Hey,Im 13/f (but mature for my age so dont say im too young for serious dating)
This guy is really inlove with me, and im just not feeling it. We've made out and..honestly i get bored with him.I've already broke his heart twice and we just hooked up about a week ago.
This seems to happen a lot. I like a guy for awhile, then we get together and the likeness factor soon goes away. Whats wrong with me? Am in not straight?I dont think i like girls or anything, but im scared that if im getting bored with these guys after a short period of time.Youknow? Well..maybe you dont.
Should i break it off with him? I mean we are really good friends but i dont wanna ruin that. Should i take a break from him? I cant really take a break though if we havent been together long can i? Oh i need help!
I rate high for good advice!
Additional info, added Sunday August 7 2005, 12:28 am: Ok so i decided to break it off and then outta the blue he IMs me saying "are you going to break up with me, i have this feeling that you want to"
So how can i say yes i want to?
I said i dunno.
I dont want to hurt him.
:-/
what should i do?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ESMEDINzBABE answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:35 pm: Wel maybe you shouldnt go out with him!! Since your getting bored hehe!! Im also 13 and i get bored of guys really easy to!! But i did meet this one dude and i dun think i could ever get bored with him lol!! But i dun thin ur a lezbo or anything i think you just havent found the right guy yet and believe me youll find him sooner or later!! I know what your going threw the and if you need any more advice go ahead feel free to ask!! Ok well i really hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~* [ ESMEDINzBABE's advice column | Ask ESMEDINzBABE A Question ]
PerfectionLove answered Saturday August 6 2005, 1:17 am: Tell him you're not feeling it. Be honest. But make sure you add that his friendship means a ton to you and you really don't wanna lose it. You can take a break, If you think its right. [ PerfectionLove's advice column | Ask PerfectionLove A Question ]
AdivceJack answered Saturday August 6 2005, 12:46 am: Hey, I'm the same way with guys, and I'm not gay. Sometimes, it's better to establish a great friendship with that person first, and if you like them alot after a period of time go out with him then. Sometimes being friends is more entertaining then going out with the person you like. If you get bored easily it just means that your not right to go out together. I would break off with him gently, saying I hope we can be friends still, but this dating thing isn't working out for me. I hope everything works out for the best. Jack [ AdivceJack's advice column | Ask AdivceJack A Question ]
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