my boyfriend drinks alot.. tonight he told me he needs a beer cause he hasnt drank in a few nights. i dont drink alot at all so i dont go out n party with him wenever he does. since im not there i worry about him n other girls.. i dont know if he thinks its okay to do body shots or somethin..i dont kno if i should be mad if he does or jus let it go? to make it worse, hes goin to college this year and im only a junior. should i be mad if he takes body shots off of girls or is that taking jealousy too far?
AdivceJack answered Saturday August 6 2005, 1:47 am: I would ask him what he does, and then see. I mean a couple of body shots is harmless but if hes kissing or something, It's too far...
modelkate11 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 12:49 am: hopefully you're the closest person to him. maybe you can get him to stop drinking. it'll be better for his health and your relationship.
karenR answered Saturday August 6 2005, 12:03 am: I think its a natural thing to be mad and jealous of that kind of behavior. Don't assume the worse unless you are told differently though. I think if a person drinks to the extent that they are exhibiting bad behavior then maybe they shouldn't be drinking. So don't let anybody try that excuse on you either. You still need to be treated with respect even if you aren't there with him. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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