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Ok.14/F Well, for the last couple of weeks I've kind of been down. I went through terrible bullying my 7th grade year and I will be a 8th grader next year.I was tortured that whole year by a girl who said I really just want to kill her and what I thought were my best friends who always made me a second choice for everything. Well, I went to counseling for 8 months and I was cured from my chronic depression and I was happy again, but Yes i do think I'm not the smallest person because I have shape I think that I'm not pretty and I get called "emo" a lot because my hair is short and I get called annoying to be around because I act myself around basically everyone but I personally don't think of myself as beautiful even though I tell a lot of people themselves that they are beautiful. People and friends think I'm beautiful and I have a great personality but I worry about what others think too much but I am confident about my personality but I don't have many friends I could probably count them on one hand but I feel like I need a answer. Help?
You're insecure, That's basically what it all comes down too.
You pretty much described me at 14. TRUST ME, You shouldn't give a flyin shit what people think of you. The wirld isn't about satisfying other people, It's about YOU. Be yourself, Be happy. If someone can't except that then find someone who will. Guess what? People who bully are also people with low self esteem. Please, They ain't shit but a shadow finding an image. Yup, I was the victim of bullying for 12 years.
Also, Who cares if people call you "emo" It doesn't matter. Reality isn't about who thinks what. High school is a word of stereotypes and hypocrites. 99% of the population are clueless airheads that have not a clue how the real world works.
Stop caring so much, You will benefit and go far if you don't. If you laugh off the bullshit you will find life gets easier.
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I will take that into consideration.