Hello! Umm...let's see. What would people want to know about me? I'm a Capricorn (lol). I love the word uber, dislike the word moist, and dancing silly in my room lip-synching the lines to the song 'Rock Lobster' into a hairbrush is a pretty cool pass-time in my eyes. :)
I like helping out giving advice. It distracts me from my owm problems ( Ha! Ha! jk)
Love hearing from you guys! Hope I help in some way or another!
E-mail: bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: origionally from Missouri, but right now im living in Maryland
Occupation: i babysit occassionally. When it comes to taking care of kids, I put Mary Poppins to shame.
Age: 17
Member Since: July 21, 2010
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I am i gonna get pregnant if for da last three days my bf has been nuttin inside of me right after my period (link)
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im wit Matt ah-ite sho nuff
roll out da hpt!
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i don't know if I'm not ready for relationship but i tend to like so many guys at once but if one of them start liking me I ose interest just like that, and i always think about guys I'm gonna be missing out so I've been single for a while. Also, I think that if I go out with someone, I won't be able to flirt with other guys anymore and focus on one guy,but sometimes I wish I had someone but only for temporary, Why do I feel this way? I dont get myself. It seems like all i do is flirt and lead guys on and run away and comes back to them again. I know im horrible for doing this, but i dont know why i do that. (link)
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Sounds like you dont want anything too serious, which is just fine. But you also want to have closeness at times as well, which is where things get a little complicated. I think what youre wanting is an open relationship. Its like having a boyfriend without having to be tied down to one person. You can date other people and flirt all you want and still have someone to go back to when you want.
Problem is that you need to find someone who is cool with this idea.
Hope this helped :)
-bpta
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me and my boyfriend were having sex for longer than usual and when he cumed in me i went to the bathroom and something from my vagina came out like shaving foam all at once! it was cool but just wondering why did that happen lol (link)
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This was probably a mix of your vagina's natural lubrication, your boyfriend's sperm, and the air that potentially found its way in. When you were having sex, the motions caused the air to form tiny bubbles with the other stuff and made a "foam" as you put it.
Hope this helps! See ya!
-bpt
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So, this is my first relationship with a guy and I really like him. Problem is, I'm really uncomfortable with doing things around him. Like, I'm even scared to touch him on my own. I feel like I'll do it wrong and then he'd judge me in a negative way. I'm trying to open up slowly to him. He knows that I'm uncomfortable at doing certain things with him too but he says he understands and that it takes time. I know that if I stay like this, he wouldn't like it and I don't want to be like this either. How do I loosen myself up around him to make things between us more enjoyable? (link)
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It's okay! It sounds to me like you just need to test the waters :) I'm sure he'll be totally understanding knowing the fact that youre new to it all. He might even give you some tips if you ask for them :p Just be open to learning as you go and you'll get some experience on the way. Once you get the hang of it, things will only get better :)
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19/f - I just got done working at a boy scout camp for 7 weeks. I went up and left behind a boyfriend who disrespects me, pressured me into everything I've done with him, talks down to me, and tries to keep me "barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen" for a lack of better terms. He doesn't encourage me to follow my dreams, and he had cheated on me with my best friend, months ago. While I was at camp, I met this amazing guy, Dennis, he's 10 years older than me, but he was the first person I've ever met that gave me the sort of attention, care, and respect that I've always wanted, but never knew existed. My female room mate talked me into believing that I deserve more. I made sure my boyfriend knew that I'm serious, and was ready to break up with him. but he promised me change (again). I told him that I'd give him until December to change. However; in a moment of rage, distress and depression, I fell to Dennis as a shoulder to cry on. One thing came to another, and I think I'm in love with him. But we're so different, I'm very religious, don't drink, smoke, etc. he's the polar opposite, he's been to prision, does weed, etc. He has MS, and I had to help him through some horrible symptoms of it, and it scared me to death. On the way home from camp, I got in a terrible accident. Dennis showed up at the hospital for me, while my boyfriend didn't. I just don't know what to do, Dennis is everything I had ever hoped for, and he said he'd give up anything for me, but I want children, and he knows he won't live past 50 with MS, and he'll be in a wheel chair, etc. I don't want to bring children into the world that are going to have to go through the same thing. Long term, it seems like nothing will be worth it. but I feel so bad, because so many women have left him and treated him badly because of his condition. I don't know what to do, on paper we shouldn't be compatable, but he's just everything I've ever wanted, I'm afraid of the future.
