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im ashley, most of my friends call me ash. im 18 years old & a senior in highschool. im a very outgoing person, im always smiling and laughing :)i try to always be positive about things. feel free to ask me anything!
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Ok so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is about to be 20 years old. We always talk about how we can't wait to finally live together and start our own live together. Now the only problem I have is that I want to have a baby already. How should I tell him that I want to have a baby? He loves children and we have both talked about how we would like to have a large family together. I know that a baby is alot of work, but I feel that we are ready for it. Please help!
my personal opinion is that your dumb, what about college? getting a degree? you can't afford a baby working at mcdonalds..think about that.
This guy who is two years older than me (i have known him for 2 years)Well we started talking and then we started talking about him fingering me or me giving him oral...I have seriously been considering letting him finger me..So what do you guys think.I would prefer comments that arnt saying im to young cause i think i am ready.I have a good head on my shoulders..Anyway what does it feel like and what do i do to be ready fer it?
Thanks :]
If you "think" you are ready then you aren't. You have to KNOW when you're ready
Ok so i'm 15 and i like love ........sex...........lol but only had it when i wasl ike 9...when would be a good age for me to have it?
There's never a "right" age. Its more like when you and your partner are ready
I've recently found out that one of my ex boyfriends want me back. We were together for around 5 months and then he left me on my birthday for someone else. I'm not sure what to because he says he is sorry and that it is the biggest mistake he has made in his life. Just today he said he loved me. I could tell by his voice that it was totally serious. I said i loved him too, but was worried that it would send mixed messages. He said he still thinks of me and that he has learned from his mistake. I admit i still like him and somehow I have forgave him. Should i go out with him or just tell him to be friends, evem if he says he wants to be more?
we can give you advice, but we can't tell you how your heart feels. i would just take a day and think about what you really want and go from there.
Hey!
So yesterday i randomly friend requested this guy who is friends with my guy friend because i thought he was really cute lol and he seemed familiar. turns out we know eachother through some people and I have met him like once (but i dont really remember haha)
anyways we talked over messaging for like 2 hours and he seems really cool. I know this is a stretch but i maybe want to possibly go to prom with him or see if something happens (i know this probablly wont happen im not getting my hopes up) but i dont know if i should message him again tonight or wait? or how i should approach this?
i would wait and let him make the move, and if he doesn't go for it girl!
me and my boyfriend have beeen together 18 months now.. we were soo amazing at first, but as you know things change as relationships go along. Ive heard things, two times, about him sleeping next to another girl at a party.. which i really dont know if i believe or not, no proof. and when he kissed a girl at a party, he told me right away.. anyways, i chose to take him back.. that was awhile ago. Now, i have caught him lying, when he has been hanging out with his best friend, whoi hate, and he hates me, cause his friend fucks around all the time on my stupid best friend, who stays with him. Anyways, i always fight with him. I have no trust.. but i want to give it all one last try, next time i hear something or told a lie by him, im leaving. But.. i fight with him, constantly get angry about shit... what can i do, to honestly just keep that all out of the way right now, or work on it. i just wanna give one last try, cause really.. he is a good guy besides that stuff he treats me good.. cept that typical guy shit.
but ya any advice or experience of the same situation and what you did?
thanksss : )
maybe you two could try this, like forget the past..well not forget it, but move on and stop dwelling on it. it'd really help you two if you guys didn't hold a grudge against each other.
well, you said you don't have any trust in your boyfriend. in my opinion, trust is one of the fundamentals of a relationship. you absolutely need trust to make things work.
if you get angry about stuff real easily, maybe you should turn off your phone until you calm down about things. then maybe you and your boyfriend can calmly talk about things, instead of lashing out on each other ya know?
this worked for me and my boyfriend, so i hope it helps you!
Im a 13 year old girl and i havent had a boyfriend for a whole year! I like this on kid in my class alot but i just dont know how to get him to like me back. Any advice????
you have a long ways to go until you need to start worrying about boys. be a kid while you can!
16/f... my boyfriend is 15/f. we've been dating for 2 and a half months.
we have gone to third base 3 times. when he was dating his ex (for the span of a year) absolutely nothing happened... they didn't even kiss. by letting things get this far, do you think he is losing respect for me?
also, is it too soon to say i love you? because i think i do love him, but i don't know if he would freak out if i said so. what would be a good way to tell him? and is it weird when the girl says those three words first?
well for one thing, i definitely dont think your slut..not one bit. you guys are at the age where your hormones start to kick in, don't sweat it girl. i wouldn't have sex with him, cause then he might lose his respect for you. i look at it this way, if you have to think you love someone then you dont love them, you just know when your head over heels for that person. so maybe your in lust with him?
