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There's this boy who I have known since third grade. We are both now 15 and in eleventh grade. I am a girl. We are friends, we talk all the time in and out of school. But next Saturday will be the first day we are hanging out outside of school. We are going to the park to watch a movie with my two best friends and two other boys. Everyone says it's a date. We say it's not, just two friends hanging out. It's not a date unless we say it is, right? (link)
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Yeah, it does seem like two friends just hanging out. I wouldn't call it a date unless you both decide it's a date.
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My crisis is that I'm 12, my parrents don't know anything that I do at school or who I like. I have been crushing on this guy named Sam since 5th grade when I moved to his school and he asked me out. I said no because I just moved to the school and I didn't know about his reputation. Now that I just finished sixth grade I realy like him. He I quarterback of the football team and is a really good student. He has dated a lot of popular girls just to think he is cool but yesterday his friend came up to me and said that my bestie Christina told him that I liked Sam. I said no because I want to tell him in person and I knew my friend didn't tell him because she has no way to tell anyone because she's on vacay. Sam is moving at the end of this summer and I don't know what I would do without him in any of my classes. I think about him all day. It's not very easy to just come out and say that I like him because I don't know his cell phone or a facebook, but the worst part Is that he lives 5 houses down and he walks home from going down town with his friends and walks right past my house and dances right in front. He has been showing me signs that he likes me but I don't know what I should do. I'm thirteen and I'm a girl just to be clear. The bag of lies part is that I pretended to date this other guy to make him jealous. I know it's wrong but Sam was gettting on my nerves and dating a popular girl just to make me jealous. Help me please
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Just be outside when he goes walking by or something. Then try talking to him and maybe getting closer to him. You don't want to move too fast. But he's leaving so much won't come out of it. Maybe just let him know how you feel, either write it in a note or tell him before he leaves. Don't act all obsessive and in love with him. Just say simply how you feel. It'd be hard but you can do it! Good luck!
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My teacher rubbed her hand up my leg and I was wondering If that classified as rape or sexual harrasmwnt.We were alone cause I had detention and she sat beside me and did it.She is damn ugly and I told her to get her stinkin paws of a me.I tell my principle and see what'll happen next. (link)
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Its not rape but it was sexual harassment. Tell your parents and principle, good luck!
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my boyfriend always glinse at girls asses and it piss me off i confront him all the time.he doesnt stare or break his neck or anything but i feel like those eyes should be staring at me. (link)
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Its gonna happen, with every guy. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore its just that guys are sick and he is absolutely gonna look at other girls. He has you and that's what he wants but all guys are gonna do that. You could talk to him calmly and tell him to at least try not to look at them so much. Just be glad he isn't staring, its just a glance.
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i know most of the advice givers get over 10 boy stories a day & im sorry this is another one of those typical "he doesn't realize im alive" stories. well there is this boy at my church, he is nice to everyone in my youth group, girls and boys. most of the time he doesnt want to talk to me. im falling hard for him and i just want to know--if he is nice to everyboddy in church and a generally nice guy out of church why doesnt he talk to me? here's some side stuff 1)everytime i look up at him singing on stage he is always looking at me 2) i took his phone and put my number in it and he didnt delete it:) 3)he always talks to my friends. i hope you can help! (link)
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Well you can't tell for sure if he likes you or not. He seems like a nice guy so why don't you talk to him? If he isn't talking to you then you should go and try talking to him. Then if he doesn't really seem interested to talk to you or something like that, then you'll know he isn't really interested. He probably won't be mean though, saying that you said he was nice to everyone. There is a chance he will talk to you, since he still has your number in his phone. Good luck! I hope everything goes well for you!
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Hello, I'm 17 yrs old, female
there was this guy i liked from my last year english class and i kinda got over him, i mean i liked other ppl after that but i still had feelings for him..but now i’m starting to like him again and it hit me tonight that it’s our last year together..he’s going to uni, i’m going to college. I’m just scared becuz what if i don’t get over him by the time highschool is over? i don’t know what to do:(…I told him that i liked him on msn on day in late May and he didn’t take me seriously then he told me that he had a g/f…but the thing is that i noticed that he would always stare at me even before i started liking him…sometimes he would look away when i caught him. He would still stare at me even after he told me that he had a g/f, we don’t really talk much, we just spoke like 2 or 3 times on msn. (link)
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He might like you but if he has a girlfriend there isn't much you can do unless you want to ruin a relationship. Even if you don't get over this guy before you graduate (hopefully you will) then you will meet new guys, eventually you will get over him. I think it would be better for you guys to be friends if he does have a girlfriend. So then you guys might be able to keep in some kind of contact. But trust me, eventually you will get over him. Try talking to other guys and you might find yourself falling for one of them. And if you don't, you might make some new friends out of it. Good luck! I hope everything goes well for you!
