Soo I told this boy I liked him and he said he liked me. But then he said he doesnt want to be gf/bf he just wanted to be "together" but if I wanted to go out with him then he would. I'm confused whether or not he REALLY likes me.Also I was supposed to hang out with him tomorrow and he said he asked his mom and she said no..he's like "I asked if we could do anything tomorrow and she said no ask her if you want" but just the way he is it sorta leads me to believe he doesnt want to hang out.His mom usually lets him do anything.But he also lives 45 minutes away so I dont know. I don't know if I'm just really paranoid that he really doesn;t like me or what. He said he really wanted to hang out though.Can you tell me if he really likes me or he's just sorta taking advantage of me and wants to see other girls while hes with me? please help me! :'(
I'd ask him polietly what the deal is... Tell him how you feel and ask if he's with other women. Have him talk to you and ask him if he wants to hang or not... I hopw things work..Good luck, jack
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Okay well My problem is I like someone that is about 3 yrs older and i dunno what to do about this cuz my b-day is soon so i will be 16 and he is 18 now so this makes me only 15 and i heard it's jailbate, so should i still date him? I really like him a lot and he treats me so good...
~confused lover~
It all depends on where you live. But I don't tihnk just dating someone is jailbate. If you have sex though, it would be considered jailbate. But if its just kissing and stuff, you should be okay. If you really like him I say go for it! {Never miss an oppurtunity to date someone you like!) Hope I helped. Jack.
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i went out with this guy for 2 days then he broke up with me but today he asked me back out and wanted to hang out with me tomarrow but i told him i cant hang out but i dont really wanna but i want to go out with someone before the summer ends but i dont no if i can trust him he seemed like he changed but i dont want my heart broken again what should i do? ps i dont wanna hang out with him alone but it will seem weird if i bring a friend n he does
He if you have any strange feeling about him, I say don't go, and let him be. As for trying ot date someone before summer ends, sometimes its better to wait it out (I know its hard) and wait till a truly special guy comes along. Hope it works out, and Hope I helped. Jack
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Hi i am a 16 year old female and Im not sure how to explain to this guy that i used to date that i still have big feelings for him..He is moving away but should be back his senior year. I dont care about distance. I really want to be with him. We broke up though becuz i questioned his love for me. I really do love this guy and I know he loves me too. I just dont think he realizes how much i do really care about him. I dont know what to say and how to explain it. Please help me explain to this guy how i feel..I want him no matter what. I would do anything. Also can you help me with so sweet ways of showing him how i care. I am seeing him Sunday for the last time..Please HELP!!
-lost the love of my life
Hey, Why don't you ask him on a walk or out to dinner and sit him down and tell him how you feel, becuase he's not a mind reader! Why don't you tell him what you told us in your question, that you love him, will do anytihng for him, and know now, that he love's you too. He won't know unless you tell him, or give him signs, Hope I helped, Jack
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okay me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 5 months. i knew her a good while before, and fell in love with her before we started going out. she says she is so in love with me, and sometimes yeah, it seems like it i mean she brings me random gifts and calls me back right after we hang up. dont get me wrong she does many other good things too. but what im wondering is we broke up 3 times. i did it once, she did it once, and 1 time was a misunderstanding. each time i had to fight my little but off to get her back, shes so stubborn she wont even put forth an effort. she kinda seems like she just watches me try. well either way im in love with her so im forced to deal with it. whenever i try to get us back together, she just ignores me. its not fair, i just spin my wheels and she doesnt notice how upset i am, or she does and doesnt care. im in love with her and want her back but it hurts. she promised shes never leave but she did and now its really hard to get her back. i promised i wouldnt let her leave but she just doesnt care what i say. what do i do? she broke up with me this time... i mean how do i deal with this? dont say to stop talking to her cse its impossible and dont say try to get over her cse everything reminds me of her and it would be impossible nonetheless. please help me
thanks
-ger
Hey, girls tend to be sensitive with relationships and sometimes stupid... Sometimes girls don't realize what there doing. I've found the best way to resolve the issue, it to sit her down and tell her how you feel, truly, from the heart. Explain sometimes what she does kills you inside... Tell her everything, explain what you feel, and ask her to kinda meet you in the middle, cause sometimes you just have yo open some eyes.
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Well i was datin this boy *jamie*. and me and him got into a arguement over me braking up with him cause my parents split up. he said i broke up with him for a boy named *rodney* but i didn't me and rodney started talking 2 days later. cause he lives next to my mom. i was supposed to move in with my mom but i didn't and i wrote him a 4 paragraph note on icq. and sent it to him. explaining everything to him. but he still is all jumping down my throat. well i don't know what to do. cause i REALLY love *jamie*. he was my first love. and i can't move on with out him. i'd do anything for that boy. what can i say or do to make everything better.. the other thing is. that the other nite i think last saturday. we got into a arguement. and he threatened me and then his sister threatened me. but god nos i really love that boy. he nos it. i've cried since we broke up. should i talk to him or just move on (because of the threatening part). i don't know if he really meant what he said about him wanting me to die and junk. but what should i do.. i really think i'm inlove
*Confussed But Inlove*
Hey, been there! My suggestion is for you too explain to *jamie* that you really do love him and you wouldn't hurt him. Explain your all his,spill your guts girl! lol... Anyway, tell him and if he doesn't listen give it some time and try again.
