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Ahh, what is this??
There's this guy who I was close with for a while, then after holidays he got a girlfriend (like 5 months ago)
Before they started going out, we talked a lot, and joked around.
Now when he's with his girlfriend, he ignores me completely!
Like he looks right through me! wtf?
But when his girlfriend isn't around, he's always jokey and nice talking to me again.
Usually when I see him around school as a joke we kinda knuckle punch :P
Once he walked by with his girlfriend and he lifted up his hand to knuckle punch when his girlfriend wasn't looking..
Wtf.
Also in history class, instead of asking the people around him, he asks me for a pen, even though I'm 4 seats away...
But before history class he stands there with his girlfriend and he completely ignores me..
What do you think is going on??
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he probably doesn't want to make his girlfriend jealous! just smile when you pass him! if you're friends or know his girlfriend go talk to her, then bring him into the cnversation!
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I think the problem is he doesn't want his girlfriend to get jealous so he doesn't now how to deal with you. He doesn't want you (or his GF) thinking that he is flirting with you. He probably needs to use Advicenators to figure out what he should do! XD He is trying to be a jerk or even trying to hurt your feelings- he is just doing what he thinks is right. Guys do strnage things like that. I think you should talk to him, and find out what is going on.
Oh- and about the pen thing- do you like him? Because with you adding that information, makes me think it. OR do you think he likes you? I think he asks you for a pen oppose to other people is because either he is shy and feels it's easier to ask one of his friends, he really likes your pens, or he likes you.
Hope that helped XD
Love,
Lys
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I think he doesn't know how to act. Now that he has a girlfriend, he probably doesn't know how to act or treat you. I don't know if he has feelings for you, or he is just your friend but there isn't much you can do about it. The one thing you can do is talk to him about it or just forget about it. But I hope everything works out for you.
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He hasn't figured out how to have a girlfriend AND friends who happen to be girls.
Cut him some slack about it though. Lots of teens, guys and girls, aren't quite sure how to act when they get into a relationship. He might have some feelings for you, or he might not, but he definately is a bit confused on how to treat you now that he has a girlfriend.
Either accept it and shrug it off or else tell him "Hey, I'm just your friend right? I feel like you ignore me and try to hide our friendship from your girlfriend. That isn't cool, or mature. Cut it out."
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