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Are we going anywhere?
I've recently got in touch through msn with a guy friend whom I knew like 6yrs ago in a club. We only met once.
We've been exchanging msn messages for about a month now, almost everyday. We share about everything from our boring daily lives stuff to issues that we can debate on. Slowly and I think I'm kinda interested in him and want to know him further but it seems like it's pretty hard to meet him up. He sounds keen but yet he said he's pretty tied down with stuff.
I feel like we're just pen pals and yet there's something special. Do you think we are going anywhere or am I thinking too much?
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Are you interested in a virtual relationship? That's all you have until the guy actually makes the effort to see you and you start dating him. Until then, you are pen pals. Someone can promise you the world in words over a computer but it don't mean much when they can't even hold your hand in the park.
He's keeping you on ice, for whatever reason, and that's your "clue" to put this thing into the proper context. Low effort communication like msn messages should not command this kind of investment from you. It's not "special", it's crumbs he's giving you while living his life with actual people he includes in it and right now, that's not you. Best thing you can do is follow suit and spend time with guys who want to show up and be there. Take care.
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Anything's possible. If you feel like there is something there, then he might too. Have you actually told how you feel or even just hinted it? You might want to, that way you'll know where he's coming from on all this. He could maybe not be interested in you like that.
I just want you to know that when it comes to over-thinking I cant be beat :) I dont think that youre thinking too much at all. I believe what youre thinking and the extent to which youre think is completely normal.
Hey, just think: if this works out to be something, it would be a great story to tell considering how youre keeping in touch and how long ago it had been since you last saw each other in person.
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