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hi pplz. i think i like this boy but i'm scared to tell him. what can i say to give him hints that i like him. he's supposed to come down tomarrow. to talk to me and stuff and watch a movie. but i still wanna tell him b4 hand that i like him..please help me
I would explain to him in person that you like him, as more then a friend. Snuggle with him, compliment him... Guys always like to hear that girls like them, or you could just ask him if he like you, or has thought about you as more then a friend.
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How can i tell if this guy i was with but just broke up with because of a distance issue still likes me?? I mean cuz he is always around and talks to me still..Like calls me everyday..and his fave team is the ravens and he wants me to wear my ravens shirt and idk..but i really do love this guy..How can I express myself to him and How can i tell if he still likes me??
Long distence relationship are hard, even if its the type where you don't get to see each other for very often but live like 10 miles away!... I would ask him honestly and tell him how you truly feel, explain that its hard when he sends mixed signals, and you want to know the truth. I hope I helped, Jack,
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Okay.. i know that its normal for guys to watch porn and all, but i mean come on. My boyfriend sits there and says that he's not interested in it anymore and stuff and then he goes and says he's gonna buy some for one of my friends... that doesn't even bother me its just that he is OBSESSED with it. he like always is saying hes gonna get rid of some of it but then he liked never does and just gets more. its like a drug for him. ik its not that big of a deal but am i totally crazy for being jealous?? we have the greatest realationship outside of that... im sorry this is so long but if anyone can answer this good ill rate high.
thanks!
Well, it's not right for him to put Porn before your relationship or for him to keep lying to you about it. You need to sit him down and tell him that your feeling thats what he's doing is coming before you and you feel outcasted (or however your feel). I hope the relationship worls out, etc. Jack
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Hey. I have a big problem. I had a crush on this guy who is like 2 years older then me {i'm 14, so he is 16}, just a tiny one. But, my older sister who is 20 LIKES him. But, it sucks because all the guys I like I can't because of friends, and now it's come down to my sisters. I liked a guy that was my other sisters age but then she started likin him so i had to back off, since he was so much older... but there not dating ne ways. But, my 20 year old sister is going out on a date with him... What if they become boyfriend and girlfriend.... maybe i just think that he's cute... But i dunno... If they do become bf and gf, it would be weird if i like, see them kissing or something.. well maybe it wont. I'm really confused...
Someone's always there to steal your crush, as evil as that sounds. Mine was my cousin, and her and I were very close, but she got EVERY guy! My advice, is to stick it out, if you really like him tell him how you feel, and explain that you would appriciate that if him and you sister do become bf/gf that if you kept your lives sperate because it would be rude to flaunt his relationship in your face. If they don't hook up, try seeing if you like him for personality or for looks, because there might be your answer, yea, you may crush, but its poeple who have sparkling personality's that keep things fresh and fun...I would try sorting out if you really like him or your just crushin... Hope I helped... Jack
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Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!!
Hey, I felt that way at camp to... Talk about normal tihngs and when you know your about to see him clear your mind, don't be worried about trying to impress him...He seems to already like you! Try being yourself (as korny as that seems) and talk about your day, and things you like.
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im not happy where i live. all people want to do here is drink.smoke and act fake. im not like that. i feel like im losing all my friends because they are all either moving or turning like "them" (only wanting to drink.
smoke + act fake) i want to move. but then again i dont. but i need to meet new people and be in a new place.. i feel so helpless.. i may be moving anways but do you think that will help? i just dont feel happy.. i dont know what i need but theres got to be more to life.. the only thing i want to do is move away.. become famous and seek love.. untill then im dying here... does any1 have any advice on that.. and thanks!!
Try going to a diffrent place a meeting new people, change you crowd, and get out more, just being somewhere new might help you!
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my boyfriend drinks alot.. tonight he told me he needs a beer cause he hasnt drank in a few nights. i dont drink alot at all so i dont go out n party with him wenever he does. since im not there i worry about him n other girls.. i dont know if he thinks its okay to do body shots or somethin..i dont kno if i should be mad if he does or jus let it go? to make it worse, hes goin to college this year and im only a junior. should i be mad if he takes body shots off of girls or is that taking jealousy too far?
I would ask him what he does, and then see. I mean a couple of body shots is harmless but if hes kissing or something, It's too far...
I hope I was helpful, Jack
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Hi there, thanks for taking the time to listen to me complain because no one else wants to hear it...