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so guys at my school..not trying to sound a certain way...a lot of the guys that like me talk to me all the time and follow me and weird stuff and if i even say hi to them once they automatically think i like them and were talking..which is totally not the case AT ALL! lol but idk what to do i mean i dont want to be mean but i just want to be friends with them! (link)
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I agree with the person below, you could be flirting or leading them on and you might not even know it. That might not be the case but you should just make it clear that you don't like them. Whatever you do, don't flirt with them at all. If you don't want them thinking that. Be nice, but don't be a jerk. So the most important thing to do is just tell them. Tell them that all you want to be is friends and that don't like them. Hopefully this helped a little. Boys are weird and are hard to understand. Good luck!
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ok so this boy asked me for my number...well im kinda nervous to talk to him and i was wondering what are some things we could talk about with out there being any silent moments and i dont want to be boring but i dont want to talk too much either..plz help me...thanx alot!!!
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Don't worry about silent moments too much. If you think about it during the convo then it probably will happen. So don't try to think about it. Talk about what you did that day, what he did. About his life and usually he will try to help it too so it shouldn't be too bad. Talk about things you like, school. There is alot to talk about. If things don't go very well at some point then talk about the weather! Like, "its really hot outside" or something. Good luck!
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Hi, it's the summer time and two years ago I wrote a guy a letter telling him how I feel and he responded three months later over that very summer. We talked it seemed because his friend suggested it, and his friend said he was interested, he may have been lying. We talked for a week and maybe two days. Afterwards, never again. I got back to school and I couldn't even look him in the eye. He and I both would avoid eye contact and never spoke over 10 words to one another. Now he has a girlfriend. I want him to be happy. I spent most of my summer not thinking of him, but afraid when the time came for me to return to school that the feelings would return. I saw him 4 days ago and I felt a jolt when our eyes met for a heartbeat. I'm afraid and I feel pathetic, which I am kind of. I don't want to like him. I want to be over him. But how do I handle these residual feelings that keep returning? (link)
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Yeah its hard. Ok I will tell you the truth, there are plenty guys out there. Even if we do like one, doesn't mean they are the right ones for us. Try to meet new guys. There may be something still there, you need to overcome that because this guy might not be the right one for you. You do want to get over him, just try and find new guys. You could have this feeling but he may or may not. You can never be sure. There isn't much you can do with him since he has a girlfriend. You do want him to be happy, and you should be happy too. Go out there and meet some guys. Good luck!
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first of all, i want to apologize for having such a long problem.
second, i am 13/f
i have this guyfriend and i used to think he was my best friend because he just understands me unlike anyone else. i have this other friend, who has a similar name to mine, in most of my classes, people confuse us CONSTANTLY. i didn't really mind it until he did it because i thought he liked me more than her.
i got my friend to ask him who his best friend that was a girl was (not to make it obvious by asking him if he liked me or her better) and he said that SHE was his best friend that's a girl!
i was extremely upset because i've been through a lot in the last two months such as losing several good friends because of extremely unnecessary fights and i've just been very sensitive and not really listening to anyone. i thought that maybe he was the only person that i could truly count on. i've been REALLY hurt these past two months, and it's like i just added to that.
also, he is definitely not her best guyfriend. but we would always talk i am just so surprised that he said that i couldnt even explain the shock. we got in a fight a few months ago but we are currently (good?) friends. to tell you the truth, i dont like any of my friends. he was the only one that i actually had real friend qualities.
he is constantly flirting and talking with her but everyone knows that he is just extremely nice to everyone so i am not sure if it's flirting or not.
thanks beyond much ♥ (link)
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Hey your still his friend. That should be good enough. It would've hurt me too if that happened. This might hurt, or not but he could like her more than a friend. You guys are really close and thats really good. You don't have to be at the top of his list. If you don't like your friends very much then maybe you should find some new ones. Your close guy friend is your friend and just because he might consider the other girl as his best friend, it doesn't matter. You guys still can be close. Don't let that get you down.
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I liked a guy, he was going out with one of my friends. I told him I liked him. He told her. Its kind of awkward knowing that she knows but she doesn't know I know yet.
What should I do, Im so pissed at him!
Also my best best best friend, always finds a second best friend for a year or so then finds another one, and so on and so on. Shes always hanging out with her second best friend and then she comes back to me.
We've been best friends for a long time but she gets kind of bitchy to her mom and everything. She's really negative and it brings me down sometimes to because I try to be positive.