Please please help, Sincerely, Long Term Challenged (link)
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I think there is a time where you should think about the present and nothing else. If you believe Dennis will bring you happiness and joy, I see nothing wrong with being with him. Forget the age difference, forget the MS, and forget the ticking clock. Think about how happy you could make him. Do the pros make up for the cons? Whatever you end up doing ake sure it is a decision youve taken time to really think about.
Just remember, everyone has one fault or another. No matter who you settle down with, you'll have to sacrifice something. I'm trying to say that no relationship is perfect.
If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.
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17/f
Hello, I'm a little lost right now. See, my friends have relationships that last about 2-4 months and during that time they usually get thru all the 4 bases ( if you don't know, they are french, feel, finger, and i think you can guess the last one :p) So, anywho, I've been in relationships that lng and sometimes even longer. Yet I've only been comfortable doing that with one person. The funny thing is that he thinks that I only wanted to do it because I know that my friends are more likely to do it and he says he'd really like to do it too but he doesn't want to pressure me. I keep on trying to explain to him that I want it just as badly as he does but he says that I should take some time to think about it before rushing into the decision.
I think the real reason he tells me he wants me to rethink it is because he doesn't trust me. See, I had relationships before him and he's been there thru all of them since we've been friends for a long time. I have a problem staying in relationships for awhile. I get claustrophobic and he knows this. I also sorta started to really like him when I was in a previous relationship. He knew I had a boyfriend and he told me I needed to break up with him before anything could happen between us.I broke up with him.
I think that he wants me to know for sure that I want him and only him before we do anyhting else. And I guess I can understand that... I'm not too worried about the not-having-sex think. I'm more worried that he doesn't think I like him enough to stay with him...
What should I do to help him understand that I like him and I plan on liking him for a long time to come? Especially with my reputation... :(
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Nothing you will say will change what he thinks. You're just going to have to be patient and SHOW him by your actions that you want only him. Try not to worry about the sex part until he's is completely comfortable with the relationship part. You might want to remind him though that nothing will nappen to your friendship no matter what :)
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how do i fix my realationship ive been in for two yrs we just arent seeing eye to eye anymore he thinks its fine for hin to have female friends but gets mad when i have male friends (link)
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Tell him that there is no room for double standards. More than likely he feels threatened by other guys being around you. Explain to him how much you care about him and that he has nothing to worry about. Also, a good way to make him feel more settled about the idea is to hang out with him AND your guy friends at the same time. Make it perfectly clear that you and your boyfriend are dating by holding onto him and maybe giving him a small kiss in front of them. That way he knows that your friends know that youre taken :)
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He cuts me down and treats me like a little kid. Nothing I do is right. He play fights with me in front of his friends but is super rough almost like he enjoys hurting me. When he does that and yell me if I cry he'll just call me a baby.I'm not super annoying either, I try to help him in school so he wont fail and all he does is want to copy my work and he talks about other girls around me. He started doing this when we got in the tenth grade. Idk what to think? (link)
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Your boyfriend is being very mean and inconsiderate of your feelings. I suggest that you listen to OhMyLucyDarling and move on. You sound like a fairly good person only trying to do the right thing. I know that you don't want him to fail, but he needs to learn that his actions have an equal and opposite reaction. While you grow up to have a successful life, he could possibly... have a different turn out.
I think it's best that you just break up with him.
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how do u know if a girl want to kiss u (link)
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Well, if she laughs around you and teases you that's a pretty good sign. Also, if when youre talking and she looks into your eyes, then at your lips, then into your eyes, etc, whe more than likely wants to kiss you.
A good way of figuring her out is using this little trick:
Find a chance to sit with her, maybe a movie or something. Start off fairly close to her at the beginning. Once its been awhile, edge away from her a teensy bit. If nothing happens, scoot away a little more. Now, if she leans in closer to you to fill the gap you just made, there's a good chance that she is ready to kiss you.
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how do you tell if someone likes you. Is their a hint or something. I just dont know. And if they do. How do u ask them out. Ive been rejected once and im afraid cuz i was rejected pretty hard. Humiliated and embarrassed infront of a lot of people. I NEED HELP askin someone out (link)
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I'm not too good at asking people out. I get a little shy...(:p)but when it comes to knowing whether or not some one likes you I can help. If they find excuses to be around you or reasons to touch you, then they more than likely have some feelings for you. If they hug you more than the time needed or more times than needed, that's another sign that they could like you.
