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So I'm 15 and I want to be pregnant... I don't know what to do...btw I'm single. For the past couple months I've wanted to have a baby... I need some advice! Please help!!!
Part of the fun of being a woman is that you can get pretty broody at times. That's because your body WANTS you to reproduce. You're 15, so you're at a stage where your hormones are flying around and kicking you right in the ovaries and that is normal. In times of old girls your age did have babies, they also didn't tend to live past 40.
These days, there isn't a rush to have a baby. The likelihood is that you're going to live until AT LEAST 80. That's another 65 years. Do you really want to look back in 65 years time and realise you only had 15 years to yourself?
Yes, people have kids young and often do a great job. I'm not about to judge anyone's decisions. But 15 is young. You can't even drive, or vote, pay taxes, get anything more than a part time job...Do you see where I'm going with this one?
It's okay to want a baby. Hell, I'm 22 and I am SO broody. Even if my boyfriend was on board with the idea, which he definitely is not, then our combined salaries barely stretch to feed, clothe and house the two of us, let alone a demanding infant.
Wait it out. Get a pet if necessary. One day you'll probably make an excellent parent, but not right now.
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Thank you!!! I was soooo stupid and i know it now but you saved me from having a baby i would hate if i had it now!
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