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Getting Butterflies?
I have been with my boyfriend around 2 months now, we were friends for about 5 months before that. I always thought he was attractive etc but I didn't know he liked me and vice versa. He is the sweetest guy ever and he totally understands me. He says he can imagine us being together forever, and I am not naive but I feel it too. He's like the other half of me, any way the problem is the first few weeks we started dating I got butterflies around him; but I don't anymore. I haven't any less feelings for him - if anything my feelings have grown so much more. With my previous boyfriend I always got butterflies, but I think it's because I liked him more than he liked me. Do you think it's anything to think about or do you think it's normal? My friend said it's just because I am so comfortable around him and I never was with my previous boyfriend.
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its bcause you are used to him. and you dont feel "scared" or "panicy" that what the butterflies do.. they make you realise that you scared but in a slightly good way.
the fact that your used to being with him is good... i always say it makes your relationship stronger =) as its one of "the next steps" hehe!
think of it this way. your not gonna fel those butterflies forever.. you might once in a while like when you do something new like go on a holkiday together. but they wont stay there forever. think of your mum and dad... would be a bit weird if they confused to feeling butterflies every time one of them walked into the rrom eh ;) hehe!
honestly dont worry have fun with your boyfrind. but stay safe ;)
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The first couple of weeks of a relationship are usually the most fun. After a while, the chemistry can fade.
Maybe your boyfriend is being too predictable or too "nice".
I know from experience that girls find guys like this boring.
Butterflies in the stomach come from being in an exciting relationship. That's why girls sometimes find jerks and "bad boys" attractive. They're exciting to them.
It sounds like the excitement is gone in your relationship.
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I think it's great that you have butterflies! It's nothing to worry about, in fact it's something to celebrate! Older relationships crave that kind of thing and you should be thrilled that you have that with him. The only thing you should worry about is if this feeling is making you too nervous to talk to him or it makes you act differently than you did before. Make sure to be yourself and not to worry! Good luck with your blossoming relationship (lol)! :)
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