Im 17 and have never been asked out, had a boyfriend, had a boy as a friend , or any other possible boy-girl relationships you could think of. The older guys seem to like me which scares me a lot because when I went to ST Thomas, a 29 year old was hitting on me and asked me if I played pool (hence a date). I think a black kid likes me and hes very nice and all but hes just not right for me. The problem is, even when I meet someone who is ever slightly interested I get all sick to my stomach and am so excited. 100% of the time I am let down, such as the time when I met this physical therapist who was flirting with me and then I saw him again and he seemed lijke he didnt even know me. It was heartbreaking too because I waited two weeks and all i thought about was "friday, jack will be there! friday friday friday. I think i spent tooo much time thinking about it and now im so sad again.. I know hes too old for me anyways, but I seem so pathetic. People tell me Im smart and pretty, like uh my doctor, and uh my MOM and random waitresses. One time I was leaving the YMCA and some lady told me i looked like priness di, which i dont think so i have brown hair and hazel eyes, lol but anyways my best four friends dont have boyfriends either and we never have. its not like we are giving ourselves out. no one takes us for a ride. Usually I find a guy I like at school and try and find out more about them, and im dissapointed to find out theyve had sex, or drink all the time, or smoke pot, or are just plain boring! Sometimes I find myself trying to ignore them but yet i cant. I thought maybe life would be easier as a lesbian because so many girls love me as a freind and even they tell me im pretty. Ive been capatin of soccer and lacrosse numerous times because everyone (girls ) love me. It sucked when I thought one of the girls was hitting on me and i was scared! But i Know thats not the sexuality I am, and I guess thats just me being stupid again. I see myself falling for the older guys, around 20-26ish and for some reason its hard for me to even have interest in guys my own age. Maybe its because of the bad expeinces ive had, since most guys my age are all about sex, smoking, drinking, and anything else I can imagine. I just want a good guy who is a legal age to go out with who likes me for who i am. Im so sick of hearing "oh the right guy hasnt come along": when I see these perfect couples at school or the mall. Life is tough sometimes.. Im also worried about my car and if guys wil try to use me for it. Id be really sad to find out if Jimmy likes me and I like him but really Jimmy only loves my mini cooper convertible :( my aunt thinks im going to be hurt by that kind of stuff... i dont know! i am sooo confused
Thanks again,
17,f,ny
Hmm...Guys around our age tend to be like that, but I can give you a hint, stay away from drugies, and guys who tend to be jerks. Some guys tend to be afraid of athletic women too, watch out for sexists. However, guy that have sex before aren't always bad. (I know because my man's amazing and his ex, is having a baby thats his, (it wasn't his fault) but he's an awesome guy)Sometimes you have to wait, because the perfect guys hasn't come along. Try getting out more, and meeting new ppl, and not just hanging with the girls all the time because thats a warning sign for most guys. Try getting out to meet people on your own. As for older men, stay away from them, they tend to cause troble. Sry this is so long. Anyway, the right guy WILL come along if you put yourself out there a lttle more.
Sry I couldn't be more of a help, Jack
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Ok well i liked this guy and we went out for a month, he broke up with me the day after our 1 month, and now i cant get over him. i didnt like him much when we were going out..i was really going to dump him but after he dumped me i feel madly in love! hes my every thought, and whatever i do hes somehow there!! help!! i need to stop this before school starts...not that im going to forget..but it would help!
Find another guy, that you really like and hang out with hime more. Also try clearing your mind whenver thoughts of him come up. I know its hard to just forget about someone but sometimes it just needs time.
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Hey,Im 13/f (but mature for my age so dont say im too young for serious dating)
This guy is really inlove with me, and im just not feeling it. We've made out and..honestly i get bored with him.I've already broke his heart twice and we just hooked up about a week ago.
This seems to happen a lot. I like a guy for awhile, then we get together and the likeness factor soon goes away. Whats wrong with me? Am in not straight?I dont think i like girls or anything, but im scared that if im getting bored with these guys after a short period of time.Youknow? Well..maybe you dont.
Should i break it off with him? I mean we are really good friends but i dont wanna ruin that. Should i take a break from him? I cant really take a break though if we havent been together long can i? Oh i need help!
I rate high for good advice!
Hey, I'm the same way with guys, and I'm not gay. Sometimes, it's better to establish a great friendship with that person first, and if you like them alot after a period of time go out with him then. Sometimes being friends is more entertaining then going out with the person you like. If you get bored easily it just means that your not right to go out together. I would break off with him gently, saying I hope we can be friends still, but this dating thing isn't working out for me. I hope everything works out for the best. Jack
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What's something special I could do for me and my boyfriend's 3 month anniversary?
Think of something he'd really like, and wrap it in a buch of boxes! Box after box, and wrap it in his fav. color!... Give hime the gift after a walk together, or a dessert you made and shared. Just being with him should make him happy!
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Why are boys so... i dont even know what word to use.. i mean they tell you they love you just to get in your pants! and they are sooo confusing, they bring so much pain but i still want them! ... grrr, am i making any sense? all i truley want is this...
i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything.
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
who calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with me and remember each one.
a boy who notices girl's haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesn't send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dad's handand look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me i'm beautiful.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who tells me i have a nice laugh,
and a smile that lights up the room.
a boy who's simply mine to hold."
that is exactly what i want!
why cant i get that?
Okay, Realtionship like that don't build themselves over night. My advice, is wait it out, love always hits me when I'm not looking. Sometimes, even though, you don't want to you have to compromise, because there might be a guy that has all but a few, some guys just need to be told what the girl is looking for. Anyways, if you really want someone special, look to your closest friends, and get out there a meet new one too!
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