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This sounds stupid even writing only I should know the answer but here I am anyways. I am recently getting divorced I have been separated going on 9 months there are no feelings for my ex our marriage ended way before that. I started going on a dating website site because I had moved to another state where I did not know anyone. I did meet a guy we've been talking for several months since November he quit his job in December just started working again a few days because I told him I'd leave him if he didn't find a job we'd go out I'd pay for everything he'd run around to some stores with me ask me for money he was asking me to buy him cigarettes until I told him no. He is very sarcastic. In return I role my eyes I've tried breaking up with him several times he begs me to stay not leave him he wants to be there for me and my kids be a father figure for my kids. I tend to look at other guys. Think their cute which I'd never do before because I find it being unfaithful.. I'm just looking for advice



You need to call it off

He is a moocher and isnt only a good role model for you, he sets a bad example for your kids. Sadly, When people mooch, All to often do they become used too it.

He isnt right for you, he isnt right for your kids.
You owe it too yourself to find someone who is serious, stable and respects you. Someone who ask for money, No.

Cut him loose, Find someone else

Go out with friends, Maybe ask them to tag any single friends along. Friends of friends etc

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(Rating: 5) Thank you only problem is I don't have any friends were I live.
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