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So me and my boyfriend of a year and a half who I was madly in love with broke up last week. He broke up with me. I thought i would be devastated but i was more relieved. I knew we would be friends but It would take time. we play games with eachother on our ipads and i decided i needed a break before I was ready to talk to him again. I just wanted to figure things out. So over the week he kept nudging me on the game to play since it was my turn. I just ignored it. so today he texted me asking if i was ready to talk. which is so sweet because it shows me he really misses me as i do him but im not ready. I still want my space. I kind of like this space. I told him no and he said he hopes the day im ready to talk to him again comes soon. I feel so guilty.. I feel like he's really sad and i dont want him to be sad. I love him but i want more space. I was planning on texting him in about a week and a half from today but now i feel pressured that I should do it sooner and I'm worried he'll forget/move on and not care about me if i wait another week and a half.
what do you guys think? Any opinions are greatly appreciated! thanks so much!
p.s im 21 and he's 29 if that helps!
Sounds to me that your heart isn't really into the relationship sweetie, Your head hungry.
If you do decide to talk to him eventually, Maybe keep things at a slow pace for awhile. Nobody needs to spend 24.7 with someobe as this is how a relationship becomes exhausted. If you rekindle things, Take your space if you need it. Go off with the girls and let him hang out with the guys or go do something you enjoy. Also to put it out there, If he truly wanted to be with you then he would wait around for you. Space is important and keeps a relationship healthy.
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! I really love the last thing you said. I agree. If I mean something to him a week and a half won't change anything! Thanks so much again!!