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Gender: Female
Location: nc
Occupation: high school student
Age: 14
Member Since: June 29, 2005
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ok...I went out with this one guy for about a year and we've been broke up for a few months now and im starting to fall for his friend...well him and my bestfriend started talking but they didnt like eachother that much they talked for about a week and then he told her that he wanted to play the field awhile or whatever and now i've been talkin to him on aim and like hes really sweet and he wanted to know when we was gone hook up or whatever and he swore to me he wouldnt do me wrong and all that stuff and hes really sweet and i think im fallin for him...but my ex doesnt really approve but hes startin 2 come around but my bestfriend didnt like it at first but now shes tellin me to go for it and stuff and then she talks bad about me behind my back...im really startin 2 like him and i think he likes me(or so he says he does) but i dont want to come inbetween him and my ex and hes scared hes gone come inbetween me and my friend and its really complicatin because we like eachother and we're talkin about hooking up next week or so should i go for it or should i just tell him we should be friends?
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if your friend was a true friend shell be happy for you regardless, obviously her this guy did not want each other so now you are getting yours a true friend is gong to be there thru thik n thin so i say hook up with him n let your friend get mad but explain things to her an dhow she should be ther e and remind her that she didnt want him.
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ok well i am so beyond mad right now and i feel so beyond betrayed, but here's the story. on saturday at 2AM, i woke up thinking about my ex bf of over a year ago. i got on IM cuz i really needed to talk to someone about it. so i was talking to my friend "Jane". and i told her how i thought he was the right one for me and all that stuff and she was like oh you should call him and stuff. so later i did and he asked me to come see him. later that night i was talking to "Jane" and she goes umm we need to talk. and then she told me she was going out with "John". i feel so beyond betrayed and all she's doing is saying she's sorry when she just totally stabbed me in the back and i want to kill her right now!! if she really cared she wouldn't have done it in the first place right? please help me sort this out!
thx...by the way i'm 14/f (link)
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be happy for her is it really worth losing a friend over some guy? NO it isnt yea what she did was wrong but look at it this way if you two are broken then its for a reason and it obviously wasnt meant to be so move and find yourself someone else that can make you happier than your ex ever made you and become friends with your ex if you want to
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me and my ex have been broken up for 5 months now but I cant seem to get over him.
We happen to have a class together and we sit next to eachother (seeting chart). Well we didn't talk the first week we were in that class then on Friday he started talkin to me. And ever since then we've been flirting. I know that we will not get back together, but he confuses me sometimes because he starts the flirting at times. Then we both happen to have 1st lunch and there's this girl who is all over him and that when I first experienced jelousy, I wanted to rip her face off and smash whatever is left on the ground. I don't like to feel jelousy because I want to get over him. I just dont know what to do. (link)
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if you want get over him i say start talking to and flirting with other guys it took me a year and some time to get over my ex im over him now and he and i are friends.but if you dont want to get over him and you want him back just tell him how you feel and maybe most likely he feels the same way too.depending on why yall broke up if yall want and if still have feelings 4 each other yall should get back together
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well...okay. One time i talked to this guy that i had never met b4, and he was pretty cool. and the more we started talking the more i liked him. And one of the things we talked about was his GF had broken up with him. And i thought well...maybe we could online date...after we get to know each other...and now i talked to him agian yesterday and he said hes found a new gf. and shes awesome and tall and stuff. And my ? is...should i still try to flirt with him and stuff to get him to like me? or stay there as a friend? or what??i REALLY like him too!!! HELP! (link)
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no sweetie you should not try to flirt with i think you should just stay there as a friend or just leave him a lone even though you some people just aren't worth and if he couldnt see how much you liked him then its great that he got a new girlfriend .just continue to be his friend
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My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice. (link)
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i think that you should be with him because if you love him you should be with him and he shouldn't be makin that other girl think that he cares or whatever so i say go for it don't keep what yall have going on a secret or the way you feel about him a secret love is meant to be expressed. get rid of that other girl that is coming between yall
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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?
i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you. (link)
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i understand you and your whole situation but look at it this way you could have a whole lot worse cause he couldve turned out to be one of those guys that didn't give damn about shit so basically you r lucky i say stay don't break it off cause if you do you will be wanting him back and you will regret and it is hard to find a good man so even though he does a lot of things to annoy you just tell him how you feel about it
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Well, I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We hit off quite well :) And just recently, this 5th of August we decided to "hook up", become an "item", whatever, we're together.
