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[19F]
Im in a long distance relationship for 1 year now. when he left in January, it kinda felt a little different.
He keeps telling i should find someone better and that i deserve better. He also said he wants me to be skinnier and says I sometimes look ugly when i dont do my hair. He also broke up with me a few times (at least i thought he did)
I told him like 4 times, that if he does this again to me, i wont come back. yeah like i said i did that 4 times, i always forgive him.
Now he did it again, told me his "Im-gonna-break-up-with-you-speech" again and that hurt me so much.
I told him that this really hurts me and he didnt even apologize. he was just like "ok.sorry"
We said that i will visit him in summer again, and he still wants me to come. I mean i want to come too, but it cant go on like that right?
I really dont know what to do...
Thank you for reading that, I appreciate every advice
He's abusive
No guy that truly cares about someone would EVER care about their appearance. This guy is a classic asshole who is controlling and manipulative. Guess what, You don't owe him shit. If someone can't except you for who you are as a person, Then you shouldn't be with them to begin with. It is NOT about how you look, It's about who you are. Find someone who loves you for YOU as a person and appreciates you. Who gives a flying shit about your hair or your weight, It's not what matters. I feel sorry for this jerk I really do, Good luck to him on ever finding anyone who is willing to accept that bullshit. Stop forgiving him, Stop talking to him period. Cut him loose and move on
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I wish it was that easy. :( I don't know why it is so hard to leave but I will find a way.