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we've been dating for about a year things have been good but sometimes i question why he hasn't officially said we're in a relationship? mind you he's one of my good friends younger brother my guy always chased me through the years until i finally decided to give him a chance. well we really clicked and now i feel like we could have a future together. he's a bit younger i'm 34 and ready to settle down he's 31 and still drinks and apparently smokes weed and likes to flirt with girls when he's out with the boys something i found out last night from my other best friend (male) who i think secretly has a crush on me who also happens to be friends with my guy ( we all grew up together). now i'm sad hurt confused and angry. I don't want to lose him but i don't want to get played and risk yet another heartbreak. please help.
Here are my 2 cents
Judging by what was written, He sounds a bit immature. I know you are not me but this guy certainly wouldn't be my cup of tea.
Anyone who smokes weed and flirts around would raise concerns to whether they would be mature enough. It all really depends, What are your expectations in a relationship and what do you want from a partner? You are asking us if you are wasting your breath but the real question is does this man satisfy what you are looking for? Is he the ideal man for you? Are you okay with him smoking and flirting? Only YOU know what you want.
If it bothers you, Talk to him. Tell him you aren't comfortable with the idea of him smoking and you are bothered with him flirting with other women. Either he reapects your boundaries or you need to go fishing for a new fish.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much love your advice it really made me see a new perpective. i like him but i want more. i'm looking for a more serious relstionship he claims he's ready but actions speak louder than words. so time for me to go back to the drawing board. thanks again.