Anyway, we've never really talked as much as I'd like to. I've told him that and I've said I miss him and talking to him when texting with him. But that doesn't seem to be working... we talk around... 30 - 60 minutes a WHOLE WEEK. If that much too. That would be a good week!
I don't know what to do anymore. We're both on the nervous side when we meet and rather quiet but I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him, I think there's potential. But, he doesn't seem like HE wants to put any effort into it. So I was wondering, what should I do, seeing as I'm the one concerned about the relationship in the first place,?
Note; I'm 13 & female. (link)
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tell him how you feel if acts like he doesn't care then ask him whats going on (you always gotta have another dude,guy on the side cause you never know) ask him whats going on And ask him whyhe hardly has time to talk to you but first get you a guy on the side kind o f like a rebound guy
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ok so i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months... and last week i went over his house and then we went to the pool..my mom told my dad that he needed to pick me up at 5:30..my dad actually came kinda early at around 4:45!!! so i was out of the pool and me and jared(my bf) were laying on the lawn chair together.. my leg was in between his legs and when i saw my dad i totally freaked out!! 2 days later at nite my bf called and my dad picked up the fone and told me to get off the fone!!! now i can't even talk to my bf!! and my mom is saying things like how my dad doesnt want me to see jared nemore!! and my dad had a chat with me in the car on the way home and he sed i looked like a SLUT!!! i love jared soooo much and i dont think i can take wut my parents a pressuring me to do!! and i cant just not talk to jared!!!
please please please help me!!!!
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you have to xplain to your parents why your dad saw what he saw and also xplain that jared isnt the person they think he is its two people in a relation so it kind of takes two people two do wrong so tell your dad to stop buggin out let you explain your self and explain your feelings for jared if he doesn't want to hear it then talk to your mom but don;t end your relationship with your boyfriend b/c your parents are trippin maybe jared's parents can talk to your parents
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my ex juss broke up wit her bf and i realli still like her and her bf was cheating on her how can i get her to be back wit me cuz i still have realli strong feelings for her wut should i do? (link)
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give her some time and space but be there for her be her friend let her know that you there if she needs you but don't become too much of friends tell her how you feel about her and maybe she feels the same way too but jus give her time
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ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
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naw its not really a problem not unless she feels it is or unless you do but other then that you do'nt have a problem
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Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this? (link)
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no you are not stupid for feeling this way my boyfriend is a bit shorter than i too and i am used to guys that r taller than me but if you love you gotta accept for who he is or how short or tall he is trust you'll find some way to get used to it
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Theres a girl named nikki and we broke up like 3 days ago and i cant get her out of my mind i really want her back but i dont know how to get her back i know she still loves me so what should i do (link)
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why did ya'll break up? naw but just be real with her and tell her how you feeel and have patience don't try to pressure her into anything and be open with her don't be afraid to open up to her good luck
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My friend that I have known for four years has a cousin who likes me and I kind of like him the only problem is my friend has just told me that he likes me. What should I do I don't want to come between them?
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which one do you like? I thought the same thing when iwas going out with my ex- boyfriend, my best friend who is my ex-boyfrinds cousin had feelings for me and wanted be more than friends, but at one point i thouhgt that i would come between them too but i had to look at it like this they are cousins they are always going to be cousins they have to deal with each other at family gatherings,etc.so if they let a girl come between them something wasn't right to begin witi wouldn't let no guy come between me and my cousin/sister i'll tell her she can have him but it might be better if you just remain friends with both of them
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sry for the length but i need help!
ok i like this guy we'll call him "joe" we me and joe talked in the past about going out and i screwed it up now i reallly like him but im afraid to tell him b/c im scared to death of rejection b/c i've never really had to deeal with it.. every guy i liked turned out to like me and tell me they liked me b4 i told them i liked them and they lasted for like 2 years all of them...
and Joe is one of my best friends and i like him so much im willing to risk our friendship to try this out but i talked to Joe about everything like boyz and he tells me about girls and well he likes like 4 girlz ... im just so confused...can any1 give me any advice??
again sry for the length
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just tell him how u feel don't even think about the fact that you can be rejected he probably likes you too but boys have this thing about telling people how they feel but just tell him how you feel and he'll like you cause you were bold enough to tell him what is/was on your heart/mind and if he wants to be just friends you have to accept that but be happy because you have something that no other girl will ever his friendship his openness not many guys will be open and especially with a female so you have a special friendship no one else will ever have that.
