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Ive been dating a guy for a few days over a week, we've done sexual things and after each time when we talk on the phone he always asks me if i had an orgasm. He gets really turned on when i moan and i get really turned on when he says my name so we both usually try to do that for each other. Well when he asks me if i had an orgasm, i always ask him to, and we both kind of aviod the answer, i dont think either of us have ever, but should i just lie and say i did or what? how should i handle the answer to this question?
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um is sex all ya'll are about? that isn't right.. especially since ya'll have only been going out for a week! oh and about the orgasm thing.. don't lie about it it's a total turn off if the guy finds out you were lying about it.
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maybe you havnt but you've been dating for a week and you already did stuff? wow. dont lie though about it just be like im not sure.
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Ehh.. you can really do whatever I dont think it would really matter anyways. I think he'd still be happy he was having sexual things done anyways. sorri -trix
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If you don't think that either of you have then you probably haven't. You can still have a great sexual experience and not have an ogasim. You should just be honest with him and tell him the truth. If you are wanting to have an orgasim with him then talk to him about it so that way he would be able to give you one.
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stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you've only been dating him 4 a few days over a week and you're doing sexual things!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thats so stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well, your avoiding the question because you never did, and if he's avoiding it, maybe that's the same reason..so maybe he's never had one before either..
Tell him the truth
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Honesty is the key thing in a relationship so you probably should tell him the truth. Orgasms aren't everything like someone said. But if you lied and told him that you did, he'll be happy but then you'll feel weird because you just lied to him. Think about it. Hope I helped :)
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Honesty is the key thing in a relationship so you probably should tell him the truth. Orgasm aren't everything like someone said. But if you lied and told him that you did, he'll be happy but then you'll feel weird because you just lied to him. Think about it. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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well if you seriously haven't then just tell him, its not everything in a relationship remember, but i bet he would be really happy if you said that you did =). be honest with him, by now i think you both are comfortable with eachother and theres no need to lie hun. x0
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Orgasms arent everything..well did you feel pleasured by him? You can still feel pleasure and not have one..so0o if you did you can tell him..well no i didnt...but damn you were still o good.. or something sexy lol. Thats what I would say because even though its early in the relationship, honesty is important to me, so thats what my answer would be. Think about whats important to you..and go with your heart. If you like honesty and feel comfortable ...then tell him the truth..if not...you could lie..but i wouldnt do that
Just my opinion though..hope i helped out
-melissa
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