As for the whole asking-someone-out thing, all I can say is good luck :)
Here's my email if you have something else to say:
bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
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this is more of a poll than a question, but: WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF I KISSED YOU? if i was just some guy in your class that you didn't really talk to, but you knew my name. and i just randomly kissed you, out of nowhere. i have a pic on my profile, so u can look at that if it helps. (hint hint) (link)
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lol, interesting question...um, haven't looked at your pic but I think you might have a better success rate if you talk to the girl first. Unless youre a really bad conversation-maker and a really good kisser :p
Oh, and let's just say I'm this girl: if I don't talk to you, do I still know you enough to think youre cool? Or do I just know your name and that's all? cuz that makes a big difference.
If you have more questions, you can email me:
bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
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Im 13. I love guys, and couldnt date a girl (i need masculinity) but i have imagined being with girls, and i wouldn't mind kissing a girl (my bf thinks it'd be hot). I think some girls are hot and i think im slightly attracted to them. and les p*rn turns me on. I don't know if im bi, or if its normal for a straight female to feel this way. (link)
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You just might be bi and there's nothing wrong with that. You say that you need masculinity and there are some girls who are more manly. Still, it just might be the age that youre at. Ya know, a phase that you'll sooner or later grow out of. No matter what its cools!!! Just be happy being yourself!
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I've recently got in touch through msn with a guy friend whom I knew like 6yrs ago in a club. We only met once.
We've been exchanging msn messages for about a month now, almost everyday. We share about everything from our boring daily lives stuff to issues that we can debate on. Slowly and I think I'm kinda interested in him and want to know him further but it seems like it's pretty hard to meet him up. He sounds keen but yet he said he's pretty tied down with stuff.
I feel like we're just pen pals and yet there's something special. Do you think we are going anywhere or am I thinking too much?
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Anything's possible. If you feel like there is something there, then he might too. Have you actually told how you feel or even just hinted it? You might want to, that way you'll know where he's coming from on all this. He could maybe not be interested in you like that.
I just want you to know that when it comes to over-thinking I cant be beat :) I dont think that youre thinking too much at all. I believe what youre thinking and the extent to which youre think is completely normal.
Hey, just think: if this works out to be something, it would be a great story to tell considering how youre keeping in touch and how long ago it had been since you last saw each other in person.
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When waz ur first kiss? (link)
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I had my fist kiss when I was 14. Although that isn't neccessarily the latest, I had guys that would joke around and tease me about it. They would also tell me that I could use them to get the first kiss over with, but I declined. And I'm glad I did, cuz my first year of high school I met some one very interesting ( he was 2 years older than me, and that did pose some probs with my dad... :p). When we kissed it was nice, and in the library of all places!lol
If you want to talk some more about it or you have another question, here's my email:
bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
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This guy told me he likes me because i'm naive? what did he mean? (link)
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:p It's not that big of a deal, he could mean that you act very innocent often or maybe that you're still learning when it comes.. to other things. Or there could be a chance that he's saying that you aren't the smartest monkey in the barrel. If that's the case, I give him credit for atleast being polite with his word choice (but still, it's not nice)
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I have been with my boyfriend around 2 months now, we were friends for about 5 months before that. I always thought he was attractive etc but I didn't know he liked me and vice versa. He is the sweetest guy ever and he totally understands me. He says he can imagine us being together forever, and I am not naive but I feel it too. He's like the other half of me, any way the problem is the first few weeks we started dating I got butterflies around him; but I don't anymore. I haven't any less feelings for him - if anything my feelings have grown so much more. With my previous boyfriend I always got butterflies, but I think it's because I liked him more than he liked me. Do you think it's anything to think about or do you think it's normal? My friend said it's just because I am so comfortable around him and I never was with my previous boyfriend. (link)
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I think it's great that you have butterflies! It's nothing to worry about, in fact it's something to celebrate! Older relationships crave that kind of thing and you should be thrilled that you have that with him. The only thing you should worry about is if this feeling is making you too nervous to talk to him or it makes you act differently than you did before. Make sure to be yourself and not to worry! Good luck with your blossoming relationship (lol)! :)
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is cuddling with a guy friend considered cheating? no kissing, no grabbing or anything just laying next to someone basically and hugging. (link)
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I would feel a little hurt by the action, but not everyone would. Just to be safe I would check out how your bf feels about it and set boundaries that you both are comfortabe with. You may need to compromise but that is what a relationship is all about. :)
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how can i sexually,satisfy my girl when she is on her period
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Have u tried yet? If you have, you should know that it's sorta gross. But if that's what you want, try massaging her, kissing her neck, ect. Things don't have to be completely sexual. I'm sure she'll be happy that you're paying attention to her and trying to make her happy.
Cuddling is always good :) *hint, hint*
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