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me and this guy almost went out about 7 months ago and i basically got myheart broken. then about 2 weeks ago he e-mailed me saying he was sorry for leading me on and stuff and he wants to prove to me that hes nicer then that. so i emailed him back bascially saying don't worry about it and he'll have to prove it to me. so he said he was going to camp for a week but then when he gets back we'll hang out for sure. well hes been back for 2 days now and he hasn't IMed me or anything and i sent him an email about this drink he told me about saying it was good and he was like haha yeah thats why i love it. so yeah, should i bring up that we should hang out? i'm nervous to IM him or bring it up, especially since he isn't too shy of a guy and i think he woulda brought it up if he wanted to. i leave on thursday and won't be back for 2 weeks so time is pretty limited. what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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you should upfront and blount with him about the whole situation and just let him know how you feel, ask him what has he been up to that ya'll couldn't hang out , or did he just forget if he is too busy to make time for you than find someone else.
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ok theres this guy in myschool .. we both always had a thing for each other the whole year .. well the last day of school was the other day nd on the last day he kissed me on the forhead nd told me he loved me nd he was gunna miss me sfm ( were going to diff schools next year ) nd he constantly tells me he loves me nd that im his world .. and yeah i like him but hes a dick to some of my friends should i still like him? (link)
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i say go 4 it ,its hard 2 find aguy that wil treat you right but askhim to try to get along with your friends i mean you get a long with his right and they are guys so we know they are jerks so just ask him 2 get along with your and to do it for you and if he refuses then end it
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My best guy friend and I are both 17 and will be seniors in HS in september. We have been friends since frosh year, and became really close last year. I know I can tell him anything and he knows he can do the same. Throughout most of our junior year, I had a crush on him. Yet, I could not tell if he felt the same about me cause of mixed signals. We flirt with each other, hug each other sometimes, and talk a lot online(we both are busy with school). A few times he's even stayed after school for no reason on days that I have my flute lesson and hung out with me. One time, he even calmed me down when I was about ready to haul off and kill one of my best friends for being a jerk to me. He's confided in me a few things and I have confided in him my most private secret. We trust each other and value each other. Yet, I can't read his mind when it comes to me. (link)
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my best guy friend and i have been friends for 8 years he is a great guy , i understand what you are going threw but if you don't tell him how you feel he will never, after i told my best guy friend who is my best friend i didn't know how he was going to react i was hoping he would feel the same way, he did but the thing is though after you will be glad you did and he will be glad to know how you feel,, it is best to go ahead and tell him what is on your mind b4 some other girl tells him whats on hers
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What do you think of a girl in her young teens(say 15,16) starting a relationship with someone thats about 11 years older then her. Say, this guy really does like the girl and the girl totally loves this guy. What are your thoughts on this? They've kissed and really do feel for eachother, but the guy lives a couple hours away, and how would this girl tell her parents if they were to ever start a relationship? (link)
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this is what i think Girls shouldn't date guys that are more than a certain amont of years older than them, but anyways i'm 14 this 21 year old guy was/is interested in me the thing is though i felt like he was just physically attracted to me because he really didn't try to get to know me, this is what i think you should talk to to your friend and see where his heart is, he has already explored life and been threw things you have 2 go threw.you have your whole life ahead of you ,so i say end it with this guy and you won't have to tell your parents, but if you end it you have to worry about his reaction
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(13/f)Well I really like my friend Jesse....Were like really good friends though, but we go to different schools but I see him a lot. I don't want to tell him I like him but I want him to kind of try to figure it out, like I don't want it to be so obvious. He has a girlfriend but I think shes gonna dump him soon....Well what are some good ways for him to realize that I like him a little. (link)
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girl just tell him i have already been through this with my best friend. I thought hey maybe if i don't tell him he'll figure it out but at the same time while you sittin there thinkin about how he should some other little girl is going to snatch him up just tell him how you feel and you never know he might feel the same way, even if he does have a girlfriend tell him how you feel anyway, he will be glad to know whatis on your mind.you will be happy you did its one less thing you have to stress about, hes a guy hes not going to catch on if you wait 4 him to figure it out so jus tell him
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