so i like this guy. he was in my school and passed out this year. i am a year junior to him so i'll pass out next year!
i have been talking to him for quite a while now.. and i really like him. he likes me too. he asked me out recently.(though we both are confused on what to do because.. the problem is he is going to another country :/ for his college! and yeah well he would come back to where i live cause his family is here, but still i mean i dont know what i should do?)
I would go out on a few casual friend dates. Nothing romantic for now because he will definitely want sex after and if he's leaving for a long time, there's a good chance he may find someone else. If you keep things as friends and keep writing while he's gone, you can see how things will be when he moves back home. A long distance relationship is hard on both parts. He's going to meet lots of new girls and possible want to date them because you're so far away. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i need to know how to actually aask your parents if you can go to a sleepover and get their mom to talk to my mom
Talk it over with your mom and set up a time that's convenient for her and your friends mom. The day of the sleepover is best because when the moms talk, it's easier for her to leave you at the house. Arrange for a pickup or drop off time the next day but not too late (you don't want to overstay your welcome). As long as mom has the house number and a phone number, she shouldn't have a problem letting you stay. I hope this helps and good luck.
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OKay so I wont take long I am senior and in the 12th grade and there is this new admission in my school he is in the 11th grade
he is cute and i kinda want to get to know him
but the problem is i am a senior.. and it would be really weird just walking upto him and saying HIIII and conversing
that sort of stuff cant happen
i mean you know i am fairly popular in school and my friends notice. and i know the 11th grade people quite well
and i dont want stupid stuff going around school
but
this guy is really cute and i really think he might just turn out to be my type
but i dont know how i get to know him!!!!!!!
I don't know why anyone would care if you went out with a hot guy, even if he was 2yrs younger. Go up and see if he likes the school or needs help getting around or if he needs some ideas of places to hang out and invite him to one of those places. If he doesn't need any help right now, ask if you can friend him on facebook and let him know you're there if he changes his mind. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok so there's this guy that iv been in love with for over a year, he's 18 and loved me to but had a girlfriend so the things we did didn't technically count as going out. But now I really love this other guy named Ben that is 24 and we'll let's just say he can play in the "special olympics" if u get what I'm saying. But despite that, he's sweet, funny, caring, everything I want. I'm 14 and I'm not sure how to deal with either boy! What the hell do I do??????
You can stay friends with these guys until you turn 18 and after that you can feel free to date either one. I know what it's like to be attracted to an older guy but it's against the law and at your age, you really don't know what you're getting into. Try finding a guy that's around 15 or 16 for now and have fun with your life. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this?
There's a lot of things to consider. How close of friends are you, how long have you known him, do you find him attractive, does any of your friends like him and could you see yourself dating him? If something does come up right now, you can play it off like....yeah we were playing truth or dare and I kissed him but that was all. Lots of people have rebound relationships and I think that's what happened. You were feeling hurt and alone and this guy was there and convenient, so you kissed him. It made you feel attractve and a little less hurt...which most people do in your situation. I wouldn't worry about it right now but if he does try to date you, then you should sit down and have a talk with him. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm a 13 yearold girl and I hear about people just a year older than me sucking guys dicks and having sex and stuff but I think that oral sex is disgusting. is that normal? I'm not a lesbian I just think that's gross. and should girls shave there down there hair? you all probably think "what is she talking about, she's 13?" but I want to no if I should. It would help if I got advice from girls and guys. and how old were you guys when you lost your virginity? any advice helps. Thanks (:
It's probably a good thing you think that's disgusting because you'll want to wait a little longer to lose your virginity. The longer you wait means you'll gain more life experience and you'll make smarter choices when it comes to guys. I fooled around and did stuff with other girls when I was 14 but I didn't lose my virginity to a guy until I was 16. If you want to keep your pubic hair trimmed, that's a personal choice. It's one you should make on your own and not let anyone else decide for you. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Why is the culture in southern california so diseased. I've been to plenty of states and countries, and its only socal where i see sluts who disrespect their parents, vomit in their cars their parents bought them, only think about sex, and even at such a young age! Why is this? Why are girls so indecent here.