What should I do there too? (link)
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Well you can't really do much. I would be mad at the guy too but you could've caused something between their relationship. You should stay out of their relationship and just tell your friend your sorry. It would make things better.
For your friend, my friend is like that. She can act like a jerk, even to me. I just hang out with different people now. You can still be her friend, as in being nice to her and stuff. But don't be mean and cause unnecessary drama. Just be nice and find new friends. Good luck!
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There's this guy who I was close with for a while, then after holidays he got a girlfriend (like 5 months ago)
Before they started going out, we talked a lot, and joked around.
Now when he's with his girlfriend, he ignores me completely!
Like he looks right through me! wtf?
But when his girlfriend isn't around, he's always jokey and nice talking to me again.
Usually when I see him around school as a joke we kinda knuckle punch :P
Once he walked by with his girlfriend and he lifted up his hand to knuckle punch when his girlfriend wasn't looking..
Wtf.
Also in history class, instead of asking the people around him, he asks me for a pen, even though I'm 4 seats away...
But before history class he stands there with his girlfriend and he completely ignores me..
What do you think is going on?? (link)
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I think he doesn't know how to act. Now that he has a girlfriend, he probably doesn't know how to act or treat you. I don't know if he has feelings for you, or he is just your friend but there isn't much you can do about it. The one thing you can do is talk to him about it or just forget about it. But I hope everything works out for you.
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Ok, I am 13 years old and I have a problem:
My Best Friend is a JERK!!! At least I think.
My best friend is a guy. We get teased a LOT about it, but whatever. He WAS dating this girl named Destiny. She's in 8th grade (we're in 7th.) She's a little bit of a slut, but I didn't say anything, even though I secretly have a crush on Koby, but whatever... The point is his OTHER best girl friend, Katie, and I saw Destiny dirty dancing and holding hands with a guy OTHER THAN KOBY!!! I was pissed, as you can imagine. Katie was too, so she texted Koby and was like,"Destiny's with another guy." And we took a pic of them holding hands. Koby texted her back,"How am I suppose to believe you? Are you tired of waiting for me to break up with her so you can have me?" Is he a jerk or should I forgive him? (link)
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It might be hard for him to believe. It would be hard for me to believe if I had a boyfriend and he was with another girl. I might have some doubt about him with another girl. You did try telling him. If he doesn't listen you can say you tried. So thats all I can say. So I hope everything works out.
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I am 17, and I kind of have my eye on someone. I don't know him well enough to say I like him, but I am definitely interested in getting to know him.
Problem is, he is most definitely older than me. I don't know his age, but I would say he is between 20 and 25.
He is a very good person, smart, worldly, mysterious, funny, etc. I doubt he is in a relationship, but of course, he might be.
Would it be wrong for me to try to get to know him better? Would he even be interested in the company of a 17 year old? Well, no, I know we will have a great time if we were to talk or hang out, but I'm just afraid he won't be receptive because I'm just a 17 year old girl. Or, because he is super friendly, he will be very polite and courteous but deep down he would be thinking "What is this teenager doing around me?"
I just don't know what to do. I'm scared he will reject me now, and screw up any chances we might have for the future because he will remember that day "when a teenager came on to him." And then some 2-3 years later I'll see him and he will be like, "oh no, not you again." What do I do?
He knows my age by the way. (link)
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Well if you don't take a chance you'll never know what will happen and you will always be wondering what could have happened. Whether it was good or bad. So I say go for it. And if he accepts you and if friendly and seems like he is happy then that great and if he seems like ok, this girl is creeping me out. Or is acting like he doesn't care, he isn't worth any of your time. There are plenty of guys out there anyways. But also remember, in my opinion I say that is a pretty big age difference but it does work out sometimes. So go for it but be careful too. Good luck!
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When i was younger, i had so much personality. i would act crazy and i didnt care what anybody thought of me. i would stand up for myself and be myself. However, now (a few years later) i'm in highschool, and i'm almost completely opposite of what i used to be. i never stand up for myself, i'm shy (very) and i feel like i have no personality. i used to have a huge sense of humor, but now its almost nonexistant. i also used to have aLOT of friends :( i dont know what happend, but i'm DYING to just get back to being the person i used to be (which is: not afraid of anything). any ideas on how to start being that person again? at home i'm ok, but at school i just clam up for some reason and start acting really reserved. any ideas? thanks (link)
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I am like that too. But now I am starting to be more open. You need to have confidence and try to be more outgoing. Try meeting new people and talk to people in your class. If you want to be the person you use to be, you need to put your mind to it. Not just sit there and wish you were. You need action. I was like that but when you are more open and you talk to people you will be more outgoing. But people do change so sometimes its like that. But you should talk to people and be more involved. So I hope everything works out for you.
