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I'm sorry this is a bit of a long read :3
My best friend, let's call her Z, is really pissing me off. I am known as the "nerdy, cute, gamer" girl (that's just who I am). There is a guy who has a crush on me (I kind of like him but I'm not sure), and she tries to get close to him just because she knows he likes me (she doesn't have a crush on him, I'm sure)! Every time in front of him, she acts like she is also a "nerdy, cute, gamer" type of girl when she's not at all! She always starts conversations online like, "oh sorry, i was gaming" (PLAYING GTA ONE TIME DOESN'T MAKE YOU A GAMER!!). In front of me, when I say something with words she doesn't understand or a character that's "too nerdy" for her to know, she just says she doesn't know what I'm talking about. But in front of others, she pretends she understands everything. She seems to do this in front of every group of people, in front of the populars, she acts popular, in front of the emos, she acts emo. She's always trying to establish herself as a certain "type", and it's different in front of different people! I love her to death, but she's really getting on my nerves?
Sounds to me she is a little on the fake side and is trying to be something she's not to seek approval and acceptance. Have you spoken to her about this? Tell her you noticed she ia changing, Assure her you like her as a friend for who she is. It would irritate me as well if my friend was being fake... frankly, If someone was flirting in front of a giy I liked just because she knew I liked him, I'd think she's jealous.
Sounds to me like she wants attention. She seems to be jealous of you because a guy is interested in you. You need to talk to her, If she doesn't want to fix her flaws then it may be time to back off.
(Rating: 5) thanks bunches :)