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I am straight to the point, My advice is given based on my opinions of what YOU write. I may not always tell you what you want to hear but I am not here to sugar coat shit.
I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.
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I love my boyfriend vry much,and wants to marry him. we r dating each othr for 2yrs. but i lied to him about my past that i don't had any relationshp in past. actually i had a relatn when i jst 13/14 years old. my x bf was very rude and tortured me a lot mentally and physically ..and aslo sexually. so i ended the relation.after few yrs i met in online with my present boyfriend.and started love him. when he proposed me i said yes to him. but i can't tell him about my past and i also tell him that i am a virgin.i was afraid to lose him bcz he is very orthodox.so i can't tell about my dark past.now he knows everything from a person.and asked me and i told him everything about my life. now he can't trust me,he call me a sl*t,, and he said that
i deceived him and used him.he now wants to break the relationship or IF I WANTED TO BE WITH HIM THEN I HAVE TO DO WHATEVER HE WILL SAY. AND ALSO LEAVE MY STUDY AND MARRY HIM AND BE A GOOD HOUSE WIFE.AND he tell me that this my exam. if i passed then he love me again .but i can't leave my study at this time. so he don't talk with me .I really love him a lot.i can't live without him.what can i do??? plz suggest me ..
I do agree with Adviceman, Your boyfriend's demands are a bit unreasonable.
Unfortunately, You should never lie to people. If a person is religious, It still should not give a reason to lie about who you are, what you've done and where you've come from. It's either they except you for who you are or they just aren't the right person to be with.
Sounds like the boyfriend you have now is not only religious but a bit controlling with extremely high expectations? You see, You aren't an object and he does not own you, nobody does.
I am happy to hear you two have been together for awhile but I would most certainly set some boundaries between the two of you. If you don't, This may end up turning into either A, A miserable relationship or B, A very unhappy marriage.
If he can't learn to let you become you, Then he isn't the right one for you. However my dear, I don't think you should ever feel the need to lie as everyone has made their fair share of mistakes.
(Rating: 4) thanks for ur valuable advice