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I'm a senior in highschool and my day is pretty much over at 10:30, because I have early release. English is my last real period of my short day so, expectedly, it's hard to focus. I usually tired and read to go home.
My English teacher, I believe, is seriously worried about me. She's always asking me about life and if every thing's okay. I try to explain that I'm just tired but it doesn't work. She bought me a journal as a gift and in the card she wrote that when life gets you down and is hard to manage, I should "let go" adn write in the journal. She also recommended a book to me...a book on how to take control of life and only focus on the positive things.
I'm quiet puzzled as what to do. There's really nothing wrong, but she doesn't believe me? (link)
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Your teacher really cares so you could try talking to her and explain your schedule to her. But try and a little more awake during class. But besides that be happy she cares. You can't really tell her differently because you act differently in class. So just be happy you have a teacher who cares.
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ok i told you guys about my boyfriends ex who totally hates me. well i tried to tell her to back off but she wont. even my boyfriend tried to tell her to back off and she still wont. this is what she said to me on msn: look bitch i dont care what you tell alex 2 tell me but you have something that is mine and until you dont give it back im not going 2 live you guys a lone...you have my man and he is NEVER GOING 2 B your MAN OK.... cause he is mine bitch...so im going 2 beg you please go along with Kyle and leave Alex alone so everybody could b happy...i go out with alex and u go out with your little nobody hahaha...: yeah so now you see what im dealing with. can you tell me ways to get her off my case???? i feel as if i dont take care of this soon ill loose my bf. p.s shes a model and shes kinda cocky so yeah (link)
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Ooh. Thats tough. Its going to be hard to make her stop in this situation. I would just try and say something to her to make her realize she needs to get over him and let him go. I'm serious that girl needs a life inside of wasting all of her time trying to get your boyfriend back when he is yours. He obviously like you so he is going out with you. Tell her that he is going out with you because he wants to and he likes you and he obviously likes you. So I hope everything goes well.
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Ok, I have gotten replies to my other question and they seem positive. Before I ask her to be my girlfriend, I would need to confirm it to not embarrass myself. Ok. Whenever I look at her, she has a smile. She co-operates very well. We have never had a fight. She bumps into me and she leaned on my back once for 4 seconds. What do you think? Or is there any way of confirming it myself in school? (link)
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I think you should go for it. It sounds like she likes you. So good luck and she probably will say yes. Have fun!
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I am 13, I am in 6th grade, so here is the question: If a girl bumps into me, and stays touching me, does that mean she likes you? We were walking into class, and she bumped into me and kept touching me until we got into the class room. Our shoulders/upper arms were touching each other until we got into the class room. Also, if a girl bumps into me often, does that mean she likes me? (link)
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It sounds like she is flirting with you. And she may be bumping into you on purpose to get your attention. But I would say if she wasn't leaning on you and kept touching you, she might not have done it on purpose. But thats not the case so in my opinion I think she might have a thing for you.
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14/F
has anyone ever liked 2 guys at the same time?
Its a killer.
Anyways ill get to the story
Lets call one guy Jon, jon is my best friend, and we do everything together....were best freunds! We went out once, and after that i liked him for a really long time, even after he dumped me...i still have feelings for him today.
Then theres Paul.
Paul is extremely sweet and we went out for about a week once before, we said i love you and suff, and i really meant it. I had to dump him becuase JOn wanted me to. He never told me why,, he just said that paul wasnt a good person....then wen jon asked me out a second time (after i dumped him) begging for a second chance, keep in mind i still liked him, i said ok. Jon got furious, and these kids are best frends, so i said "If pauls your best friend, how come you wont let himm date who he wants".....then jon admitted to liking me. I said if you like me so much why did you dump me the first time. He said it was because he never gets to see me, but now that were best friends we wont have that problem anymore. But hes in 8th grade, and im in 9th, and hes going to come to the same HS as me, so he wants to wait until then to go out. Mean time, i still like paul too! I have no idea what to do and im massively confused. Paul ... i think i lovr paul. Jon.....him too. I dont know what to do....please...please help me. (link)
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Ok you need to think about this. You can't have two boyfriends, well you can but that wouldn't be very good. Anyways, you need to sit down and think about it. Who do you really like? You can't keep bouncing back and forth with those guys. Sooner or later those guys will get tired of chasing after a girl who can't make up her mind. So all I'm saying is think about it. I hope everything works out for you.
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