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Am I Bi?
Im 13. I love guys, and couldnt date a girl (i need masculinity) but i have imagined being with girls, and i wouldn't mind kissing a girl (my bf thinks it'd be hot). I think some girls are hot and i think im slightly attracted to them. and les p*rn turns me on. I don't know if im bi, or if its normal for a straight female to feel this way.
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You just might be bi and there's nothing wrong with that. You say that you need masculinity and there are some girls who are more manly. Still, it just might be the age that youre at. Ya know, a phase that you'll sooner or later grow out of. No matter what its cools!!! Just be happy being yourself!
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its completley normal at this age to feel this way even if you were a bi or gay your family would love you all the same xxx
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you may have received and may continue to receive from others.
At your present age I would be hesitant to place a label on your sexuality. At this age both boys and girls are still trying to figure out their sexuality. To label yourself as a Lesbian or even bi-curious would not only be wrong but self defeating at this time. To even put this in the category of a phase that most young people go through would not be right either.
There are a number of reasons for sexual attraction to someone of our own sex at this age. First and foremost is the fact it is safer and easier to relieve the sexual tension brought on by the changing hormones your body is producing. Parents think nothing of two children of the same sex being behind closed doors, sleeping together, even in the same bed, particularly females.
I have known women that have been bi all through college, then gone straight heterosexual afterwards. Reason it was easier and sex was more available if you were bi; it was also safer.
My advice: Don’t put a label on your sexuality at this time. Just enjoy learning about who you are sexually. When you are more adult if you still want to put a label on your sexuality then do so, but for now just enjoy being you.
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Its a posability but you might be bi curious you are 13 you h ave plenty of time to figure out your sexualality but if you do act on it and it feels right then mos defanatly you are
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I'm a teenage girl and I'm the same as you.
Trust me, almost all of my girl friends have questioned their sexuality at some point. I have friends that are bi, friends that have dabbled, friends that have fantasised. And almost all girls I know have kissed other girls.
I have often wondered to myself, 'Am I bi?'. I can't tell you whether you are or not. Sexuality is something that's very hard to define, it's not all black and white. I guess the definition of bisexual is equal sexual and romantic attraction towards both sexes, so the fact that you're not feeling the romantic attraction (by not wanting to date a girl) suggests that you're probably not bi, but you're probably not completely straight either.
You could start experimenting with girls and see how it makes you feel. But remember, you don't have to define your sexuality. It's fine to not be completely straight, bi or gay. Most people are somewhere inbetween. Also, remember you're a teenager, and as someone before me said, your hormones are going crazy so you never know how your feelings will change as you get older. It's something you can't be sure of right now, and you might never be, but that's fine. Just experiment and see what you enjoy, and then enjoy it.
And yes, it's all normal. I refer to myself as straight (although I don't consider myself completely straight) and I feel that way, and I know a lot of straight girls do. So don't worry about it.
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i'm straight, and so are most of my girlfriends, but we're all pretty much the same way. the great thing about being a girl is that you can kiss a girl without being a lesbian. like that katy perry song. don't worry, you're a teenager and your hormones are going crazy, so yeah, its not weird.
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