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hi so my bf and i were together 3 months and he was so protective to the point he wouldnt let me go to the bar with my friends or talk to my guy friends, he also got really mad when i told my closest friends about the problems we were having so i broke up with him but about two weeks later we got back together and he promised things would be different and i believed him... now its been about a month and the things aren't changing. He's still really jealous and he always gets really mad at me when he's drunk . a couple days ago he went through my phone... if a person goes through your phone that means to me there is no trust any more and he says it isnt that but what else could it be. thats a big thing for me so i told him i need time to think if i want to be with him or not. since then ive got tons of texts saying thats over and he gets one more chance and he will change. will he change of is this just a bad cycle?


Please, i need someones advice :(
Kaaitlyn



Hello Sweetie,

He may say he will change but it will take a lot longer then 2 weeks. He violated your privacy, He doesn't trust you and admitted it too you.

To tell someone they can't hangout with friends isn't just a sign of jealousy but he is controlling and bullying you. Nobody has a right to tell someone who they can and can't be friends with.

If someone went through my phone out of lack of trust....That would be the end of it. Invasion of privacy is not acceptable. He needs to work on himself before he can work on a relationship. Maybe see if one of your guy friends are available ...

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