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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love?? (link)
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Well..the saying, "You can fall in love at any age" is partially true...some people dont fall in love until they are in their 20s or so, or maybe even older..it really just depends on the people, although, some people do think they are in love, but they really arent..but theres no exact age for when you can fall in love, but once you do, youll know
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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this?? (link)
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no..if you really like your boyfriend, you wouldnt cheat on him..you definitely should not go with this other guy..you dont know what he might do
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ok im 13/f and im goin out w/ a 12/m...yea i no its werid but im one of those ppl that says age doesnt matta lol. so we started goin out a couple of days ago but hes liked me for a long time. the only prob is when im around he doesnt treat me like his gf...i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him but i wanna be treated like his gf...not jus a friend. (link)
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Well first off, i just want to say that i dont think its weird that hes younger then you because im 13/f and my boyfriends 14 so yeah..but anyway..
just be more up front and make some of the moves, maybe he'll realize what your trying to say, and if he doesnt then you should talk to him about it, but if your afraid to do that, get one of his friends to tell him that, or get one of your friends to tell him..
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well im going out with this guy my 2 friends dont like....but i really like him and they want me 2 dump him but i really dont want to....but i dont wanna lose muh friends but i dont wanna lose muh boy....what should i do (link)
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Well..first of all, your friends should understand that you like them and i dont think they are true friends if they dont understand that..
However
guys come and go, and friendship seems to last longer, so, do you think you and your boyfriend are going to be together for a while? because if you arent, then in the end you would have lost 2 friends and a guy...
Choose wisely
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My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?! (link)
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Well, i cant tell for sure because i dont knwo him or you..but when the guys at my school do that, they usually have a little thing for you..
Maybe you should talk to him and see if he likes you..
or
You or one of your friends could ask some of his friends what your crush says about you..maybe he talks about you and that he likes you
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MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do?? (link)
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You should let him go, he's your cousin's, and she wouldnt be very happy if you took him from her..And you said she was an older cousin right? so the guy is older right? So i think you should stick to people your age..I'm sure you'll find someone else.
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Ok. Well There's 3 Boys that i really like, the one i like the most, has a girlfriend, so i guess he doesn't count. But i still really like him, i also like 2 other guys, and the one asked me out, and i like him, but not as much as the one with the girlfriend, but he has a girlfriend, so i dont know if i'll ever get him, and the other dude, i just found out likes me. What should i do ? Sorry if this post is kindah confusing. ! *`' . (link)
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I wouldnt waste time liking the one who has a girlfriend because you might get over him and regret turning down the second guy..
Sooo, i say to pick the one you like most out of the 2 that are single
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okay. i like this guy alot. We flirt alot, and he gave me his sn once. Well, he has a gf. he gets on every few weeks *almost every girl in school likes him* but he still flirts with me. But, i'm afraid to IM him i get nerve and afriad to emmbarrasse myself! should i? i mean he gave me his sn! and how to I NOT get nerve before i talk to him?!?!?! (link)
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How would you embarress yourself my IMing him? just do it..if he didnt want you too, he wouldnt have given you his screen name..
Go for it..
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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You dont have a problem..
I used to like this guy too, and i liked him for about as long as you have liked this guy..But i got over him and found someone new, and im pretty sure you will too..give it some time..
maybe you should talk to him about it and see how he feels about you..
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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him? (link)
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If you really like him, then you better not end things, just ignore her, she only says this stuff because she knows it gets to you, so dont let it get to you..
The guy that you like should know that shes lying about you and if he cant understand that, maybe it wasnt meant to be
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I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5. (link)
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Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel..
Maybe he still loves you, so go for it..
You'll regret it if you dont
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Ive been dating a guy for a few days over a week, we've done sexual things and after each time when we talk on the phone he always asks me if i had an orgasm. He gets really turned on when i moan and i get really turned on when he says my name so we both usually try to do that for each other. Well when he asks me if i had an orgasm, i always ask him to, and we both kind of aviod the answer, i dont think either of us have ever, but should i just lie and say i did or what? how should i handle the answer to this question? (link)
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Well, your avoiding the question because you never did, and if he's avoiding it, maybe that's the same reason..so maybe he's never had one before either..
Tell him the truth
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ok.....i like this guy. lets call him bob. and i've liked bob for a couple months now. and we've become good friends. and i had a friend ask how he felt about me, and he said that he just liked me as a friend. but...lately, there had been some stuff goin' on.....rumors if you will, about him likin' me. and i mean A LOT of rumors. i heard it in a lot of different places. someone even told me that bob had been tellin' people on his bus that him and i were goin' out. and then i got this news about him likin' me as just a friend. BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE! I'M SO CONFUSED! please help!
sry for the length and thx in advance (: (link)
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Talk to 'bob' about it..see what he has to say
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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help! (link)
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Yeah, it sounds like he does
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my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........ (link)
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I have had the same problem, i was going out with this guy, and he realyl wasnt all that great looking, but he wasnt ugly, and people would always tell me to dump him, but i really liked him..so i know how you feel..
Just ignore them, or when they ask, tell them the truth, that it doesnt matter what he looks like, just how he treats you and how you feel when your around him, that sort of thing
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I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on? (link)
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Well, since you cant do too much at the movies, why not invite him to your house or something like that
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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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I think he would ask you out again..Maybe you should talk to him about it, or some of his friends, maybe they know something about it..
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tomrrow im going to my boyfriends house...i go there all the time and my mom knows him and shes met his parents before...the thing is she trys to get WAY to involved...she wants me to bring cookies over there! she wants to "fix them up a plate of cookies and brownies" and me give them to his family...come on...THATS SO EMBARASSING! shes like oh but it would be so giving...i dont know how to tell her without fighting..hellpp (link)
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Just be straight forward with her, in the nicest way possible..
Tell her the truth, and that you just dont want to bring cookies because it's embarressing..
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