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I am talking to a old bf i used to have 5 years ago. We have been talking for about a month and the sparks are flying high for one another. A couple of days ago he had asked me for a picture, so i gave it to him. Yesterday he had asked me for another one, I said no because I had 0 and he had 1. He of course pleaded and begged me to give him one. So I asked for my friends advice and she said just to give him one. I ended up giving him 3 pictures b/c my friend said they all looked nice. I was waiting for him to give me one of him but he never did. that night he called me just wanting to talk. While we were on the phone he was texting someone, for some reason I have the feeling that he was texting another girl because what guy at night while he is talking to a girl be texting a guy? Am i right?! LOL I pretended like it didn't bother me or i didn't notice. While i was on the phone with him all of the sudden it went silent like i was placed on hold...so i just hung up ...After my night shift ended and i was driving home thinking about what happened last night i feel like the idiot that gave him 4 pictures in total when i don't have any! and the texting thing while i was on the phone also bothers me....I'm so mad and so hurt that i just started to ignore him...well i guessed he noticed because now his text says why are you ignoring me? and idk what to reply!!
Please help...btw I know for a fact he doesn't have a gf
You are over thinking the situation
You both aren't dating, If he wants a picture of you don't give him one. You are not obligated to give anything to him nor do you owe him anything. If he IS interested in you, Then he will make you a priority and effort to contact you. I would maybe hold off on how much you give out to him, Hold off on what you tell him etc. There shouldn't be any rush, I disagree with this friend of yours. Sparks don't fly out of revealing pictures of yourself. Sending photo's maybe will make him want you more and if it does, Then you know it was for all the wrong reasons. Don't give yourself out to be easy or desperate, If he is ignoring you then fuck him all together. It could be possible that he has a girlfriend or someone else he is talking too. If you really want to know if he likes you for you then hold off and see if he reaches out too you. Stop contacting him and wait too see if he comes around, If not then move on. If you both end up meeting up, Take things slow. Taking it slow is how you will find out of he is really into you or not or if he is playing you while he has another chick on the side.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much for your opinion it really helped a lot