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Hey everyone :)
I'm sorry if I offend you in any way in this question.
I started to think it would be amazingly problem solving if the world did end on December 21.
Now there's something you all need to know before you answer this, angrily.
I'm a very happy person, I love my family, I love everyone. I just see my life, & everyone's life, as pointless. Everything I care about, everyone I love, is not permanent. Everything dies, nothing lasts forever. So I don't see the point in caring so much about a life that is so unimportant as the ones we lead. This is something that really worries me at times. I feel like my thoughts are very negative, me being the happy, very grateful & thankful person that I am. My own thoughts confuse me sometimes, though.
I think that with all of these people I see on Facebook with completely naked pictures & people saying they hate their parents, bath salts, babies with iPhones, people who don't say I love you to their parents because its "embarrassing", crimes committed every day that involve deaths, people with no confidence, peer pressure, jealousy, addiction, teen pregnancy, rape, shooting in a theatre, shooting of children that could be the next president one day, & just
negativity in general.
I'll tell you one thing. When people commit suicide, I don't feel bad at all. In fact, I don't respect the idea of it at all. It's kind of even funny to me. The only people I would cry over taking their own life is a schizophrenic. They all have a good reason to want to die. They're trapped in their own brain. The brain is such an important thing to have control over. It literally summons up everything that ever happens for you (if you're confused, watch the movie "The Secret") and to not have control over it, you're basically as good as dead, anyway
People take things for granted. I would never take my family or my friends, or anyone who wants to be around me in general, AT ALL for granted. My life is too important to me for me to be spending it with hate.
Keep in mind, I want to live my life. I want to be happy as much as possible. But I can't just sit back & not say anything about the very sad & careless things that happen every day, & the crimes committed toward innocent people every day. This is my first attempt at saying something. Feel free to call me names, speak your mind. I want to know what people think.
Is it bad that I feel this way? Am I the only one? Am I wrong?
Any comments/opinions are appreciated.
If in any way, this upsets you, please let me know why.
Thank you for reading :) & have a nice day :D
No, It isn't all bad you feel this way.
It's the truth but on the other hand we also need to remember all the people that have never had the chance to live. We were all put here for a reason. We may not be permanent but we maybe we are meant to change someone else life, Maybe we are meant to save a life, Help someone, Make a difference or even just set an example. Sometimes it's better to be thankful for what we have, To enjoy life and to love memories that come of it. People that we love, We should be thankful once again that we got the chance to know them, love them and be apart of their lives. Hurt, Lies, Betrayal are all apart of creation, Identity and morphing people into who they are or become. Life isn't about dwelling on what is but rather cherishing memories and creating them.
I used to feel this way, I realized as I got older that life isn't about what if, It's about living and making the best of things. There is a reason why I am here and that reason I may never know, but while I AM here I must be the best I can be. I n my lifetime I have lost 143 lbs in less then 2 years. Now I am handing in down by doing public seminars for those who need motivation and advice on how to loose weight. Well, I feel personally that maybe this is apart of my path too life. To help others, To motivate them and to pass down a life experience that not many have. We each have a reason, We just need to find it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you :) this really was helpful