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My crush is moving and taking with him a bag of lies
My crisis is that I'm 12, my parrents don't know anything that I do at school or who I like. I have been crushing on this guy named Sam since 5th grade when I moved to his school and he asked me out. I said no because I just moved to the school and I didn't know about his reputation. Now that I just finished sixth grade I realy like him. He I quarterback of the football team and is a really good student. He has dated a lot of popular girls just to think he is cool but yesterday his friend came up to me and said that my bestie Christina told him that I liked Sam. I said no because I want to tell him in person and I knew my friend didn't tell him because she has no way to tell anyone because she's on vacay. Sam is moving at the end of this summer and I don't know what I would do without him in any of my classes. I think about him all day. It's not very easy to just come out and say that I like him because I don't know his cell phone or a facebook, but the worst part Is that he lives 5 houses down and he walks home from going down town with his friends and walks right past my house and dances right in front. He has been showing me signs that he likes me but I don't know what I should do. I'm thirteen and I'm a girl just to be clear. The bag of lies part is that I pretended to date this other guy to make him jealous. I know it's wrong but Sam was gettting on my nerves and dating a popular girl just to make me jealous. Help me please
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What i think you should do is one day ask him if he wants to hang out.If he says yes chill with him and after a little while tell him that you like him and see where it goes from their.
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You should just tell him how you feel. At least you know you said it. If you guys are meant to be together then you will be. But if odds are against your being together, then your situation of him moving is probably for the best. Tell him the truth about you not having a boyfriend and just let all the feelings out. If anything, you guys can still be close friends, which is better than nothing and maybe sometime in the future you guys can meet up again and hang out. The possibilities are endless :)
to get him away from his group you gotta make some alone tim for him. It's the only way. Just tell him i need to talk to you soon and let him pick a time.
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Just be outside when he goes walking by or something. Then try talking to him and maybe getting closer to him. You don't want to move too fast. But he's leaving so much won't come out of it. Maybe just let him know how you feel, either write it in a note or tell him before he leaves. Don't act all obsessive and in love with him. Just say simply how you feel. It'd be hard but you can do it! Good luck!
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