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A Princess, Dragon, and Knight in Shining Armor
Okay, me and my frind are good friends, but we like the same dude. There's a roumour that dude that we like likes someone, so we are constantly squabbling. The signs point to me, the Knight and I talk and chat for a long time, and we have fun together, I enjoy his company, and I think he enjoys mine. There is going to be a all school dance possibly, should I ask hime before the Dragon does?
Aneis
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The real question is: should you waste away a good friendship over one guy? Is this guy REALLY that worth it?
Because I'm not trying to sound pesstimistic or anything, but most relationships whenever you're young do not last throughout the rest of your life, but I've seen my mother and other parents have tons of high-school friends or middle-school friends throughout their whole life. As I say,"chicks before dicks".
I mean I know there's the school dance and everything, but I wouldn't go competeing for him because you two aren't even aware of who this girl is that he likes. What if you were to ask him and it would turn out to be neither of you? Then you'd both be sitting there with broken hearts, and too busy getting all upset with eachother to be able to comfort one another.
I suggest yes, that if HE asks YOU, then sure go for it, but don't go asking him. If he does ask and you say yes, talk to your friend about it. Just be like,"I'm sorry, I know you like this guy too, but I really like him also, and if you were in my position, would you have turned him down? I don't think so, haha. But I'll tell you what. You can have a dance with him, huh? :]" And just talk it out and resolve this issue with her and like I mentioned in the example of what you could say to her, maybe let her snag a dance with the guy? It'll make her happy.
I hope I helped.
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YES!!! all he can do is say noa nd if hes does you know its not you he likes and you can move on
hope its you
kim
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Chicks over Dicks
or
Hoes over Bros
aka Friends are more important that guys.
& if he wants to go with you he will ask you.
so just leave it be you don't want to start any drama.
Jess
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i dont think you should. i believe friendship its more important than a relationship. okay so lets say this guy breaks up with you right, if yins would date. who would u fall back on considering the "dragon" and you got in a fight, and you aint friends anymore.
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