hips. I hope I helped. [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
BlondBritBrit answered Saturday September 2 2006, 5:40 pm: Grinding is actually really simple. I know this sounds dumb and repetitive, but you'll catch on. Just follow his lead. Your hips move at the same rate and his. The main point of grinding is to get the guy horny by shoving your ass into his dick. So as long as you are close to him, he will probrally think you are good at grinding. I'm horrible at actual dancing, but grinding is pretty easy. And people don't usually say that. If they do, it is because they are jelous you are dancing with a guy and they aren't. It's usually so crowded at school dances that no one really stares at you dancing. So all you can really do is wait til the time comes.
Damian answered Saturday September 2 2006, 5:32 pm: Stop second-guessing yourself. There are simple ways to learn how to dance, but the key to doing it naturally and successfully is in your head. Go to a few school dances and try some new things. If some guy comes up to you and asks you to dance, go for it. At worst, you'll mess up, but you'll finally learn something. If you want to try learn something new, you have to take a step out of your comfort zone and make a few mistakes. Don't be too wound up on the technicalities, just go out and have fun. You'll do fine.
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