I think you can find this problem all over but probably more openly there. It really has to do with their upbringing and what their parents are like. If they live in a single parent home or have very busy parents, chances are they don't have any responsibilities, respect for their elders or respect for themselves. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Well, i had a sleepover at mine once, and as girls do, as a joke we played dares, but not normal dares, you know, the kissing sort, and i had to kiss my friend (Lauren) and i really enjoyed it? then when everyone went to sleep, i decided to tell Lauren thati strangley enjoyed it, and she said 'yeah, me too' it was silent for a little bit, then i accidently tounch her genitals (Vagina to be exact) and i went to let go, then she touched mine, she slipped her hands down my pants and started rubbing my vagina. i really enjoyed it :S the we starting kissing. we went upstairs and we started having lesbian sex. we both really liked it. but we havnt told anyone. am i a lesbian or bisexual? (Sorry its very long)
There is no reason to label yourself as a lesbian this early in life. You definitely have bi-sexual tendencies right now, which is totally normal. Your friend seems as though she is bi-sexual but she needs to keep up a normal appearance at school for her friends and probably family. It's hard to want to spend time with someone and be with them sexually when you know that they're spending time with someone else and may be doing things with them. Let me know how things go with your friend. I hope this helps and good luck.
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f/13
i like this guy,adrian and he likes me too. well, he asked me out and i said "no" and he kept on asking me out and i still kept on saying "no". i really wanted to say "yes" but i couldnt because i heard that he is a player and he hurts girls and just plays around with them. so he said that he gave up on asking me out because me didnt want me to get hurt by him.
so then he started dating some other girl named lesly. and she seems nice i really dont know her and shes not my friend. so anyway, before school started i noticed that he was staring at me hile talking with friends. and at break he kept on yelling me name to get my attention, but i turned the other way pretending i didnt hear him. then at lunch he sent one of my friends to tell me that he still likes me and that he was willing to break up with lesly and go out with me. i really wanted to say "yes" but how will lesly take it? i dont want her to get hurt. but neither do i.
-darkangel31
Find someone that will treat you right and won't cheat on you. This guy is a player and he'll keep you around for a while, till the next girl that catches his eye, comes around. You can be friends with this guy and I'm sure if you hang around with him long enough, you'll see how many girls he ends up dating. I hope this helps and good luck.
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am female, 22 y/o & married.
i am working with her, she's a colleague of mine. what confuses me is that she gives me a attitude that i don't know why... i am so confuse now. i am married and i definitely love my husband. i don't know... i have heard that she's into girls and is a bisexual. that's what other people says. am not gonna conclude about that specially that she have a boyfriend already too, which is one of our colleague. i don't know... this lady, i'll name her still maurice... the first time i work there i thought she was nice but then it turned out to me that she was so mean and rude, only to me. what confuses me is that she stares at me most of the time anyway and i've heard that she told someone she don't like me but usually talks about me. i told our manager about it. she said she talked to her, i don't know what she told her, but after that she was already nice to me... now, that was a month before. the other night, i talked to our manager on what's the sign of a lesbian since i can't notice. of course i made an alibi to help me ask her that kind. she said you can't have a hint. you won't know on most of them because you just won't know. i told her never in my life a lesbian made a pass on me. never. i've never been interested on the same sex anyway ( of course that's a lie, ok? because i really think i am falling for her. oh my God!!! ) now, the next day, maurice, started wearing a more bold clothes for her to look like a bisexual enough. i don't know if she did that on purpose or not. and then she acted weird. she was totally change. she became rude to me again, and acts like she hates me. i thought we were already ok!!! now i don't know what to do anymore... she is very successful on hurting my feelings. i didn't liked the way she dressed the other day and is being rude to me again. anyways, let me add this topic too, am not a sociable person really, and i bet she knows that as clear as a water. i don't talk that much to people at work, not only to her but to everybody. oh well, i am trying to protect my relationship with my husband here and my personal life against her. but i wanna stop my affection to her... now am starting to ask if i am bisexual too or not. and i have definitely no clue if she likes me back or not. but at least i wanna know... i know there's no future in this thing between me and her... my head tells me this is wrong, but my heart says different. maybe my head is just playing with me. i don't know. but people, i wanna hear every details from you. thank you so much for understanding. i am so confuse about myself and the things that is going on here (that's the most number one thing i am absolutely certain of).
thanks!
As long as this woman isn't your supervisor or superior, then you're in the clear to find out if you want to have a fling. She may be playing mean toward you to throw the other workers off, so they won't know she has feelings for you. Sometime when you've got her alone for a minute, ask her out to lunch or coffee. You can make up some lame excuse that you'd like her advice on something and see how she reacts. If she accepts then you've got a starting place to find out how you feel about her. There is a possibility that you're infatuated with her but more than likely you do have some sexual feelings toward her. There is nothing wrong with wanting to explore your sexual side but if you do have sex with her and find you want to continue, you may want to be honest with your husband. And be ready to accept the fact he may want to join in or he may be really hurt. This is something you may want to feel out from him before you get the ball rolling. If you need any other advice, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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thanx!