Hi. Me and my girlfriend broke up about two weeks ago. And i miss her... So much. I honestly feel like she is the one for me. How do i get her back? I'm almost positive that she still has feelings for me... But i'm worried that if i do the wrong thing i may lose her forever... What should i do?
hmm, the best thing to do is ask her if she would like to meet up in person, and explain to her how you really feel about her. tell her how you think she is the one, and hopefully she still feels the same way..i hope everything works out!
my boyfriend used to be the one to care more and like me more and everything so he used to tell me to care more and now im the one who is overcaring and telling him i love him..he used to tell me he loves me and now doesnt anymore because he says i take it too seriously..how do i get him to do nice things for me again and show me again that he DOES care..please help me im so hurt. =[
talk to him about your feelings.
why do i always fall in love with the emo/gothic guys, it doesnt matter who they are or what they look like, i mean he could be the ugliest and fattest guy in the world and i will still fall for him. can anyone tell me why im in lvoe wiht all the emo/gothic guys?!?
because thats the type of guys you like, everyone has a different taste.
hi 14/f :D
any of you out there, did you ever have long distance relationships that worked out in the end?
if so could you tell me your story? opinons or anything would be awsome :]
no my long distance relationships never last. basicly it was hard for us to find time to talk bc we are both athletic and in sports.
this guy asked me togo see a movie and his like wayy older then me like aboout 3 years lets say and i dont if he means like a date or just to hnag out ??? cuz im 15 and his 18 so i dont he was all like so u wanna go to the movies and i dont if its date or not??
yeah, its probably a date.
I have been looking for the perfect man for some time now. I am in 7th grade. I have been checking out some guys, but i am afraid they won't go for me, although there is one, but i don't know his name, he is cute, but not over-the-top cute. the big valentines dance is coming up. how do i get the boys to notice me?
im not trying to mean or anything, but i think you shoud stay young as long as u can, dont worry about boys until your older sweetie..its soo much easier, take my adive. you dont need a "perfect man" in 7th grade. all you need is frieds and family for now. worry about other things. try joining a spring sports team or something?
Okay, me and my frind are good friends, but we like the same dude. There's a roumour that dude that we like likes someone, so we are constantly squabbling. The signs point to me, the Knight and I talk and chat for a long time, and we have fun together, I enjoy his company, and I think he enjoys mine. There is going to be a all school dance possibly, should I ask hime before the Dragon does?
Aneis
i dont think you should. i believe friendship its more important than a relationship. okay so lets say this guy breaks up with you right, if yins would date. who would u fall back on considering the "dragon" and you got in a fight, and you aint friends anymore.
okay . well my best friend is going out with this kid that i really like and i am going out with his friend & i dont really like his friend at all . and i just started going out with him yesterday , i like him like as a little brother not a boyfriend but idk. i dont want anyone mad at me if i break up with him . what should i do
dont date someone if you dont like them. that just leads them on to thinking you do like them. soo i would break up with him
My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?
you should deffinitly tell him noooo.
sending naked pictures of yourself isn`t considered not loving someone its just considered not being a dumbass!
The guy I have this huge crush on (i've liked him since February of this year) is a year younger than me. He's in 7th grade and i'm in 8th, but he has a late birthday so he COULD be in my grade but he missed the cut off (his bday is in November of 1992 and mine is in july of 1992 so i'm only a couple months older than him.) However, other people think i'm weird, cause they don't know when his bday is, and they think im weird cause i like a younger guy. Well the truth is i really like him. and i dont care what other people think. but what should i do 2 not make them think im a dork/loser for likeing someone younger than me?? Thanx i rate 5 every time :-)
If you rly truly like him, then you wouldnt care what people thought of you. when u love someone it seems like nothing matters. People now of days have nothing better to do but make fun of other ppl dont let it get to u. hope i helped
ok so, last night i went to a party and met this really cool guy. he's a friend of one of my ex's. he said it was a birthday party when he invited me so one of my friends wouldnt feel lonely. well i found out later that the party is for his girlfriend. but he really wants to end the relationship. she controls him all the time. and so idk i just kinda like him. and he called me up last night and we talked for a couple of hours and he asked me out on a date tonight so we can get better aquainted. it seems fine to me but im just not sure, hes 18 and im 16, which isnt bad because ive dated 18 yr olds before, like all last year. i just dont really kno what to do. is being interested in him wrong?
No, I dont think it is wrong at all! Just Follow your heart and have a great time on the date! Since he said he was dumping his girlfriend b/c shes a control freak, i wouldnt worry about anything!
I'm 14/f/bi. I have this friend..who i've always really liked but she didnt really know until i told her..i mean ive liked for like 2 years now. and after i told her i liked her..she asked me out...and i was probably the happiest person ever. after a couple of weeks she said we should take a break because we never really talk anymore..but the only reason why we dont talk is because i share my computer with others and i havent had a chance to talk to her alot..but not that i have my own computer..i try to talk to her as much as i can..well anyways the point is..i really love her. and she doesnt know i love her yet bcuz shes always talking about how it takes a while to fall in love..but i love her more then anything in this world. and i miss her..i would do anything to get with her again. how can i tell her how much i love her and miss her? sorry it was so long..
umm bi's les's and gay's are all fucked up! and you need to learn to like the oposite sex not the same :) no affense or anything
Ashley♥