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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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So me 17and my boyfriend 18 have been dating for 1 year.He decited he wanted to try anal.which I agreed to but the only problem was he couldn't get it in and ended up raming it on my butt but he didn't get it in.we are both virgins and have no Idea what to do so if someone could help me and tell me how it works that would be great.Also what's your opinion on anus because I have no idea on how it feels.

Take it from a female standpoint when I tell you that anal sex really isn't all that bad. I first tried it with my ex-boyfriend, and I didn't like it at all with him. I didn't know if it was the size of his penis, the position we were in, or just the lack of lubrication from anything other than the condom, but it wasn't enjoyable for me. However, with my current boyfriend, I tried it, and even though it hurt at first, it was something I got used to. We actually do anal quite a bit. Anyways....

When deciding to try anal, make sure that you're completely trusting of the person you're doing it with, and make sure that it's something YOU want to do. It can't just be a one sided thing where you do it to appease him and make him happy. You also need to be on board because you are the one the act is being performed on.

The best way to do it is to work your way up to it. Start with fingers during sex or oral and see how it feels. If you're relaxed and find it's something you enjoy, go for it. When you first try it, tell him to go slow, and to be gentle as you're putting something in a place it's not really meant to go into. Make sure that you're relaxed as well because if your body is tense, it's going to hurt, and you'll feel uncomfortable which will lead you to probably not liking it. Just take the necessary steps, and don't jump into it straight away. You should be fine.

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(Rating: 5) You are awesome! Than you! We had success and I loved it! The third time was my best orgasm ever in my life! (Shhh don't tell anyone) ;)

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