It really depends on where you live. In parts of California you can buy a 900 sq. ft. house for $500,000, while in parts of Indiana you can get a 2500 sq. ft. house for $150,000. It still would be considered a big salary for the most part.
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So one day i got in the car with my girlfriend and noticed that my set was moved. she was driving. i am normally the only one that sits there, and i noticed the broken window was moved differently then wat it was the night before. mind yu my gf goes to school, and i dnt. she droped me off at my house and the window an chair was normal. she goes to school an backand its all different. Also, i found a t-shirt that wasnt mine nor hers in her car. along with underwear (i wear boxers she wears xsmall, and the underwear were a medium. i asked her about it calmly and she fliped broke up wit me ect. accused me of accusing her for cheatin. she has already lefted me for my bestfriend. we been together 5 months...
should i be worried... what does this all mean.. help me guys!
I can totally understand your situation. When I was your age, there were a few 16 year olds I wouldn't have minded being with. But the truth is, you should probably end this relationship. She's still young and a little immature for a serious relationship. Also being young, means she wants to play the field a little and see what else is out there. The other problem that could incour, is she gets really mad at you for something, she goes to the cops and then you get to go to jail for rape because she's underage. I know you may think she's the one for you but her actions seem like she doesn't feel the same. I think it's time to let her go and find someone else and hopefully over the age of 18. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Well everyone thinks that my 7th grade science teacher is Lesbian she talks like a man and dresses like one and her fb pages looks like it. Sheee even looks like it. Also she isn't in a relationship and she likes rock music and electric guitars and well guy stuff. Plus me and my friend just got on her profile and looked at her pictures and she looked well lesbo. So I was just wondering do u think she is? how else can u tell...?...it feels akward being around her.
You should never feel awkward being around a lesbian or a homosexual or an african american or a chinese or mexican or anyone at all. People are people, plain and simple. If she prefers the company of women, then good for her. If she prefers to be alone, good for her. It shouldn't matter her sexual preference as long as she's a good teacher and knows her subjects. You don't have to like everyone in the world or feel pressured to be friends with someone because you feel guilty about something but you should never judge a friendship by their sexuality. If you don't want to be friends or be around her that's fine but she would probably appreciate it if you didn't go around school spreading rumors or talking about her behind her back. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm a 15 year old girl and people at school have started to call me a lesbian even though I'm NOT just because I've never dated anyone and have few guy friends. It's hurtful and I don't know what to do. HELP!
There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian but I understand being called something your not. A little snappy comeback is when someone calls you a lesbian, "what...are you afraid I'll steal your girlfriend because I'm better than you?" One other thing I wonder, is the company that you keep at school. Do you hang out with the butch looking or dark lonely girls? School kids have always and will never stop being cruel and judgmental. If you act like it doesn't bother you and eventually make fun of yourself, they'll be left with nothing to say to you anymore. I hope this helps and good luck.
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will boys like me if i have big breast
More than likely they will give you all the wrong attention. Anything they do that's nice to you, will probably be because they want the chance to see your breasts. So it will always be harder to separate who's genuinely being nice to you and who's trying to cop a feel. If you want all the wrong attention and attract the jerks, then show off your breasts all you want but if you want the boys who treat you right and respect you, keep them hidden in public. I hope this helps and good luck.
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will boys like me if i have big breast
More than likely they will give you all the wrong attention. Anything they do that's nice to you, will probably be because they want the chance to see your breasts. So it will always be harder to separate who's genuinely being nice to you and who's trying to cop a feel. If you want all the wrong attention and attract the jerks, then show off your breasts all you want but if you want the boys who treat you right and respect you, keep them hidden in public. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Everytime I get drunk I do outargeously stupid sexual thongs with people I know and each time I regret and am ashemed but then I still do It the next time and bi never learn but I always regreat!!
What is wrong with me? Why do I always have to do sexual things with guys evthat I know! Even tho I always regreat and feel ashemd the next day
Why don't I learn?
I think there's 2 things going on. I think you're unhappy at home or with some other aspect of your life. You need to find out what's making you sad and try fix it. The other thing is there's a part of you that likes acting slutty and the alcohol gives you the perfect way to act out your fantasies. I went though a period when I was pretty slutty but I didn't care what people thought and I didn't drink so much I would loose control. If you want to act that way but do care what other people think, try not doing it a party and do it away from where people know you. I hope this helps and good luck.
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